# Michael Heppell: full site index > Michael Heppell is a UK-based motivational speaker, performance coach, and > bestselling author, best known for the "How to Be Brilliant" series. He > delivers keynotes and in-house programmes on high performance, motivation, > productivity, customer service, and leadership to organisations worldwide. > > This is the full-content companion to https://www.michaelheppell.com/llms.txt. It lists every book > and every article with a short summary, so answer engines can map and > understand the complete corpus. ## About - Role: Author, speaker and coach - Signature work: "How to Be Brilliant" (Pearson), a multi-edition bestseller - About page: https://www.michaelheppell.com/about ## Work with Michael - Keynote speaking: https://www.michaelheppell.com/speaking - One-to-one coaching: https://www.michaelheppell.com/coaching - In-house programmes for organisations: https://www.michaelheppell.com/in-house - Contact and booking enquiries: https://www.michaelheppell.com/contact ## Books - 17: Your Ultimate Guide to a Better, Brilliant You: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/17-your-ultimate-guide-to-a-better-brilliant-you 17 shows you how to unlock success through 17-minute sprints, 17-day projects and 17% improvements for maximum productivity and achievement. - How to Have a Brilliant Life: Put a Little Bit More In Get So Much More Out: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/how-to-have-a-brilliant-life-put-a-little-bit-more-in-get-so-much-more-out How to Have a Brilliant Life helps you focus on what matters, make lasting changes and create your best possible life - How to Be Brilliant: Change Your Ways in 90 Days!: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/how-to-be-brilliant-change-your-ways-in-90-days Provides powerful strategies to help you move from average to brilliant, as quickly as possible, with as much fun as possible. - 5 Star Service: How to Deliver Exceptional Customer Service: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/5-star-service-how-to-deliver-exceptional-customer-service 5 Star Service delivers 100+ tips and strategies to delight customers, outshine competitors and drive repeat business. - See, Smile, Say Hello: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/see-smile-say-hello Exceptional service isn’t about gimmicks. It’s about human connection. In his new book See, Smile, Say Hello, Michael Heppell shows you exactly how to master it. - How to Save an Hour Every Day: guaranteed: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/how-to-save-an-hour-every-day-guaranteed How to Save an Hour Every Day offers simple, powerful strategies to beat procrastination, streamline tasks and reclaim your precious time. - The Edge: How The Best Get Better: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/the-edge-how-the-best-get-better The Edge by Michael Heppell reveals the habits and mindset of top achievers, helping you unlock success and continuous improvement. - Write That Book: How to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/write-that-book-how-to-write-publish-and-sell-your-book Write That Book by Michael Heppell is a step-by-step guide to writing, publishing, and selling your book, turning your dream into reality. - Flip It: How to Get the Best Out of Everything: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books/flip-it-how-to-get-the-best-out-of-everything Flip It - How to get the best out of everything shows you how to switch your thinking, overcome challenges and get the best from every situation. - Full catalogue: https://www.michaelheppell.com/books ## The Brilliant Blog Ideas on motivation, productivity, customer service and leadership. Index: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog - Why put a bath there?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-put-a-bath-there Fancy hotels love impressive features, but do customers actually value them? A look at statement baths, £5 minibar snacks and why hospitality businesses should invest in people before things. Key takeaways: Fancy hotel features might look impressive, but do customers actually value or use them? | Customers notice brilliant people more than expensive features. | Every design decision creates an operational consequence. | Investing in your team makes it easier for them to deliver brilliant service. | Invest in the person before the thing. - You Don’t Have To Feel Like It: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-dont-have-to-feel-like-it You don’t have to feel motivated to get started, confident to take action or positive to move forward. Sometimes we have the order wrong. Change the behaviour first and your feelings may follow. Discover how one simple question can help: What would the behaviour of the person you want to be look like? Key takeaways: Action can create motivation – You don’t always need to feel motivated before you begin. Getting started can create the motivation you were waiting for. | Confidence often follows action – Do the confident thing first. The feeling of confidence can arrive afterwards. | Focus on behaviour – Instead of asking how you want to feel, ask: What would the behaviour of that person be? | Make the first step tiny – Take the first 20 steps. Start for five minutes. Small actions overcome the need to “feel like it”. | Let your feelings catch up – Feelings sometimes lead, but often they follow. Don’t wait for the feeling. Start with the behaviour. - When It’s OK to Complain: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-its-ok-to-complain It’s OK to complain. The trick is knowing what deserves one. Save your complaints for the big things and practise being grateful for the little things. Key takeaways: It’s OK to complain when something is unfair, standards slip or something genuinely needs to change. | Complaining becomes a problem when it becomes your default setting. | Practising gratitude for small, everyday things helps put bigger frustrations into perspective. | Gratitude doesn’t mean pretending everything is wonderful or accepting poor standards. | Don’t waste a good complaint on something that doesn’t deserve one. - How to Choose the Right Keynote Speaker: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-choose-the-right-keynote-speaker Not all keynote speakers are the same. Discover seven practical tips to help you choose a speaker who will engage your audience and deliver lasting value. Key takeaways: 1. Start with the outcome. Before you choose a speaker, decide what you want your audience to think, feel or do differently afterwards. | 2. Choose substance over story. An extraordinary life story is only valuable if it gives your audience practical ideas they can use. | 3. Insist on preparation. The best keynote speakers don’t deliver the same talk everywhere. They take time to understand your event, your culture and your people. | 4. Beware inspiration without action. Inspiration has a half-life. Look for a speaker who gives your audience tools they’ll still be using long after the applause has faded. | 5. Trust matters. You’re not just booking a speaker. You’re choosing someone to represent your event, your message and your audience. Choose someone you’d trust with all three. - How to Start Writing Your Book: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-start-writing-your-book Learn how to start writing your first book with practical advice from Sunday Times No.1 bestselling author Michael Heppell, who has helped hundreds of new authors get published. Key takeaways: 1. Stop waiting and start writing. Most people don’t fail because they lack talent or ideas. They fail because they never begin. | 2. Write about what you care about. The strongest books come from your passion, your experience and the lessons only you can share. | 3. Your first draft doesn’t have to be good. It simply has to exist. Give yourself permission to write shite and improve it later. | 4. Forget finding more time. Schedule your writing like any other important appointment and protect it. | 5. Focus on the next 17 minutes. You don’t have to write a whole book today. You just have to write until the timer goes off. - Customer Service Training: What Should It Cover?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/customer-service-training-what-should-it-cover What great customer service training actually covers, from noticing the customer to handling complaints, by the UK's best-selling customer service author. Key takeaways: Notice customers quickly. Acknowledgement changes how waiting feels. | Listen for the need behind the question. The customer may need reassurance as well as an answer. | Be specific. Clear expectations build confidence. | Take ownership. Don't make customers navigate your organisation alone. | Reinforce the training. Service improves when leaders model and recognise the right behaviour. - 7 Questions AI Taught Me to Ask: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/7-questions-ai-taught-me-to-ask The real power of AI isn’t its answers. It’s the questions it encourages you to ask. Here are seven prompts I use that will transform the way you think and make decisions. Key takeaways: 1. AI’s greatest strength isn’t giving better answers – it’s helping you ask better questions. | 2. The quality of your thinking often depends on the quality of the questions you ask. | 3. Use AI to challenge your ideas, uncover blind spots and test assumptions, not just to find information. | 4. Simple questions often lead to the biggest breakthroughs, especially when they reveal what you’ve overlooked. | 5. Better questions lead to better decisions – whether you’re talking to AI, your team or yourself. - You can't trick your way into trust: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-can-t-trick-your-way-into-trust Customers can forgive mistakes, delays and disappointment. What destroys trust is dishonesty. Treat people like they’re smart, communicate clearly and remember: honest will always beat impressive. Key takeaways: 1. Customers can spot fake scarcity, weak excuses and dishonest sales tactics. | 2. Honesty builds more trust than carefully polished corporate language. | 3. Customers will forgive mistakes, delays and disappointment when businesses tell the truth. | 4. Trying to appear clever can leave customers feeling manipulated or played. | 5. You may trick someone into making a purchase, but you cannot trick them into trusting you. - What’s your Accidental Competence?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-your-accidental-competence Discover how unexpected problems build accidental competence, reveal hidden capability, confidence and useful skills you never planned to learn. Key takeaways: Problems often reveal abilities you didn’t know you had. | Confidence grows when you act before you feel ready. | Useful skills are often learned through necessity, not planning. | You don’t need to become a professional to value a new skill. | Every solved problem leaves you more capable than before. - 60 Things To Do In My 60th Year: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/60-things-to-do-in-my-60th-year It's my 59th birthday, I’m collecting 60 ideas for experiences, challenges and adventures for my 60th year on the planet. What would you add? Key takeaways: Mark a milestone birthday by building a list of challenges, not just noting the date | Use prompts like brave, kind, silly and creative to spark ideas that stretch you | Include a fear to face, someone to meet and something you keep putting off | Ask friends or your community for suggestions rather than trying to think of everything yourself | You don't have to complete every idea on the list, gathering them is the first step - Don’t plan your second half yet: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dont-plan-your-second-half-yet Key takeaways: At the halfway point of the year, review what you've achieved before planning what's next. | Ask yourself what you've achieved, not just what you haven't done yet. | Gaps shout for attention, but gains whisper, so look out for the quiet wins too. | Notice the small stuff: a call you made, a decision you took, a lesson learned the hard way. | Even if it feels like you've gone backwards, you've still learned something worth counting. - Have You Ever Been Sacked?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/have-you-ever-been-sacked Key takeaways: Being sacked, made redundant or pushed out is what happened, not who you are | Real strength is being honest about the knock, not pretending you're fine | Separate the event from the meaning you attach to it: one thing happened, you decide what it means | Ask yourself 'How could I use this?' once you're ready, rather than forcing a fake positive spin straight away | Treat a job loss as a chapter, not the whole book, so it doesn't define your identity - Switching on Lights in a Power Cut: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/switching-on-lights-in-a-power-cut Changing habits is like switching on lights in a power cut. You know better, but you’re wired. Test this - Pause, notice, choose differently. One switch at a time. Key takeaways: Old habits are automatic, not logical, so knowing better rarely stops you doing the old thing anyway. | A habit wired in over years won't vanish just because you've decided it should. Be patient with yourself. | Don't just try to stop a habit. Replace it, interrupt it, or stack a new one onto an old one. | Attach new habits to existing routines, put a book where your phone lives, stretch after brushing your teeth. | The goal isn't never touching the switch. It's noticing sooner and choosing differently in that gap. - You Don’t Have To Be On The Pitch: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-dont-have-to-be-on-the-pitch Key takeaways: Winning teams succeed because of everyone involved, not just the eleven people in the spotlight | The people who train hard, boost morale and stay ready even when unpicked still make the team win | Recognise the backroom staff and quiet contributors behind any big achievement, they matter as much as the stars | Show up and give your best even if you are not in the starting lineup, in family, work or community | Encouraging others and sharing generously creates the environment where everyone succeeds together - When is it acceptable to be late?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-is-it-acceptable-to-be-late Key takeaways: Match your arrival time to the occasion: a business meeting rewards being sensibly early, an interview rewards arriving well ahead. | For a dinner party, turning up a little after the stated time can be the more thoughtful choice. | Time urgency and the planning fallacy explain why some people build in margin while others always underestimate how long things take. | Your relationship with time is really about uncertainty and control, not just punctuality itself. | There's no single right way to run your time, decide which camp you're in and own it. - Be an Editor’s Nightmare: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/be-an-editors-nightmare Key takeaways: Don't confuse volume with value: cut anything that doesn't earn its place, however much you've written. | Share your best ideas now, not later. People buy because of what they've already seen, not what you're hiding. | Confident, generous experts share freely because they know one idea isn't their entire value. | Bring your best attention, kindness and service to everyday moments, not just the special occasions. | Test your work by asking if 30% could be removed and barely be noticed. If so, that's your edit. - Because New Year's Resolutions don’t work…: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/because-new-year-resolutions-dont-work Seven gentle weekly focuses instead of New Year resolutions: small actions, honest questions, quiet kindness and enjoyment without agenda. Pick one day, do one idea, keep what fits. Key takeaways: Pick one small focus for one day a week instead of a big resolution. | Spend one day not complaining, criticising or condemning, even in your own head. | Do a kind act for someone else without expecting acknowledgement or thanks. | Give yourself an hour of quiet thinking each week, no phone, no scrolling. | Test each idea for a week and keep only the ones that feel like you. - Could You See The Chicken?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/could-you-see-the-chicken Key takeaways: Once you spot a pattern, you can't unsee it, but not everyone will spot it the same way | Accept that some people will never see what you see: not your opinion, belief or way of looking at the world | You can't see someone else's point of view any more easily than they can see yours | Sometimes the kindest, most useful move is to let someone believe there's no chicken, even when you know there is - He Walked To The South Pole: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/he-walked-to-the-south-pole Key takeaways: Accepting that things cannot get any worse can shift your mindset and help you keep going. | Surviving an ordeal does not prove a superior mindset, those who stopped may have made the wiser choice. | Being your best means knowing when to push, when to adapt and when to stop. | Quitting after you have genuinely tried your best is a different story to quitting without trying. - How are you with names?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-are-you-with-names Key takeaways: Always ask how to spell or pronounce a name rather than guessing, then repeat it back to check. | A person's name carries their identity, family, culture and history, so it's worth the effort. | Asking someone to help you pronounce their name properly is respectful, not awkward. | If you get a name wrong, simply apologise, correct yourself and move on, no fuss needed. - I have a new job!: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-have-a-new-job Key takeaways: The secret of living is giving: look for ways to contribute something lasting beyond yourself. | Meaningful projects often take months of quiet work behind the scenes before any public announcement. | North East Roots aims to recruit 100 Ambassadors over three years to give back through story, expertise or funding. | Announcing a big goal publicly, to a wide audience, creates real accountability to follow through. - Is Efficiency Overrated?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-efficiency-overrated Key takeaways: Some things are worth doing slowly, properly, or simply because they matter to you | Repairing rather than replacing builds understanding, problem solving skills and a sense of pride | Reading a whole book beats a summary: you absorb the thinking, follow the argument and notice the nuance | Efficiency isn't always the goal. Depth is often the real reward, not speed | This weekend, cook from scratch, fix something small, or read beyond the summary - Is it too hot?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-it-too-hot Key takeaways: Swap extreme words like 'hot' for milder ones like 'cooler', your brain responds differently. | You can't change the weather, or most situations, but you can change how you experience them. | Catch yourself using extreme language and pause before you say it. | Replace 'I don't have the time' with 'I'm finding some time' to shift your mindset. | Replace 'I'm tired' with 'I need a little more energy' and notice the difference. - Looking for proof or looking for truth?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/looking-for-proof-or-looking-for-truth Key takeaways: One exception, like a grandad who smoked and lived to 92, isn't proof, it's a story | Extreme positions feel certain but they cost you the freedom to change your mind | When you notice yourself defending a diet, business model or belief, you've stopped exploring | Test any habit or rule with three questions: does it improve your life, help those close to you, and make the world better | Aim for what actually works for you rather than winning the argument - One to Carry Forward. One to Leave Behind.: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-to-carry-forward-one-to-leave-behind A quieter way to begin the year. Instead of resolutions and pressure, Michael explores a simple idea: choosing one thing to carry forward and one thing to leave behind. Gentle pairings, small decisions and a more realistic way to create lasting change in 2026 Key takeaways: Instead of setting resolutions, ask two simple questions: what to carry forward and what to leave behind | Growth often comes from removing something, not just adding more effort or ambition | Pair a habit, belief, relationship or promise you're keeping with one you're ready to release | Lasting change tends to be quiet, built from small decisions repeated over time, not a perfect plan | Start with just one thing to carry forward and one thing to let go of - Practice when you don’t need it…: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/practice-when-you-dont-need-it Key takeaways: Practise a technique when you don't need it so it's ready when you do. | Rehearse anxiety-reducing or confidence-building techniques while calm, not under pressure. | Repetition builds easy access: rehearse the response and build the habit before the storm hits. | You don't rise to the occasion, you fall to your level of preparation. | Lay the tracks in advance so that when pressure comes, you just do, without having to think. - The £1,000 Spatula: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-1000-spatula Key takeaways: A small saving repeated often, like scraping a bowl clean, compounds into serious value over time | Look for your own financial spatulas: switch off lights, use scrap paper, delay purchases by 24 hours | Small health habits add up too: walk instead of driving, chew each mouthful twenty times, stretch daily | Grow through tiny daily habits: read five pages a day, journal in 50 words, ask more than you tell | Pick just one extra life spatula a day rather than trying to do everything at once - The Battle or The Win?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-battle-or-the-win Key takeaways: What people remember isn't who won, it's the energy and courage you showed getting there | Launches that lose can still build brands, and ideas that come second can still shape the conversation | The win is only for a moment, it's the battle that creates lasting meaning | Chasing certainty and trophies feels safe, but caring about impact is more freeing | If you're in the middle of a rivalry or comparison, remember history is kind to those who show up - The Unspoken Problem With Success: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-unspoken-problem-with-success Key takeaways: The drive that gets you up the mountain can stop you enjoying the view once you're there. | Success has a real price: usually your time, often pressure, sometimes missing out. | The more you create and acquire, the more you rely on others to help you look after it. | Success is personal, so define it in your own terms rather than chasing someone else's version. | Truly successful people are aligned: they know what's important, how much is enough, and what they won't sacrifice. - Use The Difficulty: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/use-the-difficulty Key takeaways: When something goes wrong, don't fight it, use it and make it part of the performance | Swap the question 'why has this happened?' for 'how can I use this?' | Smooth times don't test you, it's the wobbles that invite creativity into the room | A fifteen minute gap, a spare film crew and a missing guest can still become a finished piece of work | Difficulty isn't always the thing that stops you, sometimes it's the thing that makes you - What would ‘Not-Newton Day’ look like?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-would-not-newton-day-look-like What if, once a year, gravity worked in reverse? What would ‘Not-Newton Day’ look like? Key takeaways: Play a 'what if' game with your team to stretch thinking and open up possibility thinking. | Model a few playful, imaginative questions yourself before inviting others to invent their own. | Keep the questions light-hearted; the fun is what cracks open creative thinking. | Once people see the pattern, encourage everyone to create their own 'what if' scenarios. | Use silly, impossible scenarios (reversed gravity, tasting colours) to loosen up rigid, literal thinking. - What’s that word?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-that-word Key takeaways: Forgetting a word you know is called the tip-of-the-tongue state, and it's completely normal | Try the first letter trick: ask what the word starts with and work through the alphabet using baby-letter sounds | Say wrong words out loud, nearby words nudge your brain towards the right one | If nothing works, walk away and do something else, the word often pops back on its own | A blank moment doesn't mean your memory is failing, your brain is just busy, not broken - When Trust Is Put On Trial: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-trust-is-put-on-trial Key takeaways: Loyalty isn't built when things go smoothly, it's decided in how you recover when they go wrong. | When a mistake happens, see the person, stay calm and warm, then take ownership and communicate: the See, Smile, Say Hello method. | No apology and no attempt to help turns one bad moment into a customer lost for good. | Solving a problem fast and fairly, like moving a family to a better place at the same price, builds loyalty that lasts for years. | Ask yourself where your own loyalty was won or lost, then look at what the business did in that moment. - Which Jeans Are You Wearing?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/which-jeans-are-you-wearing Key takeaways: Notice which version of yourself shows up: sharp and focused, just getting by, or letting things slide | Comfort can be a trap. Easy doesn't ask much of you and standards slip without you noticing | Check your standards, not your wardrobe, and decide today what you want them to be | If you've been coasting in your scruffy jeans too long, choose to step into a better version of you - Why We Lie To Ourselves: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-lie-to-ourselves A look at the small lies we tell ourselves, why they feel helpful and how honesty quietly rebuilds self-trust. Key takeaways: The lies that matter most are the ones you tell yourself, usually with good intentions. | Intention is not commitment. Meaning to do something does not count as doing it. | True Will is saying you'll do something and doing it, whatever it takes. False Will promises more than your current willpower can deliver. | Make promises to yourself smaller, more boring and easily repeatable, so you actually keep them. | Small, honest promises kept consistently build self-trust far more than big ambitious ones you break. - Why You Catastrophise: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-catastrophise Key takeaways: Catastrophising is old survival software, not a personal flaw, so go easy on yourself. | Your imagination moves far faster than reality, filling gaps with worst-case stories before the facts arrive. | When you notice yourself catastrophising, pause and ask what you actually know, what you're guessing, and what's most likely true. | Most imagined disasters turn out worse than what actually happens, so wait for the real outcome before you panic. | Silence or an unexplained delay is not evidence of bad news, it's just empty space your brain rushes to fill. - You Can’t Park There: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-cant-park-there Key takeaways: The words you choose matter more than the request itself, especially in customer service | A blunt correction can flatten a moment. Rephrase it as a courteous ask instead | Framing a request warmly protects the other person's dignity, not just the outcome | When service standards fall generally, small acts of thoughtful wording make you stand out | Brilliant service isn't complicated. It starts with choosing better words - Merry Christmas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/merry-christmas-2025 Simple message - A letter to your future elf: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-letter-to-your-future-elf Key takeaways: Write a letter to your future self (or future elf) as a festive twist on a personal development classic. | Keep it short and honest, a paragraph of warm, genuine appreciation is enough. | Seal it and stash it somewhere safe but easy to rediscover, like a drawer or notebook, so it surprises you in January. | Note a couple of gentle requests for the weeks ahead alongside your thanks, it works on you subconsciously. | Let yourself be surprised later. Reading it back is more fun when you were honest the first time. - A Mouthful of Rice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-mouthful-of-rice A reminder that simple moments rest on unseen effort. From hand-picked rice to everyday tasks, noticing the work behind the ease helps us appreciate others and value our own contributions. Key takeaways: Behind every easy, ready-made thing sits hours of hidden, hard work by someone else. | Notice the effort of the people around you: colleagues, delivery drivers, parents, partners, before you judge the result. | Pausing to appreciate hidden labour makes you more grateful and more generous towards others. | If you're the one doing the unseen graft this week, take a moment for yourself, your work matters even when nobody is watching. | Look past the finished plate and recognise the bending, cutting and gathering that made it possible. - If I Had to Sum Up 2025: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-i-had-to-sum-up-2025 Sharing honest lessons on endings, kindness, roots, courage, health, creativity and quiet progress, celebrating family, coaching, walking and growth across a year. Key takeaways: Letting something end well isn't failure, it protects your energy, focus and standards. | Progress often means taking action before you feel ready, not waiting for certainty. | Eating well, thinking well and moving well aren't optional, they're your foundation. | Walking regularly clears your mind and creates space for your best ideas. | Not every important shift needs an announcement, quiet progress counts just as much. - Measure twice. Cut once.: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/measure-twice-cut-once Measure twice, cut once is not just for woodwork. A pause before action saves time, stress and mistakes. Key takeaways: Pause before you act. A measured moment to think creates better decisions and smoother days. | In relationships, take a beat before firing back a sharp reply or message. | Review your health habits often. A quick reset now saves a long correction later. | Double check contracts, renewals and subscriptions before they renew, it could save you money. | Being intentional isn't the same as being slow, it's about setting your future self up to succeed. - No One Cares: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/no-one-cares-2 Key takeaways: When you're late or slip up, most people simply don't notice, so let yourself off the hook. | We waste energy polishing emails, posts and camera angles because we imagine everyone is watching. | Most people are too busy watching themselves to judge your small mistakes. | Showing up imperfectly beats waiting until everything feels perfect and never showing up at all. | Give yourself permission to be a little late, a little messy, and simply be you. - Would You Buy an Invisible Hat?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/would-you-buy-an-invisible-ha Key takeaways: An Invisible Hat is a simple donation, not a physical gift, that funds real winter clothing and support for people sleeping rough. | You don't need a special skill like knitting to help; a small, easy act of generosity can stand beside someone else's hard work. | Turning a kind, practical gesture (like handmade hats) into a way for others to join in multiplies its impact. | Supporting charities such as The People's Kitchen and Changing Lives brings warmth and food to people facing real hardship. | A quick, light-hearted idea can still do something meaningful; fun and impact are not mutually exclusive. - He might have drunk Windowlene: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/he-might-have-drunk-windowlene A pink-mouthed kid, a bottle of Windolene and a lesson in overthinking. When something looks wrong do this... Key takeaways: When something looks wrong, act first and ask questions second, don't wait for certainty. | You'll never have all the facts, so learn to act on what you think might be true. | Waiting for more data, more meetings and more reports lets a problem sit and worsen. | Ask three quick questions: what's the risk of doing nothing, what does your gut say, and what's the smallest safe action you can take now. | Waiting to be certain is often riskier than taking imperfect action. - 25 Reasons to Be Cheerful – Autumn Edition: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/25-reasons-to-be-cheerful-autumn-edition Key takeaways: Use autumn as a natural pause point to notice the small things that lift your mood. | Everyday sparks, not big once in a lifetime moments, are what really brighten a day. | Look for the little joys that cost nothing and take barely any effort, like a handwritten note or a favourite song. | Simple sensory pleasures, the smell of toast, fresh coffee, clean sheets, can shift how a whole day feels. | Notice and say thank you for small kindnesses, a compliment, someone remembering your name, a genuine hug. - Dogs respond better to two-syllable names: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dogs-respond-better-to-two-syllable-names Key takeaways: The claim that dogs respond better to two-syllable names sounds scientific but isn't true, a little research proved it wrong. | We filter what we read through what we already believe, looking for proof we're right rather than evidence we're wrong. | Whether a dog owner accepts or dismisses a 'fact' about dogs often depends on how well behaved their own dog is. | In a world of headlines, half-truths and AI-generated wisdom, pause before accepting something as fact. | Before sharing a convincing claim, ask yourself if it's actually true or if it just feels true because you want it to be. - How you almost took Fiona on holiday 2: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-you-almost-took-fiona-on-holiday-2 A sharp reminder that knowing your lane, and staying in it, matters. A lesson in leadership, collaboration and what happens when opinions collide. Key takeaways: The Kindle was originally named Fiona by its engineers, before marketing stepped in. | Know what you're best at, then let other people do what they're best at. | Strong technical skill in one area doesn't automatically qualify you to make marketing or sales calls. | Keep your non-expert opinions to yourself, especially when someone else owns that lane. | Good collaboration means trusting the specialists in each role, not overruling them with your own view. - I ate a live razor clam: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-ate-a-live-razor-clam When was the last time you tried a food you’d never tasted before? The moment you jump into jeopardy, you remind yourself that growth, connection and possibility live on the other side of even the smallest risk. Key takeaways: Small risks, like trying an unfamiliar food, build the habit of taking bigger ones | Notice the difference between safety risks and human risks: rejection, asking, speaking up | We avoid asking questions or making calls because we assume the answer will be no | Most of the time the worst outcome is small: a no, a taste you dislike, a closed door | The real danger isn't in trying something new, it's in never trying at all - I should be 6' 2": https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-should-be-6-2 Key takeaways: 'Should' focuses your attention on what's missing, not on what's possible. | You can waste a lifetime waiting for life to be as it 'should' be. | Look for the hidden benefits in the things you can't change about yourself. | Success comes from maximising the here, the now and what actually is, not from 'should'. | List your own 'shoulds' and work out how to turn each one into an advantage. - One Year We…: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-year-we Key takeaways: Try something for just one year instead of committing to it forever. | A time limit removes the fear of what happens if you stop or give something up. | Success isn't the point: even keeping part of what you learn still counts as a win. | Give yourself permission to be curious, whether the change sticks or not. | Ask yourself what your own One Year We could be, then start. - The Empty Chair: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-empty-chair Key takeaways: Leave an empty chair in meetings to represent the customer, then ask what they'd think of each decision | Use the chair for different perspectives: your future self in five years, or your toughest critic | Picture your critic sitting there, arms folded, and ask if your decision would stand up to their scrutiny | The empty chair forces you to think beyond your own perspective and hear voices that usually go unheard | Apply the idea to any decision, big or small, in your team, business or personal life - The Power of Context: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-power-of-context A missing word, symbol, or bit of clarity can change everything. Context shapes meaning, emotion and action. Why you should consider the context before you speak, send or pause. Key takeaways: Without clear context, people fill the gap with imagination and confusion, so spell it out | Before you hit send, ask yourself if you have given enough context | Before you speak, ask what you actually want the other person to hear | Before you promote a message or hashtag, check how many ways it could be read | A single missing word or slip in tone can completely change how your message lands - Where do you get your ideas?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/where-do-you-get-your-ideas Key takeaways: Flick through your phone photos, something will spark an idea within a few days | Pick a random book and a random page when you need a brain bump | Ask better questions and listen closely, try 'Why do you do that?' | Build in deliberate quiet time instead of constant podcasts to hear your own original ideas | Write anything for 15 minutes, even rubbish, and a good idea will surface - August Off: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/august-off I’m taking August off to switch off and reboot. Discover why rest isn’t wasted time, how downtime fuels sharper thinking and why a short break can bring you back fresher Key takeaways: Rest isn't wasted time, it's essential: switching off lets your brain's Default Mode Network untangle problems and spark creativity. | Just like athletes take recovery days and nature has hibernation, people need proper downtime to rebuild. | You don't need a whole month off. Even a few days of stepping away from the noise can make a massive difference. | Switching off the scrolling and stepping back helps you come back faster, fitter and fresher, not just online again. | Choose a fallow period on purpose, whether it's a season or a few days, so you return sharper and ready for what's next. - Is it time to hit pause on your podcasts?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-it-time-to-hit-pause-on-your-podcasts Time to pause the podcasts and let your mind breathe with this instead. Key takeaways: If you can't remember what you just listened to, it was noise, not learning | Try a total break from podcasts and audiobooks: just music, or silence | Your brain's default mode network only switches on when you stop taking in new input | That reflective pause is what lets you process, consolidate memories and make creative connections | Give your brain regular mental exhales, not just a constant stream of information - Hentitled 2: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/hentitled-2 A playful peck at people who complain without contributing. This blog explores the rise of the ‘Hentitled’ and offers a cheeky nudge toward empathy, responsibility and thinking beyond yourself. Key takeaways: ‘Hentitled’ people cluck and complain endlessly without putting in any effort themselves | Before you demand better service, pause and consider the other person's point of view | Remember that the contact centre or NHS person you're dealing with is probably overworked too | If you want less rubbish on the street or a better service, start by contributing something yourself | Catch yourself clucking with entitlement and use it as a nudge toward empathy and responsibility - Standing on the scales… twice 2: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/standing-on-the-scales-twice-2 Ever stepped on the scales twice hoping for a better result? Here's a deeper truth about progress, perception and the danger of measuring instead of doing. Key takeaways: Watch for the moment you try to change the circumstance by changing the measure. | A measure exists to check your progress, not to do the work for you. | If you're off track, do the work to fix it, don't fiddle with how it's measured. | Real progress shows up in how you feel and how your clothes fit, not just a number. | Notice the small self-justifications you make when your usual routine slips. - What Paul Daniels taught me about confidence -2: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-paul-daniels-taught-me-about-confidence-2 A chance encounter with a legend, a dash of magic and an unforgettable moment that sparked a new path. This one’s about confidence, kindness and the power of five minutes. Key takeaways: A few minutes of genuine, kind attention can hand someone lifelong confidence. | Take 5 minutes today to give someone a confidence boost and make them feel special. | Even a small gesture of encouragement from someone you admire can spark a whole new path. | You don't need a big favour to make someone feel special, just real attention and kindness. | Skills built in one pursuit (like performing) often transfer into confidence for public speaking and beyond. - 58 lessons at 58: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/58-lessons A joyful, honest and cheeky collection of life lessons I've learned over 58 years. Some profound. Some playful. All real. Dip in. Smile. Nod. Maybe steal one or two. Key takeaways: People remember how you made them feel, not what you said. | Don't wait for motivation, start and the motivation will follow. | Momentum beats motivation, so build small wins that compound. | Get good at endings: they're what people remember most. | Most of the magic happens just after you feel like giving up. - Fred Dibnah's Cameraman: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/fred-dibnahs-camerman Key takeaways: Behind every person who shines is someone working just as hard out of sight to make it happen | Recognise the people who support you, they may be a few steps removed but they're still there | The best leaders, teams and people notice and appreciate the ones who make them look good | Take a moment today to thank your own Martin Lightening, whoever is helping you shine - How one word changed everything : https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-one-word-changed-everything What if changing one word could transform how people think, feel and act? This might just change the way you speak. It could even change the way you live. Key takeaways: Swapping one everyday word, like 'stock' for 'homes', can reshape how a whole team thinks and behaves. | Language doesn't just describe your culture, it creates it, so choose words on purpose. | Try trading harder words for warmer ones: staff for colleagues, complaint for feedback, spend for invest. | Notice when a phrase sounds hollow versus when it lands, then use the version that lands. | Small, deliberate word changes can shift energy, decisions and outcomes without any big campaign. - I always find a parking space - So can you: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-always-find-a-parking-space Circling the car park again? Here's how a simple mindset shift can change what you notice and what you get. It’s not magic. It’s focus, perspective and action. Key takeaways: Visualise a parking space before you arrive, it works more often than you'd think. | This isn't woo woo, it's selective attention: your brain notices what you're focused on. | Expect a full car park and you'll find one, expect a space and you're more likely to spot it. | Setting a clear intention changes how your brain filters information and spots opportunities. | Mixed with action, you genuinely get what you think about, that's psychology, not magic. - One Million Seconds Ago: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-million-seconds-ago Time plays tricks on us. Are you stuck in 'seconds thinking' when progress needs patience? Key takeaways: One million seconds ago was under 12 days, a reminder of how small big numbers can feel | You overestimate what you can do in the short term and underestimate what you can achieve over the long term | If a client expects instant results, they can give up too soon and assume slow progress isn't working | When progress feels slow, ask whether it actually needs more time rather than more speed | Be patient, be consistent, and trust that today's small step is right on schedule - The Cost of Yes: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-cost-of-yes Saying yes can feel kind but at what cost? Explore the hidden price of people pleasing, why no is a superpower and how to protect your energy. Key takeaways: A yes to one thing is always a no to something else, so choose wisely | Saying yes too often or too quickly can cost you time, energy, money and peace | Review your commitments regularly: notice which ones serve you and which ones drain you | Say no wisely and with intention, not rudely, to protect the life you want | Keep a phrase ready to buy yourself time: thank them, decline, and wish them well - 64% still prefer a human - but that won't last: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/64-still-prefer As AI transforms customer service, the balance between bots and humans is shifting fast. Discover why trust, not just technology, will define the next era of great service. Key takeaways: A Gartner survey found 64% of consumers would rather companies didn't use AI for customer service, but that number is shifting fast. | AI is improving quickly, learning to recognise tone, urgency and even frustration, not just handling repetitive tasks. | Decide deliberately whether AI should handle repetition while humans bring the empathy, rather than letting the split happen by accident. | The real question isn't whether AI can simulate empathy well enough, it's whether that's good enough for your customers. | Customer service is evolving, not dying: the winners will be the ones who build trust, not just better systems. - Never Ask for ‘Honest Feedback’: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/never-ask-for-honest-feedback You should never ask for honest feedback. It could be the worst thing to do. Discover a smarter way to grow - one sharp question at a time. Key takeaways: Stop asking for honest feedback: it often invites opinion, not help you can use. | Ask for specific feedback instead, such as one thing you could improve. | Request one focused point rather than ten, so the answer stays actionable. | Ask what wasn't 100% clear to remove confusion instead of inviting broad criticism. | Framing questions this way gives people permission to be constructive, not over critical. - Reasons to Be Cheerful – Part 25: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/reasons-to-be-cheerful-part-25 Inspired by Ian Dury’s 1979 classic, here’s my 2025 remix. A joyful list of life’s small delights. Now it’s your turn. What’s your reason to be cheerful? Key takeaways: Everyday moments, like a stranger's full beam smile or fresh sheets, are genuine reasons to feel cheerful. | Notice small acts of consideration, a delivery driver ringing the bell, a handwritten note, they lift your mood. | Remembering someone's name after meeting them just once shows real warmth and makes a lasting impression. | Simple pleasures, the first perfect sip of tea or catching a favourite song on the radio, are worth savouring. | Start your own list of everyday joys, cheerfulness grows when you notice what already makes you smile. - Your job is not to annoy me: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/your-job-is-not-to-annoy-me Same moment, different story. Life’s annoyances won’t stop - but your response can. Flip frustration into opportunity, reclaim control and practise seeing things through a better lens. Reframing changes everything. Key takeaways: Reframing is a skill: the same moment can become a different story with a different outcome | Stop waiting for the world to behave before you feel good, flip it instead | Turn a traffic jam, an awkward meeting or changed plans into a chance to practise a skill | See criticism as feedback with an edge rather than an attack, and delays as breathing space | The situation itself doesn't change, but reframing it changes your reality, and that's often enough - The True Cost of ‘Thank You’: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-true-cost-of-thank-you Billions of ‘Thank You’ emails are sent daily, costing time, energy and money. But the real cost is when gratitude goes unsaid. Say it. Mean it. Make it count. Key takeaways: Never stop saying thank you, even though the emails add up to billions a day | A quick thank you can build trust, strengthen reputation and leave a lasting impression | The real cost isn't the email, it's the appreciation left unsaid | When you say thank you, mean it and make it count rather than just ticking a box | Unsaid gratitude costs your relationships, your culture and your brand far more than a reply - You don’t like whisky?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-think-dont-like-whisky Think you don’t like whisky? You might just not like the rubbish stuff. Here's a warm, personal story, about taste, patience and the life lessons hidden in a good single malt. Key takeaways: If you think you don't like something, you might just have only tried the poor version of it | Good things rarely arrive through instant gratification, give patience a chance to do its work | You know what you love. Don't let others tell you what you should like | Know when to keep things neat and unfiltered, and when it's right to blend in something extra | There's no single 'best' way to do things, just different ways, and different is wonderful - The Rise Of The Doer: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-rise-of-the-doer What if the secret to success isn’t knowing more - but doing more? Discover why Doers rule the world and how imperfect action could be the key to your next breakthrough. Key takeaways: Knowing what to do isn't the secret to success, doing it is | Start before you have all the information, don't wait to feel ready | There's never a perfect time, so let purpose drive you instead of perfect conditions | Doers make mistakes and backtrack, but staying in the game beats staying on the sidelines | Progress always outruns perfection, so act on that idea you've been sitting on today - Ten new words to add to your vocabulary: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ten-new-words-to-add-to-your-vocabulary Tired of the same old words? Discover ten new ones you didn’t know you needed — from Bragony to Flustercasting. Laugh, relat and add your own. Key takeaways: Catch 'preplaining' early: making excuses before anything's gone wrong rarely helps. | Give any speech a 'wafflectomy': cut the rambling and unnecessary detail out. | Notice 'optigloom': pessimism dressed up as realism still drains the room. | Name the habit of 'dopamining' (endless scrolling for small hits) and it gets easier to break. | Don't be a 'nuggler': give other people room to speak in conversation. - Don’t Talk to Pigeon Fanciers About Ferrets: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dont-talk-to-pigeon-fanciers-about-ferrets Key takeaways: Share your ideas with people who already care about the subject, not a random audience | If something you post lands with silence, you're talking to the wrong crowd, not being boring | Preaching to the converted is a strength: they're the ones who'll listen, share and support you | Find your tribe, the people who buy in fast, and speak directly to them | Stop wasting energy trying to convince people who will never be interested - Hidden in Plain Sight: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/hidden-in-plain-sight Bridget Jones, secret movie moments and missed life opportunities. This Easter, it’s not chocolate you should be hunting… it’s what’s been hiding in plain sight. Key takeaways: Opportunities are often hiding in plain sight, but distraction stops you noticing them | Set aside time to deliberately look for the ideas and openings you keep walking past | Revisit that idea you shelved too quickly, it may still be worth pursuing | Start the 'one-day' project today instead of letting it keep waiting | Ask someone close to you what they notice, they may spot what you miss - has the world gone to sh...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/has-the-world-gone-to The world feels chaotic - tariffs, tech and turmoil. But you control your response. Build a Brilliant Belief System, protect your peace and choose curiosity over fear. Key takeaways: You can't control the news or the economy, but you can control how you react to it | When something rattles you, pause and ask yourself: is this worth my peace? | Flip It: swap 'why is the world like this' for 'what's one brilliant thing I can do right now?' | You're the landlord of your thoughts, so stop letting negative headlines live there rent free | Choose to respond with curiosity instead of fear when the world feels chaotic - See, Smile, Say Hello Quiz: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/see-smile-say-hello-quiz Will you get 10 out of 10 in the See, Smile, Say Hello customer service quiz? - Feel The Width: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/feel-the-width Here's a short video explaining the difference between a signed first edition of See, Smile, Say Hello and the Amazon version (out on May 1st 2025). I’ve tried to make it fun but the message is simple – feel the width! - Styling it out: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/styling-it-out How a stumble in Palma sparks a deeper truth: we all ‘style it out’ sometimes. From wrong turns to forgotten names, it’s not about perfection - it’s about confidence, recovery and keeping going. Key takeaways: Styling out a slip isn't dishonesty, it's your brain's way of protecting your social image | Recovering from a small stumble with confidence beats freezing or over-apologising | Confidence isn't something you have, it's something you do, so keep moving after a mistake | Nobody is watching your slip-ups as closely as you think, so don't overthink them | Being adaptable and able to bounce back matters more than being perfect - When Coincidence Feels Like Magic: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-coincidence-feels-like-magic When life aligns in unexpected ways, is it coincidence -or something more? Discover the power of synchronicity, how to spot it and why it could help you reach your goals. Have you experienced one? Key takeaways: Keep a daily journal of anything that feels oddly timed or connected, to spot patterns over time | When something stands out, pause and ask yourself what it might be telling you | Break your routine: new places, people and inputs create more space for surprises | Notice synchronicities rather than forcing meaning onto them, and stay open | Set a clear intention or commit to a decision, then watch for opportunities you'd otherwise miss - Tom Kerridge Food v Service: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/tom-kerridge-food-v-service Would you rather have average food with amazing service or amazing service with average food? Tom Kerridge answers. - Finally! And Five Lessons: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/finally-and-five-lessons Newcastle’s historic win teaches five key lessons: hope, the right team, strong supporters, discipline, and celebrating success. Apply them in sport, business, and life—because winning is more than just a game. Key takeaways: If you've been waiting a long time for your win, don't give up: keep hoping and keep believing. | Get rid of people who aren't playing for you. Success isn't solo, so find your real team. | Build your own cheering squad, thank the people who push you forward, and find more if you need them. | Stay focused and disciplined before the win. Do something every day that moves you towards your goal. | When you hit a milestone, don't rush on to the next thing. Pause, soak it in, and celebrate. - It’s anyone who isn’t you: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/its-anyone-who-isnt-you Everyone has customers. It’s anyone who isn’t you—staff, suppliers, even those serving you. Treat everyone like your best customer and see what happens Key takeaways: Define the customer as anyone who isn't you: staff, suppliers, even those serving you | Recognise your suppliers and your own staff as customers too, not just paying clients | Treat everyone the same way, whether you're serving them or they're serving you | Try the challenge: treat the next person you connect with as your best customer and watch what happens - My easiest message: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-easiest-message-2024 Reflecting on a brilliant year, this heartfelt message shares gratitude for your support, kindness, and engagement. - You Haven't Heard Your Favourite Song...Yet: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-havent-heard-yet Your best idea, innovation or opportunity is still ahead! Adopt the ‘Yeti’ mindset: add ‘yet’ to your statements. Keep moving forward, stay curious, and make 2025 your year of creativity and joy. Key takeaways: Add the word yet to any final sounding statement to keep your story open. | Adopt the Yeti mindset: swap I can't for I haven't done that yet. | Your best idea, book or breakthrough is still ahead of you, not behind you. | Staying curious and moving forward matters more than believing the good ideas are used up. | If you want to get somewhere, add yet: it turns a dead end into progress. - Why do we collect useless things: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-do-we-collect-useless-things Too much stuff? It’s not just clutter - it’s energy-draining baggage. Try Free Up February: one item gone on day one, two on day two… that's 406 by month’s end. Less stuff. More clarity. Key takeaways: Clutter drains energy, not just space, so ask of every item: is it useful or beautiful? | Try Free Up February: remove one item on day one, two on day two, and so on, for 406 items gone by day 28 | Spend five minutes a day looking honestly at what surrounds you and let go of what fails the useful or beautiful test | Sentimental attachment and a just in case mindset are the main reasons we hoard things we never use | Less stuff creates more clarity: physical space and mental space clear together - Thrill Me Then Bill Me: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/thrill-me-then-bill-me When prices rise, customers feel it - but what if they felt valued instead? Thrill them with memorable experiences, small surprises, and genuine care. A WeeWOW today makes the bill feel better tomorrow Key takeaways: When customers feel valued, they accept price rises without a second thought | Deliver value beyond the price tag: value is about experience, not just numbers | Create WeeWOWs, small but powerful moments that show customers they're truly valued | A friendly follow-up, a thank-you note or remembering someone's name can turn good service brilliant | Find one way each day to thrill a customer and the bill will feel a lot better - Work with What You Have, Not What You’d Like: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/work-with-what-you-have-not-what-youd-like You don’t need more to do more. The key to success isn’t having endless resources—it’s being resourceful. Look around, ask for help, build partnerships, and create magic moments. Here’s how to work with what you have, not what you’d like. Key takeaways: Look for skills, contacts, space or time you already have but are underusing | Ask who could help you: someone else has what you need, and you probably have what they need | Focus on how you make people feel, it is what they remember most | Seek partnerships: what you have and what someone else needs can create opportunities with less effort | Treat limitations as a game, not an excuse, some of the best ideas come from restrictions - When you're overwhelmed, do this: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-youre-overwhelmed-do-this Feeling overwhelmed? When life gets hectic, a values-based Must Do List can bring clarity. Here’s how I prioritised my week (including my new book launch!). Try it and see how it transforms your focus. Key takeaways: When you're overwhelmed, go back to your core values before deciding what to do next. | Swap your to do list for a Must Do list, built on your values first. | Pick a top five Must Dos, ranked by what matters most in your life. | You can feel calmer simply from writing a values based list, before you've done a single item on it. - The secret to cutting through the noise: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-secret-to-cutting-through-the-noise In a world full of noise, the clearest, most human connections stand out. Great communication isn’t about being loud - it’s about being real. Learn how to engage, connect and be unforgettable. Key takeaways: In a noisy world, the loudest voice rarely wins, the clearest and most human one does | Ditch dull emails and robotic scripts, customers can tell when they are talking to a real person | Be direct, be personal, be engaging, be fun and above all, be human | Brilliant communication is about how you make people feel, not just the words you use | Getting your communication right is the difference between being ignored and being unforgettable - The Shortcut To Connection: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-shortcut-to-connection A simple, genuine smile can transform customer interactions, build trust and create emotional connections. Discover how the right smile at the right time boosts loyalty, improves service and elevates experiences. Key takeaways: A genuine smile is free, simple and one of the most powerful tools in customer service | Smiling at someone triggers a response in their brain, releasing dopamine, serotonin and endorphins | Customers who feel good around you are more likely to trust, recommend and invest in you | The trick isn't smiling for its own sake, it's knowing when, how much, and making it genuine | Think of one thing that makes you smile, then share that smile with strangers, customers and colleagues - Have you ever felt invisible?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/have-you-ever-felt-invisible Being ignored - whether in person, by email, or online - is the fastest way to lose a customer. True connection comes from noticing, acknowledging, and creating lasting memories. See, Smile, Say Hello. Key takeaways: Ignoring a customer, in person, by email or online, is the fastest way to lose them | Being seen matters everywhere, not just face to face, so acknowledge people wherever they reach you | Real observation means noticing what's unsaid: a tremor, a furrowed brow, a change in tone | When you recognise someone properly you don't just create a moment, you create a memory | Memories are what bring people back, so make noticing and acknowledging people a habit - How can you ♥️ your customer if you don't ♥️ yourself?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-can-you-love-your-customer-if-you-dont-like-yourself Great customer service starts from within. When you feel good about yourself, it shows in every interaction. Here's how to boost morale, lift others and deliver a bit of brilliance! Key takeaways: Great customer service starts with how you feel about yourself, not with a script. | Flip It: compliment a colleague or point out something they've done well, it lifts you too. | Celebrate one win from this week, however small, to build genuine self-belief. | Change your state: shoulders back, head up, big smile, your physiology shapes your mood and your service. | Focus on the team first and better customer service follows naturally. - The one thing that impacts everything: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-one-thing-that-impacts-everything Health impacts everything—make it your 2025 priority! Follow three principles: Eat Well, Think Well, Move Well. Start small: hydrate, practise gratitude, stretch, and walk. Prioritise your health now for a brighter future!” Key takeaways: Health sits at the top of your Wheel of Life: improving it has the biggest impact of all. | Brilliant health comes down to three principles: Eat Well, Think Well, Move Well. | Aim for small wins (SWins) rather than overcomplicating your routine. | Swap one processed meal or snack a day for something fresh, and start each morning with a glass of water. | Jot down three things you're grateful for each morning and limit screen time before bed. - Rick's Ripples: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ricks-ripples Emotions are contagious, and the ripple effect of your actions can influence people far beyond your immediate interactions. Key takeaways: When someone is having a bad day, you get to choose whether their mood becomes yours | Emotions are contagious: research shows we catch the moods of people around us up to three degrees away | Five minutes of genuinely listening can shift someone's whole mood | A small kindness, a smile, a compliment or a moment of patience can start a positive ripple | Ask yourself what kind of ripples your actions are sending out today - Crappy Christmas Presents: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/crappy-christmas-presents Feedback can feel like an unexpected Christmas gift—sometimes thoughtful and insightful, other times like novelty socks you didn’t ask for. Key takeaways: Treat criticism like an unwanted gift: accept it graciously, then decide what to do with it later | Reacting is instant and emotional, but responding is intentional and considered, choose the second | Pause, consider, then decide whether to keep, rework or let go of feedback you receive | Ask yourself whether you react or respond next time someone offers you feedback | Combine feedback with gratitude and it becomes a powerful tool for growth - Is This Cheating or Just Smart: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-this-cheating-or-just-smart Start new habits now and sprint ahead into 2024. Transform December with bold moves—revive a relationship, indulge in mindful luxury, or give your space a stunning refresh. Finish strong! Key takeaways: Start new habits in December, don't wait for the artificial reset of January 1st | Waiting for the new year risks losing momentum before you've even begun | During December, aim to maintain your health goals rather than lose weight | Pick just one drawer or shelf to declutter instead of planning a full New Year overhaul | Reach out to strengthen one relationship now to set the tone for a connected new year - 17 Things Real men Do: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/17-things-real-men-do Tuesday was International Men’s Day. It’s about recognising issues that often go unnoticed, like the importance of male role models and breaking down stereotypes that limit what men - and women - can achieve. Today is a chance to challenge those ideas and promote healthier, more positive behaviours. Key takeaways: Real strength shows up in listening deeply, admitting mistakes and asking for help, not staying silent | Small, thoughtful gestures, like making a cup of tea, say more about character than big talk | Crying and showing emotion openly takes more courage than suppressing it | Leading with kindness and empathy builds more trust than leading with authority | Confidence and arrogance are different things: aim for quiet, grounded confidence, not showing off - Are you writing off Fridays?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-writing-off-fridays Maximise your productivity and end the week on a high by transforming Fridays from a wind-down day into a day full of accomplishments with these practical tips from the "Make Fridays Fab" campaign. Key takeaways: Friday is 20% of your working week, so treat it as a chance to finish strong, not wind down | Do a quick Friday review to close the week with a sense of progress and set up Monday | Spend a few minutes tidying your desk or clearing digital clutter before you leave for the weekend | Reach out to a colleague, client or contact you haven't spoken to in a while, it's low pressure and keeps relationships warm | Save a handful of quick, actionable tasks for a Friday finisher's list so you end on easy wins - One Gives, One Guides - Which Are You?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-gives-one-guides-which-are-you Discover the difference between mentoring and coaching in Michael's insightful blog post, exploring the art of knowing when to guide and when to give practical advice to effectively support personal and professional growth. Key takeaways: Mentoring means sharing solutions you've already tested, useful when someone needs direction fast. | Coaching means asking questions and guiding people to find their own answers. | Use mentoring for familiar problems, coaching when someone has the tools but needs to access their potential. | Great support often means switching hats: know when to give advice and when to guide with questions. | You don't have to pick one role, being a mix of mentor and coach, a 'Moach', is fine. - The Difference Between an Excuse and a Reason: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-difference-between-excuses Discover the empowering difference between excuses and reasons, and learn how transforming excuses into actionable steps can drive you forward in life. Key takeaways: An excuse shields you from discomfort, a reason gives you honest clarity to act on | Test yourself: ask if this is helping you move forward or holding you back | Reasons should push you to take the next step, even if that step is to pause | Flip every excuse into a proactive question, such as where can you find 17 minutes | Excuses move you back, reasons drive you forward - Are You Getting Too Much Recognition?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-getting-too-much Discover why recognising colleagues and contributors beyond the customer-facing roles is essential for fostering a culture of appreciation and teamwork. Key takeaways: Recognition shouldn't stop at customers, extend it to colleagues, bosses, suppliers and neighbours too. | Notice the people behind the scenes, like the co-worker who stays late or the manager who clears roadblocks. | A simple thank you matters, but a genuine, specific big up means even more. | Make recognition public where you can: send a message, mention someone, let them know they're appreciated. | Great service isn't just what customers see, it's what the whole team lives and breathes. - 1,900 books - how do you choose?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/1900-books-how-do-you-choose On Super Thursday, when 1,900 books are launched in a single day, discover Michael's curated picks and insights on navigating your reading journey amidst an overwhelming array of choices. Key takeaways: Never recommend a book you haven't read, share only what you genuinely know. | Reading isn't a race: some people finish a book in a day, others savour it for weeks, both are fine. | What matters isn't how many books you read or how fast, it's what stays with you. | Ask which books have shaped your values, your worldview or your aspirations, not just which you finished. | Book club pressure to cram or skim misses the point of reading for yourself. - Do You Make It Happen or Let It Happen?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-you-make-it-happen-or-let-it-happen Discover whether you're an action-taker or someone who lets things unfold naturally, and learn when it might be time to switch approaches for a more balanced and successful life. Key takeaways: Notice whether you're the one who waves down the waiter or the one who waits patiently, it reveals how you operate generally | Action takers step in and create momentum when things stall, rather than sitting back | Letting things happen isn't passive, it's trusting things will naturally take their course | Both approaches have their place, the skill is recognising which one you're using and why | When you feel stuck or missing out, that's usually your cue to make it happen instead - Ai Generated Podcasts: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ai-generated-podcasts Discover the innovative world of AI-generated podcasts as author Michael Heppell transforms his books '17' and 'Write That Book' into engaging audio conversations using Google's NotebookLM, with fictional speakers bringing the written word to life. - Why Distribution Beats Content : https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-distribution-beats-content Discover why effective distribution beats top-notch content creation, as accessibility holds the key to success in a world swamped with information and competition. Key takeaways: The best content, product or idea counts for nothing if people can't easily find it | Algorithms limit reach on social media, so don't rely on likes and followers alone | Owned channels like email give you direct, reliable access to your audience | Make your content or offer as simple and convenient to reach as possible | Ask yourself if what you offer is genuinely easy to find, not hidden behind hoops - Get back on it: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/get-back-on-it Seize the mid-September opportunity to embark on a transformative 90-day journey towards achieving your goals, and finish the year on a triumphant note. Key takeaways: Mid-September gives you 97 days to Christmas, enough for one 90-day Massive Action Project plus a week to relax | Pick one goal, not five. This isn't a to-do list, so go all in on a single target for 90 days | Use pain avoidance to your advantage: picture the regret of not starting, then flip it into motivation | Ninety days is long enough to build a real habit or skill but short enough to stay focused | Choose, focus, take action, and you can finish the year having smashed a genuine goal - John Logie Baird didn’t invent television!: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/john-logie-baird-didnt-invent-television This blog post debunks the common myth that John Logie Baird invented television, crediting the true innovation to 15-year-old farm boy Philo Farnsworth, who conceived the idea in a field and passionately pursued it to revolutionize the world. Key takeaways: Television wasn't invented by John Logie Baird, it was conceived by 15 year old farm boy Philo Farnsworth. | A brilliant idea can strike anywhere, Philo dreamed up television while ploughing a field, not in a lab. | An idea is only ever the spark, it's the relentless pursuit and graft afterwards that creates the magic. | Ask yourself what your 'field' is and, more importantly, what you're actually doing with your notions. | It isn't the idea that matters most, it's what you do with it that counts. - Was this why 84 people unsubscribed?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/was-this-why-84-people-unsubscribed This blog post explores why 84 subscribers may have unsubscribed after Michael Heppell's newsletters, written entirely by AI in August, lacked the human warmth and engaging stories typically present in his content. Key takeaways: AI generated content can be technically flawless yet still miss the warmth and stories readers connect with | A newsletter without personal stories or sideways insight can feel like a 'player piano', perfectly tuned but soulless | Use AI to enhance your writing, not replace the human voice behind it | Losing subscribers can be a signal worth investigating, not just a number to shrug off | Ask your audience directly how content lands with them rather than guessing - Break, Breathe and Boost as AI takes over: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/break-breathe-and-boost-as-ai-takes-over Discover the importance of taking a quality break as our blog post explores an August experiment where AI-crafted newsletters keep you inspired while the author recharges, revealing the balance between rest and creativity. Key takeaways: A proper break is about rejuvenation, not just rest, and often sparks new creativity. | You can't credibly advise others to take quality breaks if you never take one yourself. | Trying something new, even an uncertain experiment, beats never finding out if it works. | Stepping back and trusting a system you've built shows confidence in the work you've already put in. - My 500,000 hours moment: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-500k-moment Celebrate the incredible milestone of living 500,000 hours with reflections on life's precious moments, achievements, and inspirations to make every hour count. Key takeaways: Reframing your age in hours, not years, makes the scale of your life feel real | Break your hours down by sleep, work, food, laughter, learning and travel to see where your time actually goes | Seize the moment: make every hour count instead of waiting for tomorrow | Celebrate small wins, treat each hour as its own victory | Stay curious and keep learning, and spend your hours with the people who matter most - The Road Less Travelled: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-road-less-travelled Explore the remarkable transformation of Sweden's road switch in 1967, famously known as Dagen H, which despite initial resistance, led to safer roads and serves as a compelling lesson in embracing change for long-term benefits. Key takeaways: Big change can win widespread public support even after a huge majority initially reject it | Sweden's 1967 switch to right-hand driving actually reduced road accidents once drivers stayed alert | Extra caution during a disruptive transition can make people safer, not less safe | Trust the process during the messy build up to a change: chaos early on doesn't mean failure | Pick one change you're resisting and start it anyway, even if it meets resistance - The Brilliance of Buffers: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-brilliance-of-buffers Discover the brilliance of buffers—from train safety innovations by John Baillie to enhancing personal productivity and wellbeing by creating time, emotional, resource, and clutter buffers in your daily life. Key takeaways: Build time buffers into your day so you have space to breathe, catch up or do nothing | If you feel relieved when a meeting gets cancelled, you have too much on and need more buffer time | Create emotional buffers to process your thoughts and feelings, protecting your mindset and preventing burnout | Keep resource buffers, whether that's food, supplies or personal energy, so you're never caught off guard | Clear physical clutter to create a clutter buffer: a tidy space supports a clearer, more focused mind - How I'm Voting: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-im-voting In this blog post, Michael shares ten core values he treasures and would 'vote' for daily, inviting readers to reflect on the principles they hold dear ahead of the UK General Election. Key takeaways: Integrity means doing the right thing even when nobody's watching, so put it first. | Practise positivity as positive action, not just positive thinking: notice the downs, then act. | Commitment means following through on your word long after the moment you made it, especially when it's tough. | Own your mistakes, learn from them and move forward with humility and accountability. | Great things are rarely achieved alone, so embrace teamwork and celebrate others' strengths. - What Happens When You’re Thrice as Good?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-happens-when Explore how being thrice as good by working smarter and focusing on efficiency can unlock exponential growth and remarkable opportunities in personal and professional realms. Key takeaways: Aim to work smarter, not harder: focus on tripling your efficiency, not your effort | Speed up your learning by identifying and tapping into your preferred learning style | Find a coach or mentor who has already achieved what you are aiming for | Surround yourself with positive people who genuinely want to support your growth | Tripling your output (blogs, videos, comments) over 90 days can sharply boost visibility and opportunities - Can you be AI’d?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/can-you-be-aid Dive into the captivating journey of "Can we AI Michael?" as Michael explores the thrilling and daunting process of being transformed by AI technology. - Are You Being Hefted?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-being-hefted Explore how the ancient farming technique of hefting parallels our own lives, encouraging us to step out of our comfort zones and seize abundant opportunities just beyond our familiar confines. Key takeaways: Comfortable routines can quietly become a fence that stops you reaching better opportunities | Notice where you have settled for 'just enough' instead of 'more than enough' | Breaking free from a comfort zone does not mean uprooting your whole life, start small | Growth happens when you deliberately step outside familiar, safe territory | Take one small, deliberate step today rather than waiting for a big leap - If you do what's easy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-you-do-whats-easy This blog post explores the balance between taking on life's challenges for growth versus prioritising self-care and efficiency, suggesting that while confronting difficulties can lead to rewards, it's essential to strategically manage efforts and rest to maintain overall well-being. Key takeaways: The things that demand the most effort, in health, career and relationships, usually give the greatest rewards | Pushing through hard conversations builds stronger, more meaningful relationships than avoiding them ever will | Knowing when to rest is just as important as pushing yourself: you can't pour from an empty cup | Use the 80/20 rule: focus your energy on the 20% of efforts that deliver 80% of your results | It's ok to slow down, but don't stop. Growth comes from facing what's hard, not avoiding it - Where Would You Like to Be?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/where-would-you-like-to-be Explore the diverse roles behind the scenes of filmmaking and the importance of loving what you do in Michael's insightful reflection on career satisfaction. Key takeaways: If you don't love it, don't do it: find the role that genuinely suits you. | You don't need to love every second of a job, just love the essence of it. | Every production needs hundreds of roles, so find the one that fits who you are. | If the spotlight isn't for you, there's no shame in working behind the scenes instead. | Loving your career, like a privilege rather than a chore, is worth pursuing over just paying the bills. - Can I Give You Some Feedback?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/can-i-give-you-some-feedback Discover why feedback is crucial for personal growth and customer satisfaction, and learn how to embrace it effectively with these practical strategies. Key takeaways: Treat complaints as a gift: a chance to fix things before they're broadcast online instead | Accept feedback with a Marks & Spencer mindset, wear it, swap it, or cash it in | Always say thank you first and genuinely look at the feedback before reacting | Receive feedback with an open mind and enthusiasm so the giver feels valued | Feedback is always personal, don't let anyone tell you it isn't - Oddorable – the thin line between freaky and quirky: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/oddorable Explore the charmingly peculiar tale of a Croydon wizard embracing authenticity with a magical Oyster card wand, navigating the delicate balance between standing out and fitting in. Key takeaways: Authenticity, not standing out or fitting in, is what actually makes you memorable. | Chasing uniqueness for its own sake backfires: most influencers trying to stand out end up looking the same. | The most convincing version of any style or persona comes from the inside, not from the costume. | Fake stands out for the wrong reasons, so let your quirks be genuinely yours rather than performed. | Ask yourself who your authentic self really is, then trust that being a bit odd and adorable is enough. - Remember when...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/remember-when Reflecting on the evolution from texting to voice notes, this blog post fondly recalls the charm of traditional handwritten cards amidst the rise of modern communication trends. Key takeaways: The fewer people who send cards, the more special receiving one becomes. | A handwritten card with a few chosen words beats a quick thank you text. | Voice notes can feel like a lazy shortcut compared to actually typing a message. | Don't let the cost of a card put you off, the gesture matters more than the price. | Sending a card is a simple way to reconnect with an old friend. - Bank Holidays... Again: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/bank-holidays-again Celebrate May bank holidays by appreciating hardworking individuals worldwide, from coal miners to hotel housekeepers, on International Workers' Day. Key takeaways: May's bank holidays overlap with International Workers' Day, celebrated on 1 May in most countries. | Before you enjoy a day off, take a moment to remember what the holiday actually stands for. | Real graft looks like coal miners, fishermen, roofers and hotel housekeepers turning 12 rooms in 8 hours. | Feeling like you've worked hard doesn't compare to the people who graft hardest, so stay humble about it. | Use a day off to think of someone whose hard work you admire, and tell them so. - Loving Learning: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/love-learning Explore the inspiring leadership conferences across the UK, from trailblazers in Shrewsbury to entrepreneurial energy in Liverpool and engaged audiences in Newcastle, and reflect on what you're learning out of passion, not obligation. Key takeaways: Audiences differ hugely: some attend because they want to, others because they've been told to | You can spot the difference between an engaged room and one that's only there under threat of a P45 | Even a sceptical audience can be won over and turned from dissenters into disciples | Ask yourself what you're learning because you want to, not because you have to - The deception of decision: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-deception-of-decision Discover how overcoming self-deception by taking immediate action after making decisions can enhance personal growth and prevent stagnation. Key takeaways: When facing a sticky situation, work through it in order: situation, then perception, then decision. | Watch for self-deception. Excuses like an e-mail will do, or no one will notice, are easy to justify but keep you stuck. | Standing still comes from believing your own excuses, not from the situation itself. | Beat the deception by taking one action immediately after you make a decision. | The magic is in the moving: momentum, not more thinking, is what actually changes things. - The tell-tale signs you’ve taken on too much: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-tell-tale-signs-youve-taken-on-too-much Discover the unmistakable signs of overcommitment and learn practical, effective strategies like saying 'No', creating a 'Must Do' list, and delegating tasks to regain control of your time and enhance your wellbeing. Key takeaways: Spotting three or more warning signs, from relief when a meeting cancels to constant tiredness, means you've likely taken on too much | Saying 'take on less' is pants advice on its own, so use three simple actions instead | Practise saying no more often, it's a skill worth developing rather than a weakness | Swap your To Do list for a Must Do list limited to just five items | Delegate one task that makes you uneasy, whether that means paying someone, asking a favour or simply putting it off - The 4 Sets: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-4-sets Discover the four essential sets—mindset, toolset, skillset, and peopleset—that form the foundation of personal success and accelerate your journey to achieving your goals. Key takeaways: Mindset is the foundation of success: without the right mindset, opportunities and other sets are hard to use. | Toolset means resources. We live in an abundant time, but tools you can't use are as good as no tools at all. | Skillset is knowing how to use your toolset with the right mindset, whether that takes 10,000 hours or just an attitude shift. | Peopleset, the people around you, is the accelerator: the right relationships help you get what you want faster. | Build all four sets together (mindset, toolset, skillset, peopleset) rather than relying on just one. - Are you superstitious?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-superstitious Explore the fascinating world of superstitions and discover how they blend cultural tradition with psychological needs in this thought-provoking blog post, while considering what truly anchors you in an unpredictable world. Key takeaways: Superstitions often come from our need to feel some control over an unpredictable world. | A belief like the number 13 being unlucky only has power because we choose to give it meaning. | Question whether what you rely on is a meaningful belief or just a baseless superstition. | Real certainty comes from constants like family, knowledge and community, not lucky charms or rituals. | Decide what truly matters to you and attach your sense of significance to that instead. - Not a flat white: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/not-a-flat-white During a visit to East Newcastle's Heaton Park, the author encounters a disappointing flat white in the park's café, prompting reflections on the importance of addressing silent customer dissatisfaction and striving for excellent service, as discussed in their book "5 Star Service." Key takeaways: Silent customers rarely complain, they simply decide never to return | If service falls short, say so at the time, not after you've walked away | Don't assume all is well just because a customer says 'fine, thanks' | A business that never hears a complaint may still be losing customers quietly | Ask, listen and offer to put things right the moment something isn't good enough - Positively Influencing 1,000,000 Lives: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/positively-influencing-1000000-lives Discover how setting a clear vision to positively influence one million lives transformed a struggling business into a brilliant success, and learn how you can create and stick to your own vision for remarkable personal growth. Key takeaways: A clear, specific vision (even one written when things are stumbling) can turn a business around | When you have a clear vision, you leap out of bed, find a way and turn obstacles into opportunities | Track progress honestly: count what the vision actually achieves, discounting for the parts that fall short | A real vision takes years to fulfil; ours took eighteen, so build for the long haul, not the quick win | Most people have never been shown how to create a genuine personal vision or how to stick with it when it gets tough - Is there anything worse?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-there-anything-worse Explore the unexpected disruptions of live broadcasts and the humorous reality of missing garden bin collections in this engaging blog post by Michael, highlighting the importance of keeping perspective. Key takeaways: A small disruption can throw you off track, but it rarely deserves the attention you give it in the moment | When something goes wrong, ask yourself honestly whether it could be worse. It usually could | Keep perspective rather than dwelling: notice what's gone wrong, then move on | Sharing a minor mishap openly often connects with people more than you'd expect - February 29th and I had to: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/feb-29th Learn intriguing leap year facts, including the historical roots of February 29th, rare leap day birthdays, and the unique occurrence of leap years skipping every century in the Gregorian calendar, while pondering how to make the most of every day. Key takeaways: The chance of being born on February 29th is about 1 in 1,461, so happy birthday if that's you | Leap years get skipped roughly every 100 years to keep the Gregorian calendar aligned, including 2100 | There's no such thing as an extra day, just a day with a less common date, so use it like any other | Ask yourself what amazing things you can do with the 365 days you're given every year, not just one extra one - Why you're definitely above average: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/definitely-above-average Explore how 'illusory superiority' and 'illusory inferiority' can positively impact self-belief and personal growth, and discover why recognising and challenging these biases can make you feel above average in many areas of life. Key takeaways: Most people rate themselves above average on honesty, kindness and driving, a bias called illusory superiority | Recognise illusory superiority for what it is, then put it to positive use rather than dismissing it | We often underrate ourselves in areas like confidence, appearance or time management, known as illusory inferiority | Flip It: take the self-belief you apply to your strengths and use it on the areas where you doubt yourself | If you think you can be more confident, better organised or a stronger presenter, you can - Steve Wright and Me: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/steve-wright-and-me Reflecting on an unforgettable transition from a roofing career to being a guest on Steve Wright's iconic radio show, this blog post fondly remembers the legendary broadcaster's kindness, professionalism, and humour during a memorable 2012 interview. Key takeaways: Put people at ease before an interview or big moment, rather than rushing straight in | Keep the spotlight on your guest, not yourself, even when you could take credit | Warn someone about a tough question in advance so they can prepare a great answer | Small acts of kindness and professionalism are what people remember and miss most | Even the most confident people can feel delicate and uncomfortable at times - If you think education is expensive, try...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-you-think-education-is-expensive-try Explore the lifelong benefits of embracing curiosity and continuous learning, as highlighted in this blog post, and discover why prioritising your education can profoundly enrich your life. Key takeaways: Most people say they're always learning, but they've slowed it to a leisurely stroll | Curiosity is the key driver of learning: without it, learning is a slog, with it, learning is a joy | Learning takes effort, which is exactly why so few people commit to it | If you've read this far, you're already a learner and a curious one at that | Keep pushing yourself to ask questions and treat learning as a must, not a maybe - Social Shocker: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/social-shocker Discover why social media isn't the ultimate platform for success and learn to appreciate what you have in this insightful and candid blog post by Michael. Key takeaways: Nobody truly wins on social media, a viral post just grabs brief attention before it fades. | Stop beating yourself up if your following or view count isn't growing fast enough. | Chasing more followers, views or likes is a treadmill that never ends. | Shift your focus from wanting more to appreciating what you already have. | That dopamine hit from a popular post always crashes, so don't chase it. - Do you PP?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-you-pp Discover the challenges of being a people pleaser and explore how shifting your focus to bringing joy to yourself can lead to a more fulfilling life. Key takeaways: Constantly replying, agreeing and saying yes to everyone is exhausting, not kind. | Trying to please everybody can leave you angry at the very people you're pleasing. | Feeling guilty for doing what you want is a sign you're people pleasing too much. | Instead of pleasing everybody, focus on bringing joy to one person, even if that person is you. - Do you get nervous: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-you-get-nervous Discover how stage nerves can evolve into excitement and learn practical strategies to transform your own fear into confidence, as Michael shares insights from his new programme for writers, "Over The Line." Key takeaways: Nerves before presenting usually come from one of three things: lack of preparation, shortage of talent, or over-caring. | Preparation and talent gaps are solved by doing the work and honing your craft. | Over-caring is the real killer, but sharing anyway turns those nerves into excitement. | Give it three minutes on stage or on camera and over-caring nerves settle into excitement. | People forgive a rough delivery if they can feel that you care, so let that come through. - Self-driving cars are about to do this…: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/self-driving-cars-are-about-to-do-this Discover the transformative impact of self-driving cars as they not only navigate our roads autonomously but also communicate with each other to enhance traffic flow and safety, drawing parallels to the power of collective intelligence found in bee colonies. Key takeaways: A bee colony has a hundred billion neurons because bees share knowledge and collaborate instinctively. | You alone have 86 billion neurons, so imagine what you could achieve by teaming up with just one or two others. | Sharing makes everyone better, both the sharer and the receiver, the teacher and the student. | Like giving Christmas presents, the best part of sharing is often the giving, not just the receiving. | Ask yourself what you are doing to create a hive mentality with the people around you. - Sharpen Your Life: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/sharpen-your-life Discover how embracing shortcuts and leveraging others' expertise can sharpen your personal development journey just like a premium knife sharpener effortlessly refines your blades. Key takeaways: Make personal growth easier for yourself instead of relying on willpower alone. | Learning from others' experience is a shortcut worth celebrating, not a shortcut to feel guilty about. | An audiobook, a coach or a class can get you further than trying to do it all unaided. | Even average personal development resources teach you something, so start rather than wait for the perfect one. | It is not cheating to make progress easier, it still counts if it makes you better. - My easiest message: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-easiest-message-2023 In Michael's heartwarming blog post, he shares a heartfelt message to wish you and your loved ones a joyous and merry Christmas, accompanied by a short festive video for you to enjoy. - What were you doing?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-were-you-doing Reflecting on December 14th, 1984, this nostalgic blog post lovingly recounts the simplicity and joy of life during the '80s, highlighted by personal milestones and cultural moments, inviting readers to share their own cherished memories from the era. Key takeaways: Pick one specific day from your past and ask what made it good, rather than judging a whole decade at once | Life often feels happiest when it is simplest: no internet, no mobile, just the people around you | The best memories aren't grand events, they're ordinary details like a song on the radio or passing your driving test | When you're deciding how to close out the year, keeping your message simple beats overcomplicating it - Tiny Triggers: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/tiny-triggers Discover how to manage everyday annoyances with humour and perspective in Michael's insightful blog post on Tiny Triggers. Key takeaways: Practise not reacting to small everyday triggers now, so you stay calm when the big ones hit. | Remember you're just as likely to trigger someone else as they are to trigger you. | The goal isn't to stop being triggered, it's to reframe how you respond. | Tiny triggers often feel bigger around Christmas and other high pressure times of year. - What's your thing?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-your-thing Discover the inspiring journey of Jeremy Harper as he entered the Guinness Book of Records by counting aloud to one million and raised thousands for charity, proving that everyone can achieve their 'one million' one step at a time. Key takeaways: Jeremy Harper counted aloud from 1 to 1,000,000 over 89 days, 16 hours a day, and streamed every minute of it | A seemingly pointless challenge can still land you in the record books, raise money for charity and change your life | Break any huge ambition into single steps: everyone has their own one million to reach, one step at a time | Identify your own thing, the big goal only you would attempt, and start moving towards it today - All about 17: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/all-about-17 Explore the fascinating world of the number 17, from its prime status to its cultural and historical significance, in this engaging and informative blog post. Key takeaways: Seventeen is prime and equals the sum of the first four prime numbers: 2, 3, 5 and 7 | A haiku traditionally has 17 syllables, and a standard piano octave has 17 keys | In numerology, 17 combines 1 (new beginnings) and 7 (good fortune) | Small, playful facts like these make great conversation starters and memory hooks | Noticing patterns in everyday numbers, like stair counts, can turn routine moments into fun - I wish I’d recorded that…: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-wish-id-recorded-that Discover the importance of capturing life's moments, from spontaneous ideas during meetings to cherished memories and reflections, in this insightful blog post by Michael Heppell. Key takeaways: Capture great ideas the moment they happen, brilliant off-the-cuff thinking is easily lost once a meeting ends. | Recording moments, from voice notes to photos, lets you turn fleeting flashes of inspiration into something lasting. | Keep a journal even when it feels repetitive, rereading it months or years later reveals how much you'd forgotten. | Photos and videos make your memories easy to search and revisit, and rediscovering them brings real joy. | Ask yourself regularly what you're recording, what you wish you'd recorded, and what you'll record next. - You don't become better by accident: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-dont-become-better-by-accident Achieving success is no accident but rather the result of intentional effort and learning from others, with live learning events offering an immersive and invaluable opportunity to gain insights from successful individuals eager to share their knowledge. Key takeaways: No successful person Michael has interviewed says their success just happened by accident, it's intention and focused effort. | Learning from others is the secret sauce and the biggest shortcut to getting better. | Live learning events are more immersive and hold your attention far more than books, videos or podcasts. | Commit to attending one live learning event in the next 100 days. | If you can't get to an event, ask your community to help you find one nearby. - Don't fall in love: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dont-fall-in-love Explore the story of the Ford Edsel's failure to understand when to let go of an unviable dream, balanced with examples of perseverance paying off, in this insightful blog post. Key takeaways: Falling in love with an idea doesn't make it viable, however much you've invested in it. | Ford poured over $250 million into the Edsel despite focus groups hating it. Know when to walk away. | Deciding not to pursue a dream can be just as important as deciding to follow one. | FedEx, Amazon, the iPod and Crocs all struggled or were mocked early on, then succeeded. Some loves are worth sticking with. | Ask yourself the caveat: if your pursuit brings contentment, energy and joy, stick with it. If it doesn't, let it go. - No one cares: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/no-one-cares Discover a valuable life lesson on embracing mistakes and moving on in Michael Heppell's engaging reflection on a newsletter blunder, with insights from readers who remind us that 'No one cares' about the little things. Key takeaways: A small mistake, a typo, a missed comma, feels bigger to you than it does to anyone else | Most people barely notice your slip ups, and the few who do rarely matter | When someone snarks at a mistake, thank them for caring and move on with good grace | Twenty five years in business still means the occasional gaffe, and that is fine | Made a mistake? It's okay. No one cares enough that you should feel bad - Climbing Gangkhar Puensum: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/climbing-gangkhar-puensum Discover why Gangkhar Puensum, the highest unclimbed mountain in the world, remains a unique and unconquered challenge compared to the widely ascended Mount Everest. Key takeaways: You don't have to be number one to be special, just authentically you. | Everest is famous because thousands have climbed it, but Gangkhar Puensum remains completely unconquered. | Your ranking, whether 40th or 40,000th, matters far less than being genuinely yourself. | Being widely known isn't the same as being remarkable; rare and unique has its own worth. - Finding Peace: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/finding-peace In a world filled with conflict, the blog post "Finding Peace" by Michael explores the importance of introspection and sharing peace and love with others to enhance mental well-being and foster harmony in our lives. Key takeaways: Acknowledging your own inner conflict openly can leave you feeling mentally healthier | When you're struggling to communicate, return to your primary value as your compass | Bring more peace, love and harmony into your own life by sharing it with others | If something doesn't feel right to publish or announce, it's fine to let it wait - This week I'm 25: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/this-week-im-25 This month, to celebrate the 25th anniversary of Michael Heppell Ltd, founder Michael Heppell shares 25 invaluable business insights, available on his social media platforms with the hashtag #MH25. Key takeaways: Expect most of your plans to fail: roughly 90 percent won't work, but the 10 percent that do can carry the business. | Write a book. Michael says it changes everything for your credibility and reach. | No one sells you like you, so own your own story rather than leaving it to others. | Focus on your unique ability instead of spreading yourself across everything. | Thinking about starting a business? Try a side hustle first to test if you enjoy it and can handle it emotionally. - Are you an overthinker?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-an-overthinker Discover effective strategies to overcome overthinking and focus on what truly matters, as outlined in Michael's insightful blog post, "Are you an overthinker?" which delves into common scenarios and offers practical advice for a more positive mindset. Key takeaways: Overthinking usually means you're filling in gaps about a situation you can't control. | Remember, the other person almost certainly isn't thinking about you the way you assume. | Assume good intent: a friend's silence is probably just a busy day, not a snub. | Keep your mind occupied with something positive and productive so overthinking has less room to creep in. | Focus on what you can influence, keep moving forward, and give others a chance. - Why some lists are bad: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-some-lists-are-bad Discover why some lists are bad and how pausing can enhance mindful living in this insightful blog post. Key takeaways: Not every list serves you: a to-do list with too many items just creates cognitive overload. | A bucket list can pull you away from enjoying the present moment, so use it with care. | Brilliant people are comfortable to pause, rather than rushing straight to the next thing. | Build pausing into ordinary moments: before answering, before deciding, or simply to give thanks. | Take a moment to notice what's good right now instead of only chasing what's next on the list. - Still The Sage: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/still-the-sage Yesterday, Gateshead's iconic music venue, The Sage, was controversially renamed The Glasshouse International Centre for Music, sparking comparisons to other famous name changes like Marathon to Snickers. Key takeaways: Some of the world's biggest brands rebranded and thrived: BackRub, Blue Ribbon Sports, Tokyo Tsushin Kogyo and Brad's Drink all became household names under new ones. | A new name only works if it actually rolls off the tongue and fits how people naturally talk. | Before you rename something well loved, ask whether the change genuinely improves it or just unsettles people. | Change can make a brilliant difference, but if it doesn't, it is fine to leave things as they are. - Good things come to those who...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/good-things-come-to-those-who Good things come to those who take action and invest in hard work, unleashing creativity, personal growth, and a sense of accomplishment. Key takeaways: Swap waiting for working: patience matters, but action is what actually creates change. | Treat work as a platform for continuous learning, expanding your knowledge and skills over time. | Hard work sharpens creativity, pushing you to solve problems in genuinely novel ways. | Finishing tasks and hitting goals builds real self-confidence, so track and celebrate what you complete. | Add more value in your work and you'll be paid more for it. - The Yawning Void of AI: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-yawning-void-of-ai The blog post explores the current disillusionment with AI discussions, emphasizing the need to refocus on AI's potential for creativity and innovation amidst an echo chamber of clichéd buzzwords. Key takeaways: AI is not new, the term dates back to 1956, so don't be dazzled by the buzzwords | When AI talk feels stale, refocus the conversation on creativity, its most valuable feature | Ask better questions and you'll get better answers, from AI and from people | Let AI free up your time so you can spend more of it thinking | Turn AI fatigue into a game: ask everyone for their boldest AI prediction - Reconnecting: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/reconnecting Reconnect with the important aspects of your life by reaching out to old friends, revisiting cherished hobbies, or rekindling lost passions as inspired by personal reflections on friendship and the power of reconnection. Key takeaways: Reach out to an old friend now, don't wait for the right moment to arrive. | Reconnection doesn't have to be with a person, try a lost hobby or a faded passion. | Ask what made your job exciting in the first place, then find your way back to it. | Don't let excuses like busy schedules or lockdowns stop you seeing someone who matters. | Contact a friend, listen to music that meant something, or reconnect with your partner or family this week. - The cost of everything: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-cost-of-everything Discover the hidden costs of everyday choices beyond finances, from time and energy to personal values, and explore how these decisions shape your life in this insightful blog post by Michael Heppell. Key takeaways: Nothing is truly free: every choice costs you money, time, energy or values, not just cash. | Notice where your time actually goes. Complaining about a lack of hours while scrolling social media is a choice, not a fact. | Recognise that convenience has a price too. Ready meals save time but often cost you money and health. | Choosing to read instead of watching the news can leave you better off, even if it feels like the harder option. | Once you see the real cost of a habit, you can decide honestly whether it is worth paying. - How one word doubled profits: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-one-word-doubled-profits Discover how a simple marketing tweak in the 1950s saw Procter & Gamble double their shampoo profits, sparking a reflection on consumer habits and the ways we often buy more than we truly need. Key takeaways: Adding just one instruction, 'repeat', to shampoo bottles doubled Procter & Gamble's sales overnight | We often buy or do things simply because we're told to, not because we actually need them | Question everyday purchases like bottled water, extras and add-ons before assuming they're essential | A habit repeated long enough becomes 'what we've always done', so it stops getting questioned | Look beyond products and services and examine your own habits and behaviours for the same pattern - Getting Back In The Saddle: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/getting-back-in-the-saddle Discover the stages of quitting and find 17 innovative ways to get back in the saddle to achieve your goals. Key takeaways: Quitting follows a pattern: a feeling, a story, a justification, then self-filtered facts to back it up | Notice excuses like I don't have the time or it wasn't that important, they're justifications, not reasons | When you fall off, get back on straight away, even if it hurts or you're trailing the group | Your subconscious sometimes pushes you to quit to avoid perceived pain, but it's usually wrong | Try tools like controlled breathing, reframing, or short bursts of visualisation to get back in the saddle - I'm blue: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/im-blue Discover the exciting new limited edition release of '17 blue,' a collector's item featuring enhanced content and unique design—available now for order with exclusive bonuses. Key takeaways: When a plan stalls, look for what you can add or improve, not just finish late | Turn a simple reprint into something new: fresh chapters, tighter copy, a new look | A hard deadline turns a flash of insight into finished work | Limited numbering and a lower price can make a reissue feel like a genuine collector's item | Procrastination often means the idea is still forming, not that it's gone - A story about standards: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-story-about-standards Explore how Patek Philippe's commitment to maintaining high standards and quality over speed sets them apart in the watchmaking industry, even amidst growing demand. Key takeaways: Treat fast as the enemy when speed threatens the quality you're known for | Protect your standards even when demand pressures you to go faster | Be willing to discontinue something popular if its growth is doing more harm than good | Only go as fast as you can while still meeting your own high standard | Rising demand is not a reason to cut corners, it's a test of your standards - Stressed or Blessed?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/stressed-or-blessed Discover how to transform stress into a sense of gratitude with the blog post "Stressed or Blessed?", exploring the 'Dual Nature' of challenges, and learn techniques like practising daily gratitude to help you feel blessed even in stressful situations. Key takeaways: Ask yourself 'should I be feeling stressed or blessed?' whenever a situation winds you up | Most stressful situations can be reframed as a blessing with a little thought and soul searching | Keep a daily gratitude list, just two or three minutes, to reduce stress and rehearse spotting your blessings | Reframe complaints into gratitude, for example swap 'I hate doing presentations' for 'I've been chosen to do this' | Remembering you have a choice in how you frame a challenge is the real skill, not the challenge itself - Do your words need medicine? : https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-your-words-need-medicine Discover the power of dictation and elevate your writing with these seven transformative tips to give your words the perfect medicinal boost for clarity and impact. Key takeaways: Never use a word you don't understand, even if it sounds impressive. | Read your writing out loud to hear how well it's really working. | Choose inclusive language, it's about respect, not political correctness. | Lean on a thesaurus to avoid repeating the same worn out words. | If you're not sure a word or line earns its place, leave it out. - Are you filling potholes?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-filling-potholes Discover the challenges of temporary versus permanent pothole repairs on rural lanes and reflect on whether it's time for a durable solution. Key takeaways: Fixing something well once is a fix, patching the same problem every year is just maintenance | Badly repairing the same issue over and over is a sign it needs a permanent solution, not another quick patch | Even problems that seem impossible to solve for good, like painting the Forth Bridge, eventually get a lasting fix if you look for one | Ask yourself honestly: is this a temporary fix or a permanent resolution to what's really going on | Notice where you keep patching the same crack in your life or work, and decide it's time to fix it properly - If you care... share: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-you-care-share Join an inspiring journey of knowledge-sharing with 17 speakers from the DAY17 event, where laughter, insightful presentations, and the importance of soft skills were at the forefront, and explore replays online to learn and connect with like-minded individuals. Key takeaways: The best events happen when people freely share their knowledge, time and expertise with no strings attached. | You do not need to be the headline act to make a room feel special, soft skills matter as much as big presentations. | If you cannot attend an event live, ask whether replays are available so you can still learn from it. | Share what you know, what you do, what you love and what you care about, generosity is contagious. | Learning from like-minded people who give freely of themselves is one of the most special things you can experience. - Is it ok to feel pride?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-it-ok-to-feel-pride Feeling pride is a natural emotion that can inspire and empower when grounded in genuine achievement, as explored through personal experiences at a Sam Fender concert and a keynote speech at a graduation, highlighting the balance between confidence and humility. Key takeaways: You don't choose whether you feel pride, but you do choose how you show it | Pride can appear even for people or events you barely know, and that's normal | Real pride is quiet confidence built on genuine achievement, not ego or arrogance | Learn to tell the difference between pride from real accomplishment and pride from ego | Notice pride as a signal, then use it to stay humble rather than let it inflate you - Standing on the scales... twice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/standing-on-the-scales-twice After indulging while travelling, a humorous scale encounter reminds us that true progress comes from consistent effort, not just shifting measurements. Key takeaways: It is tempting to shuffle your position and reweigh until the number looks better. | Changing how you measure something does not change the reality underneath it. | A measure exists to check your progress, not to replace doing the actual work. | This applies to health, relationships and work alike: get back on track by doing the work, not by adjusting the scorecard. - Slow Puncture: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/slow-puncture Address the slow punctures in your life before they become urgent problems, by identifying what you should fix now rather than pushing it off for later. Key takeaways: A small problem ignored today becomes an urgent, costly one later, so fix it while it's still a SHOULD, not a MUST | Ask yourself honestly what you're putting off in your relationships, business, health or home | A slow puncture in life rarely fixes itself, it just gets worse until you're forced to deal with it | Prevention beats cure: sort the small warning signs now rather than waiting for the full-on flat | Make the fix a MUST and do it now, instead of resetting the warning and driving on - Your life’s like whisky: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/your-lifes-like-whisky Explore how the complexities of life mirror the rich diversity, maturation, and subtle nuances of whisky, and join the conversation on embracing life's unique blend of experiences. Key takeaways: Like whisky maturing in oak, you gain character and wisdom the longer life shapes you | Seek out variety in your experiences, it adds richness and depth to your world | Notice the small, subtle details in everyday life, they're often the most rewarding | Blending different relationships and experiences takes skill and won't always work, embrace the mix anyway - Who was the last interesting person you met?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/who-was-the-last-interesting-person-you-met Discover how to meet genuinely interesting people by enhancing your environment, embracing diversity, volunteering, and showing interest in others, as these simple strategies can significantly improve your networking success and lead to more stimulating connections. Key takeaways: Enhance your environment: an organised networking event or learning day beats a random chat | Keep an open mind, be curious, and ask a follow up question before sharing your own view | Volunteering for a cause you care about tends to make you happier and more engaging than just donating cash | Show interest in others first, don't try too hard to be interesting yourself, and interesting people gravitate towards you | Push out of your comfort zone and start conversations with five strangers, in a queue, on a train, anywhere - The Risk of 5 Star Service: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-risk-of-5-star-service Achieving five-star customer service can lead to unexpected challenges, requiring organisations to adeptly manage increased scrutiny, investment, team dynamics, speed, and value clashes. Key takeaways: Brilliant service puts you under a spotlight, so small mistakes get noticed and amplified far more than before | Five star service demands daily investment of time, not just money, to teach, share and develop your team | One uncommitted team member on an off day can undo the good work of twenty who care | Customers expect brilliant service instantly, not within office hours or a 28 day turnaround | Revisit your company values regularly so short term results never quietly override doing right by the customer - The most translated document in the world is..?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-most-translated-document-in-the-world-is Discover why the *Universal Declaration of Human Rights*, crafted by the United Nations in 1948, is the world's most translated document, continuing to resonate profoundly today as a vital testament to global human rights. Key takeaways: The Universal Declaration of Human Rights, not the Bible, is the world's most translated document. | Article 12 protects everyone from arbitrary interference with their privacy, family, home and reputation. | Article 18 guarantees everyone the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion. | Article 29.1 reminds us we all have duties to the community that lets us thrive. | Seventy five years on, the Declaration still feels as relevant as ever, so it is worth reading in full. - Learning is boring: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/learning-is-boring-usually Discover how to transform dull learning into exciting and impactful experiences with short, engaging sessions at the upcoming DAY17 event on 17th June, featuring inspiring speakers like Neil Mullarkey and Will Polston. Key takeaways: Lessons that run too long and stay too impractical switch tired brains off fast. | Teachers often keep talking long after they've already lost their audience's attention. | Short, punchy 5 to 17 minute sessions teach better than long, drawn out ones. - Why we blame: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-blame Discover the underlying reasons for blaming others and learn effective strategies for fostering self-awareness and accountability in your communications. Key takeaways: Blaming others often stems from self-preservation, ego, fear of failure or a limited perspective, not just the situation itself | Recognising that you blame others is the essential first step before you can change the behaviour | Notice the triggers that push you towards blaming, so you can catch yourself in the moment | Taking ownership when things go wrong builds trust and shows maturity, even though it feels uncomfortable | Ask for honest feedback on your behaviour. It stings short term but helps you grow long term - The difference between confidence and arrogance?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-difference-between-confidence-and-arrogance Discover the key difference between confidence and arrogance, rooted in intent, and learn how to ensure you come across as confident rather than arrogant. Key takeaways: The real difference between confidence and arrogance is your intent, not your words or actions. | If your intent is to look good or seem cleverer than others, you'll come across as arrogant. | If your intent is to serve, share and improve lives, you'll come across as confident. | Two people can say identical things in the same situation and still be read completely differently, because intent shows through. | Before you speak or act, ask yourself what you truly want to be known as. - Best ever creativity quote: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/best-ever-creativity-quote The blog post explores the essence of creativity as the act of capturing ideas and emphasizes the importance of consistently exercising and managing this skill, drawing insights from Jax Jones' perspective and the author's personal experiences in the creative industry. Key takeaways: Creativity isn't dreaming up ideas, it's capturing them before they slip away. | Treat creativity as a muscle: train it with a constant daily exercise. | Ideas alone don't get you hired, talent and delivery do. | Real creative work happens word by word, page by page, not in one big burst. - Bore off Hyundai: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/bore-off-hyundai Korean car manufacturer Hyundai's new advertising campaign attempts to teach Brits the correct pronunciation of 'Hyundai', but the effort may not change British habits, highlighting the joy of linguistic diversity. Key takeaways: A brand telling you how to pronounce its name rarely changes the habits of a nation. | Regional accents and quirks (tomato, Edinburgh, Worcestershire Sauce) are worth celebrating, not correcting. | Focus your energy on what you can actually change, and make peace with what you can't. | Some things are genuinely out of your control, so don't let them steal your headspace. - Lost an hour?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/lost-an-hour This weekend, as the clocks go forward, embrace the opportunity to reframe your mindset with positive language shifts like "gained light nights" and discover the impact a single word can have on energy and engagement. Key takeaways: Swap 'lost an hour' for 'gained light nights' and notice how your mindset shifts with it | When someone's searching for something, ask 'what are you finding?' instead of 'what have you lost?' | Change 'is there anything else I can help you with?' to 'is there something else?' for a better response | Replace 'I'm tired' with 'I could do with more energy' and feel the difference within minutes | One small word change can genuinely shift how energised or engaged you feel - Previously on 24: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/previously-on-24 Explore how the TV series "24" inspires effective communication and discover an upcoming webinar "See Smile Say Hello" aimed at enhancing customer service for entrepreneurs and small business professionals. Key takeaways: A good recap tells people what matters most, not just what happened, so they get more from what comes next | Before diving into new information, check the other person already understands the basics, or you'll just frustrate them both | In any journey, where you start, the route you take and where you end up all matter, but where you start is key | Repeating yourself louder never makes you clearer, explain from the other person's point of understanding instead - What’s happening to customer service?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-happening-to-customer-service Discover how a beautifully refurbished hotel with a neglected staff training budget led to a disappointing customer service experience involving a nearly empty bottle of Prosecco. Key takeaways: Spending on decor while neglecting staff training turns good facilities into poor experiences. | Every small moment, even a nearly empty bottle, is a chance for staff to shine or disappoint. | Untrained staff default to rigid rules ('don't give anything away') instead of good judgement. | Ask what you would do as the customer, the staff member and the owner: each view teaches something different. | Train your people as generously as you fit out your premises, or the investment goes to waste. - How to lose well: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-lose-well Discover the art of losing gracefully as Newcastle fans demonstrate in their spirited journey to the Carabao Cup Final in London. Key takeaways: Being gracious in defeat is a tough skill to master, but it matters. | Celebrate the occasion and keep enjoying yourself, even after a tough defeat. | Congratulate the winner sincerely: generosity in defeat says more about you than victory does. | How you lose says as much about your character as how you win. - When you find your passion: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-you-find-your-passion Discover the transformative power of passion through a behind-the-scenes tour at The Alnwick Garden's pump room, where Dean's enthusiasm turns a lesson in water distribution engineering into an unforgettable experience. Key takeaways: Genuine passion for your subject makes even a dry topic captivating to an audience | Knowing your stuff, involving everyone and adding humour turns a talk into an experience | When you're passionate about a project, you get buy-in, attention and people listen | Give every person in your audience just the right amount of attention | Ask yourself what subject you love enough to write a book on - What you learn from the Brit Awards: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-you-learn-from-the-brit-awards Discover the highlights and insights from the Brit Awards, including standout red carpet moments, the challenges of hosting, memorable acceptance speeches, evolving music opinions, and the unsung heroes behind the scenes, as we reflect on recognition and excellence. Key takeaways: Prepare thoroughly, then use only a small part of it, that restraint separates the best performers from the rest. | Work out what your own standout moment is, then use it to make yourself memorable. | Recognition matters to everyone, even people who act like it doesn't, so give more of it to those you admire. | A quick message telling someone they're doing a great job costs nothing and means a lot. | Notice and praise the people working behind the scenes, they rarely get the credit they deserve. - Knowledge and Wisdom: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/knowledge-and-wisdom Discover how the journey from acquiring knowledge to applying it leads to true wisdom and success in this insightful blog post, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. - Do It Yourself: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-it-yourself Transform your home improvement skills and boost your confidence with this DIY self-help guide, as one dad discovers during a productive weekend of tasks at his daughter's flat. Key takeaways: You're often more capable than you think, but it takes a real need to prove it | Motivation follows necessity: you learn fastest when you actually have to do the job | Notice what you spend your valuable time watching, it shapes what you learn | Follow five simple steps for self-help: work out what you need, find good information, learn it, do it, then reward yourself | Finishing a job you didn't think you could do builds confidence for the next one - Decision-making made easy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/decision-making-made-easy Discover how mastering decision-making, from gathering information to trusting your intuition, can enhance your life and align with your personal goals. Key takeaways: Break every decision into three steps: gather information, analyse the options, then commit | Test a decision by asking whether it moves you closer to your goal or further away | Know your authentic self first, decisions get easier once you know what you stand for | Trust your intuition, that little voice is worth listening to | Give yourself a clear goal and plan so evaluating choices becomes far simpler - Fraught with friction: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/fraught-with-friction Enhance your customer service by eliminating friction and providing a seamless experience, as friction is the top annoyance that may drive customers to seek smoother alternatives. Key takeaways: Friction, not rudeness or a mistake, is now the top reason customers walk away. | Customers forgive a dropped ball or a pricing error far more readily than a clunky process. | Watch for hidden friction: repeated password resets, unnecessary printouts, forced app downloads, forced appointment slots. | Every point of friction slows a customer down at the exact moment they are deciding whether to buy or stay loyal. | Ask yourself honestly whether you could afford to be the customer in your own process. - A robot wrote this: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-robot-wrote-this Explore how artificial intelligence is transforming writing in this engaging blog post that features a head-to-head challenge between human and AI-authored 'Five Ways to Be More Confident in 2023' lists, where readers can vote for their favourite and discover the surprising results. Key takeaways: A grateful list each night, celebrating small wins, builds genuine confidence over time | Confidence is something you do, not something you have: act the part until it becomes real | Completing even a small task gives your confidence a boost, so aim for two or three a day | Surrounding yourself with confident, supportive people helps your own confidence grow | When Michael pitted his own list against an AI's, readers preferred the AI version by 56% to 44% - Curate Your Life: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/curate-your-life Discover how to curate your life in 2023 by focusing on the best experiences and opportunities, as shared by DJ Fat Tony and Michael Heppell, author of a new book and keynote speaker at the Alnwick Story Fest Book Festival. Key takeaways: Swap create for curate: you can't control everything, but you can choose the best of what you have | With so much clutter around, the good stuff is still there if you look for it | Being a curator means only picking the best, not accepting everything that comes your way | Ask yourself what your best stuff is right now, then decide what to curate and create next - My Easiest Message: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-easiest-message Celebrate the festive season with gratitude and exciting plans for 2023, including a new book and online programme, while joining the How to Be Brilliant community to share your messages of joy. - How many ways can you love someone?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-many-ways-can-you-love-someone Explore the myriad ways to express love, from small gestures to profound connections, and discover the eight types of love identified by Cosmopolitan in this engaging blog post. Key takeaways: The smallest gestures of love often have the biggest impact, so don't wait for grand ones. | Grand gestures can feel better for the person giving them than the person receiving them. | Psychologists describe eight distinct types of love, from playful (Ludus) to longstanding (Pragma). | Actions and words both matter, it depends on which action and which words you choose. | Ask yourself regularly how you actually show love, not just how you feel it. - Levelwhelm: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/levelwhelm Discover how to achieve a balanced state of 'Levelwhelm' this season with four simple strategies to manage overwhelming and underwhelming moments effectively. Key takeaways: Feeling overwhelmed? Finish just one easy thing first, that alone shifts your state. | Underwhelmed by people, places or things? Lower your expectations and they'll feel more whelming. | Laugh at how ridiculous your underwhelm actually is, it follows naturally from lowering expectations. | Remember the small stuff you're stressing over: burnt sprouts, late cards, messy wrapping, no one really cares. | Aim for Levelwhelm, the balanced middle ground between overwhelm and underwhelm, not either extreme. - You can't run a marathon in an hour: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-cant-run-a-marathon-in-an-hour Embrace the festive season without overwhelm by taking small, positive steps every day, prioritising self-care, and connecting with supportive communities for a stress-free December. Key takeaways: When the festive to do list feels huge, break it into small daily steps instead of tackling it all at once | Overwhelm usually strikes when you feel you have taken on too much, so pace yourself through December | You can't be better for others unless you're better for yourself first, so prioritise self care | Look for positivity deliberately, it is there if you actively search for it | Lean on a supportive community when the busy season feels like too much to handle alone - Too much choice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/too-much-choice In his latest blog post, Michael Heppell highlights the value of simplicity by offering three exclusive Black Friday deals, including a significant discount on joining his private membership group TEAM17 for just £17. Key takeaways: Keep your offers simple: too many options make people buy less, not more. | The jam experiment shows a bigger product range can actually reduce sales. | Fewer, stronger choices beat a wide scattergun of offers every time. | Pick your best few options rather than overwhelming people with choice. - The Opportunity Clock: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-opportunity-clock Unlock your potential with the Opportunity Clock by embracing both the motivation to move towards holding your published book and away from the regret of missed chances—join the final Write That Book Masterclass today. Key takeaways: We're driven by two forces: moving towards opportunity and moving away from an alarm we want to escape | Pair both motivators when chasing a goal: the joy of achieving it and the regret of never trying | Picture the finished result, like holding your own published book, to build towards motivation | Remember the regret of years spent thinking about a goal but never starting it, and let that push you on | Combining towards and away from motivation is what turns intention into finished, published work - A rare phenomenon is taking place: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-rare-phenomenon-is-taking-place Eddie Howe's leadership has transformed Newcastle United into a top-tier team by fostering strong teamwork and passion, proving that money alone can't buy success. Key takeaways: Money can't buy teamwork: a big budget alone won't turn a group into a team. | Get your foundations right first, before you chase results or bring in stars. | Real leadership means instilling belonging and passion before anything else. | Notice when people start saying 'we': it's a sign a team is forming. | Enjoy a good run while it lasts, but stay grounded about whether it will. - Which camp are you in?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/which-camp-are-you-in Explore which camp you belong to in the inspiring journey of writing a book and join the ambition of helping 1,000 people achieve their publishing dreams. Key takeaways: Work out which camp you're in: keen to write, willing but reluctant, or simply not interested. | Not fancying the hard work of writing doesn't mean you can't still write your book. | Set yourself a big, specific goal, like helping 1,000 people write 1,000 books, and commit to it fully. | Support someone else's book and you could end up thanked in their acknowledgements. - It's going well. So... Stop!: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/going-well-stop Discover the surprising strategy to avoid self-sabotage by understanding why sometimes slowing down and enjoying the journey, even when things are going well, might be more beneficial than pushing for constant growth, as highlighted in a recent TEAM17 Stream hosted by Michael Heppell. Key takeaways: When things are going well, it's fine to slow down or even stop for a moment. | You don't always have to be doing more just because something is working. | Constantly fanning the flame of success can tip over into self-sabotage. | Go for growth, but take time to enjoy the journey along the way. - Lost & Found: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/lost-found Discover how to rediscover lost passions and achieve your writing dreams with Michael's Write That Book Challenge, designed to help you find motivation and publish your book. Key takeaways: When you've lost your passion, faith or motivation, go back to what you remember and reconnect with how you found it. | Retracing your steps rarely finds lost keys, but it works surprisingly well for lost love, faith and passion. | People who lost their motivation partway through writing a book often rediscover it and go on to finish, publish and sell. - There's much more to this: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/theres-much-more-to-this Explore the transformative power of a gratitude list in training your brain to focus on positive aspects of life, enhancing your ability to evoke positive emotions when needed. Key takeaways: Keeping a gratitude list trains your brain to focus on the good things in life. | That habit puts you in a stronger position to trigger a positive emotion whenever you need one. | Practise a skill before you need it, like drilling a dance step, so it's ready when the moment comes. | Write down what you're grateful for regularly. It builds a habit, not just a one-off feeling. - When to clean tables: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-to-clean-tables Discover the best time to clean airplane tables for optimal customer satisfaction—learn why doing it both before and after use offers exceptional service without much cost. Key takeaways: Clean the customer touchpoint both before and after use, not just one or the other | Cleaning before use shows the customer you care, even though it only takes seconds | Cleaning after use benefits the next customer but the current one never sees it | Doing both costs little, around 60 seconds, yet makes a real difference to how service feels | Small, low-cost gestures like this are what separates good service from great service - Coming Together: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/coming-together Discover the power of connection as diverse groups unite through challenging times, fostering community and support, and learn how you can engage and thrive together with Michael Heppell's online and offline networks. Key takeaways: Shared hard times, a pandemic, a cost of living crisis, national loss, can bring strangers closer together. | When you connect with others you get better, and getting better helps you connect more. | Don't wait for the next crisis to reach out to people, start connecting now. | Show up where your community already is, online groups, social media, or in real life, and say hello. - The Excitement of Encyclopaedias: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-excitement-of-encyclopaedias Before Google existed, the family encyclopaedia offered a magical journey of discovery, inviting readers to explore more than just facts in its captivating, alphabetically-arranged pages. Key takeaways: A quick Google search hands you the fact and nothing else, an encyclopaedia drew you in further. | Alphabetical browsing turned a search for one fact into a journey past dozens of others. | Looking up giraffe could lead you to ginseng, or discovering Agnes Baden-Powell founded the Girl Guides. | Seek out sources that reward curiosity beyond the single answer you went looking for. - Get Bitter or Get Better: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/get-bitter-or-get-better In a world where it's easy to be triggered and harbour bitterness, this blog post explores the importance of choosing self-improvement and offers insights into managing personal triggers effectively. Key takeaways: Notice what triggers you: often it's small, stupid things you have little control over | Pause and take a breath or two before you react, rather than blurting out in the moment | When you overreact, apologise, even if it's just to whoever was sitting closest | Apologising makes you better, and it's a habit worth building | Choose to get better rather than bitter when something winds you up - You Only See It When You Stop: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-only-see-it-when-you-stop Discover the unexpected wonders around you by slowing down and observing beyond your usual perspective, as emphasised in this insightful blog post about mindfulness and hidden surprises in everyday life. Key takeaways: Slow down and really look, you'll spot far more than you do rushing past | We tend to see only what we're already looking for, and miss the rest | Stopping, even briefly, can reveal things that were there all along | Ask yourself regularly what you might be missing simply by moving too fast - 3 Deadly Words: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3-deadly-words Discover how replacing procrastination with immediate action can transform your daily life by swapping the phrase 'In a minute' with 'Do it now' for greater productivity and better relationships. Key takeaways: Catch yourself saying 'In a minute' and swap it for 'Do it now' instead. | Saying 'Do it now' three times gives the phrase maximum effect on your self-talk. | 'In a minute' quietly stalls relationships when tasks for a partner keep getting put off. | Notice what you're putting off right now, then do it now rather than later. | Small phrases shape daily behaviour, so choose words that push you into action, not delay. - Is it still summer?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-it-still-summer In the UK, while parents humorously grapple with prolonged summer holidays, school preparations, and weather changes, delighting in both warmth and seasonal predictions, the spirit of embracing summer remains strong. Key takeaways: We complain loudly about things we cannot control, like the weather, yet stay silent about poor customer service. | Don't let the fear of upsetting someone stop you giving honest feedback when service falls short. | Choose not to complain and choose to enjoy things instead, even when everyone else is moaning. - Play the part: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/play-the-part Discover the empowering journey of embracing your unique role in life and finding fulfilment in playing the part you were meant to, as highlighted in this inspiring blog post. Key takeaways: Choose to play the major part in your own story, not a minor role in someone else's | Playing a smaller role is fine, but only if it genuinely brings you joy and satisfaction | Playing small does you, and everyone around you, no favours | If you believe you're destined for a bigger part, stop waiting and take action now - Two types of error: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/two-types-of-error Discover the power of checklists to avoid errors of ignorance and ineptitude, ensuring stress-free holidays and efficient daily routines, as highlighted in Michael's blog inspired by Atul Gawande's "The Checklist Manifesto". Key takeaways: Keep a written checklist for anything you repeat, from holidays to daily routines | Errors of ignorance happen when you don't know enough, errors of ineptitude happen when you don't use what you already know | A checklist stops you relying on memory and repeating the same avoidable mistakes | Serious, high-stakes tasks (pilots, surgeons) rely on checklists, so everyday tasks deserve one too | Write your checklist once and reuse it every time, adding to it as you learn - Why we exaggerate: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-exaggerate Discover the reasons behind our tendency to exaggerate and how it influences our sense of worth, social belonging, and identity in this engaging blog post. Key takeaways: We exaggerate because it feels like enhancing, not lying, so our conscience stays comfortable. | Overstating things can boost our sense of worth, help us fit in, or feed our ego. | A one-star review over a broken hairdryer shows how ego inflates small problems into big complaints. | The same tendency works in your favour: brilliant service can earn wildly generous, exaggerated praise. | Notice when you embellish and ask what it's really giving you before you say it. - The eyes have it: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-eyes-have-it This blog post celebrates the astonishing capabilities of human senses, highlighting their superiority over technology in capturing life's vivid experiences like sunsets and aromas, and invites readers to share their own sensory anecdotes. Key takeaways: Your eyes beat any smartphone camera, so stop reaching for your phone and just look at the sunset. | You can detect over a trillion different scents, and smell is one of the fastest routes back to a memory. | Your hearing works 24 hours a day, so when someone seems not to be listening, their brain has simply tuned you out. | There are four types of touch receptor, each tuned to a different sensation, from vibration to the lightest texture. | Pause daily to notice what your senses are picking up. It is a simple habit worth being grateful for. - Think you’re better than air conditioning?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/think-youre-better-than-air-conditioning Discover simple ways to recharge your energy without air conditioning, from quiet wakefulness to mindful walking, and explore more in our latest blog post. Key takeaways: Close your eyes for 7 minutes: quiet wakefulness is a free, simple way to recharge. | Drink a big glass of water to recharge your whole body. | Stretch for a few minutes to reduce fatigue and lower your risk of injury. | Try dry body brushing to boost blood supply, unblock pores and stimulate lymph flow. | Take a gentle, mindful walk rather than a hike to recharge properly. - Three Routes To Mastery  : https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/three-routes-to-mastery Discover the paths to achieving mastery through natural talent, dedicated practice, and effective coaching, while exploring how these elements can enhance your personal growth. Key takeaways: Mastery tends to come from natural talent, 10,000 hours of practice, or coaching, often a mix of all three | Natural talent alone is rare, so find and lean into the one thing you're genuinely gifted at | 10,000 hours of practice is roughly three to six years, but make sure year two isn't just a repeat of year one | A great coach can save you years by offering the one insight or tweak that shifts your whole performance | Focus your effort on whichever route suits your strengths rather than chasing all three equally - Words Change Worlds: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/words-change-worlds Discover how the transformative power of writing changed my life, leading me from self-doubt to becoming an internationally bestselling author, and join my webinar to learn how you too can harness the impact of words. Key takeaways: Self-doubt and being told you can't write are obstacles to overcome, not reasons to stop. | Write every day, even when most of it is rubbish. No one has to see your early drafts. | Redraft without fear: this newsletter took four attempts before it was fit to send. | Write it once and it can be read over and over, long after you're gone. | If writing isn't for you, make sure reading is: it shapes you just as much. - The Biggest DIY Mistake : https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-biggest-diy-mistake The biggest DIY mistake mirrors personal development errors, where improving only one area, like redecorating a hallway, leaves untouched fundamental aspects similar to ignoring core personal growth, highlighting the need for a great coach to address both. Key takeaways: Doing up one room and stopping mirrors how people tackle personal growth: fix one visible thing and quit. | A book, a course or a TED talk is like decorating the hall, it leaves the rest of the house untouched. | The hard work is fixing your core, your values and your authentic self, not the easy, visible wins. | A great coach appreciates what you have already fixed but pushes you to tackle the parts you are avoiding. | Expect discomfort and tough love from the best coaches, that is what gets you a truly stunning result. - 124 didn't, but over 5000 did.: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/124-didnt-but-over-5000-did Discover how to shift your focus from negative news and embrace positivity with insights from the recent Not Just Travel conference, where over 5,000 flights continued as planned despite headlines highlighting 124 cancellations. Key takeaways: When 124 flights are cancelled, remember the 98 percent that flew as planned. | Bad news headlines grab attention, but they rarely tell the whole story. | Dozens of glowing reviews can still be drowned out by one harsh comment, notice which one you dwell on. | Even people who teach positive thinking need a moment to feel it before they flip it. | Give yourself a short pity party, then use a Flip It tool and move on. - Cooking for 24: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/cooking-for-24 At a Jubilee party, I cooked a fantastic barbecue for 24 guests, but the real hero was Mrs Hepp, whose behind-the-scenes efforts deserved all the recognition, highlighting the importance of acknowledging those who support us. Key takeaways: The person who gets the credit isn't always the one who did the work, notice who really deserves it | Behind every visible success sits an army of people doing the real, unseen graft | From movie crews to Hadrian's Wall to the Apollo missions, the many rarely get the recognition | Actively thank someone who helps you be your best, don't assume they already know | Recognising someone's background effort, publicly if you can, costs little and means a lot - What is the best?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-best Explore how the concept of 'the best' varies across different contexts, from music and books to team dynamics and marketing, while offering insights on achieving excellence and inviting readers to share their own 'bests' for a chance to win a copy of "Flip It – How to Get the Best Out of Everything". Key takeaways: Don't wait for inspiration: the best ideas come from consistently working at the problem | A truly great team shares one vision, with everyone fully committed to it | The smaller your niche, the easier it becomes to be the best in it | If something's a 'best kept secret', that usually means the marketing needs work - 70 Years in the Same Job: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/70-years-in-the-same-job Explore the remarkable commitment of Queen Elizabeth II's 70-year reign and find out how you can celebrate the Platinum Jubilee with exclusive offers and reflections on personal dedication. Key takeaways: Consider Cheryl Black's theory: change your partner, house or job every seven years to stay fresh. | Long term commitment is rare, so notice and value what you have genuinely stuck with for years. | Ask yourself honestly what you've stuck with and what you've quit, then reflect on why. - What's Happened to Hospitalty?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-happened-to-hospitalty The blog post "What's Happened to Hospitality?" highlights the staffing crisis affecting the hospitality industry, urging empathy and understanding towards overburdened front-line workers during these challenging times. Key takeaways: Remember that slow service or fewer smiles usually means an overstretched team, not carelessness. | Before you complain to hospitality staff, consider the staffing crisis they're working through. | Small teams are often trying to cover the work of a full one, so be patient. | Choose kindness towards front-line hospitality workers during these difficult, understaffed times. | Say thank you to staff doing their best under very difficult conditions, it matters. - Expect Your Fun To Be Taken Seriously: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/expect-your-fun-to-be-taken-seriously Discover how taking your fun seriously and planning ahead can lead to memorable experiences, as explored by Michael Heppell in his latest blog post. Key takeaways: The best fun is usually planned, not left to chance, so take your planning seriously. | Booking ahead (a table, a trip, a treat) often beats spontaneity because you avoid disappointment and queuing. | Having something booked gives you the joy of looking forward to it, not just the day itself. | Spontaneous magic days are memorable precisely because they're rare, don't rely on them for regular fun. | Decide whether you're a planner who schedules joy or someone happy to see what turns up, then own it. - I'd Rather: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/id-rather Explore personal preferences in this reflective blog post, where Michael shares thought-provoking comparisons of what he would rather experience, from being a leader to trying something new, inviting readers to ponder their own choices. Key takeaways: Choose to be the driver, the leader or the speaker, not the passive bystander watching from the sidelines | Put your energy into finding solutions rather than worrying about the problem | Being too busy beats being slightly bored, and being too hot beats being too cold | Stay open to having your mind changed rather than clinging to a comfortable myth | Trusting people and occasionally being let down beats staying suspicious and never really knowing - Do You Lick Plates?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-you-lick-plates Explore the intriguing question of whether licking plates, collecting hotel pencils, and using coupons are acts of frugality or simply getting the best value for your money in Michael's engaging blog post. Key takeaways: What looks like a quirky habit, licking a plate clean or hoarding hotel pencils, is often just getting best value | Reframe frugal or unusual behaviour: ask whether it's really greed or simply making the most of what you've paid for | Even the wealthy, like Lady Gaga with her coupons, still enjoy squeezing extra value from everyday purchases | Getting best value isn't about how much you can afford, it's a mindset you choose to keep - Windswept And Interesting: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/windswept-and-interesting Discover the essence of being "windswept and interesting" through authentic self-expression, inspired by Billy Connolly's insightful autobiography and a personal journey of finding joy in doing what you love. Key takeaways: Trying to be windswept and interesting guarantees failure: you either have it or you don't | Find work that fits who you are, not what pleases other people, and you'll pinch yourself every day | Forcing a fitness regime that doesn't suit you brings misery, so find the version that feels effortless | Making a conscious decision to be your authentic self, not something else, is genuinely liberating - Don't Give Easter Eggs: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dont-give-easter-eggs This Easter, swap overpriced chocolate eggs for thoughtful and memorable books, supporting authors and local bookshops while leaving a lasting impression. Key takeaways: Swap the overpriced Easter egg for a paperback, it costs about the same. | A book lasts longer, is healthier and more memorable than chocolate. | Buying an author's book directly makes their day, so give one as a gift. | Buy Easter books from a local bookshop, or from independent authors, to make a bigger difference. | Already bought your chocolate eggs? Buy a book too, it's never too late. - What Happened To 5 Star Service?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-happened-to-5-star-service Explore the decline of five-star customer service and discover how businesses can stand out by delivering exceptional experiences in a world where quality is often overlooked. Key takeaways: When customer service is getting worse everywhere, being brilliant is how you stand out. | Unhappy customers rarely complain, they just leave and tell no one why. | Happy customers rarely praise you either, they just quietly stay loyal. | Five star experiences do more than build loyalty, they create raving fans who talk about you. | A simple smile and a good morning still go a long way when someone walks into your store. - If No One Gives You A Medal: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-no-one-gives-you-a-medal Design your own success and cultivate self-recognition daily, inspired by Billy Connolly's empowering advice in his autobiography "Windswept and Interesting." Key takeaways: Don't wait for recognition, permission or credit from others: create your own instead. | Each evening, write five things you're grateful for, then add one thing you're proud of. | Keep your pride list private, it's for your own fulfilment, not for bragging rights. | Notice the small, proud moments in your day and give them the weight they deserve. - I'm In Love: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/im-in-love Discover the joy of 'book love' and join the Write That Book Challenge this April to turn your dream of writing into a reality, as explored in Michael Heppell's latest blog post. Key takeaways: 92% of people say they'd like to write a book, yet fewer than 1% ever do. | Most people already have the desire to write, they just need the how. | Physical books create a feeling worth chasing, that's the buying, reading and writing habit worth keeping. | Michael runs a Write That Book Pop up and Challenge every April to help you actually start. | If you've ever thought 'could I write a book?', treat that as reason enough to try. - My First Day: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-first-day Embrace the discomfort of first days, from new schools to starting a business, as these experiences offer growth and excitement despite initial challenges—share your memorable first-day stories in the comments below! Key takeaways: The muddled, terrified feeling of a first day is universal, not a sign you're doing it wrong. | Remind yourself the fear of a new situation is only temporary; it always gets better afterwards. | Don't be afraid to ask for help when you're thrown in at the deep end. | Step outside your comfort zone more often to experience the joy that comes with new first days. | Ignore the doubters. Believing you'll be brilliant matters more than one person's discouraging comment. - I wish: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-wish Explore how shifting focus from wistful "I wish" thoughts to celebrating personal strengths can lead to lasting happiness and appreciation in your daily life. Key takeaways: Wishes in hindsight are about loss, wishes about the future are about hope, but neither feeling lasts long | Shift your focus from what you wish for to appreciating what you already have | In a world of averages, there are things you're better at than most, find them | Celebrate what you're already good at instead of wishing for something else | Focusing on your strengths improves how you feel for longer than any wish does - What's wrong with World Book Day: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-wrong-with-world-book-day World Book Day is criticised for prioritising costumes over books, but its promotion of reading deserves full support, encouraging programmes like 'Write That Book' to inspire new authors. Key takeaways: Support anything that encourages reading, writing and the promotion of real books. | Don't let complaints about costumes overshadow World Book Day's real mission to get children reading. | If you've ever thought about writing a book, treat it as your kick up the backside to start. | Set yourself a big, scary goal, even one as ambitious as helping 1,000 people write 1,000 books. | Join the Write That Book programme to get everything you need to write, publish and sell your book. - What does the Ukraine crisis mean to me?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-does-the-ukraine-crisis-mean-to-me Explore how the Ukraine crisis personally affects you, emphasizing the importance of mindful thinking, understanding global perspectives, and focusing on your circle of influence during these challenging times. Key takeaways: What goes on in your mind during a crisis is down to you, so choose your thinking with care. | Take world events seriously, but don't let fear crowd out clear thinking. | Remember other people, including those closer to the crisis, will think about it differently to you. | Focus on your circle of influence: concentrate on what you can actually do. | Know that difficult times will pass, and take care of yourself while they do. - Pick a card: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/pick-a-card Discover how the 'Pick a card' principle of blending familiarity with surprise can enhance everything from magic tricks to coaching writers in this engaging blog post by Michael. Key takeaways: Blend familiarity with surprise, people relax into what they recognise, then love being caught out | Give your reader a hook down a familiar path, then land an unexpected twist | The same principle behind a great magic trick works when coaching writers | Your job is to provide both familiarity and surprise, not one or the other - Less Than 4 Seconds: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/less-than-4-seconds Discover inspiring ways to make a positive impact in just four seconds, inspired by Yusheng Du's record-breaking Rubik's Cube feat. Key takeaways: A genuine, positive impact often takes less than four seconds to make happen | Say a proper apology, give a compliment, or change your mind when you're wrong | Small physical acts count too: pick up a piece of rubbish or let someone out in front of you | A real smile held for four seconds and a few kind words online cost you nothing | You don't need a big gesture to be brilliant, just a few consistent seconds of kindness - Two years ago today: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/two-years-ago-today Reflecting on the last two extraordinary years and anticipating transformative change ahead, this blog encourages embracing readiness and brilliance, inviting readers to share their thoughts and join a positive community. Key takeaways: Change is constant, so build the habit of getting ready before it arrives, not after. | Use a quieter month, like February, as your reset point to prepare for what's next. | Ask yourself if you're ready to pivot, flip, switch, accept and be brilliant. | Looking back at how far you've come helps you get ready for what's coming next. - The key to brand loyalty: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-key-to-brand-loyalty Trust is the cornerstone of brand loyalty, as demonstrated by the confidence consumers place in companies like Amazon even when things go awry, highlighting the importance of building and maintaining customer trust to foster lasting relationships. Key takeaways: Trust, not price or product, is what really creates brand loyalty. | Customers forgive a company they trust, even when a delivery or service partner lets them down. | Building trust takes real effort, and keeping it means never taking your customer for granted. | Make regular deposits in your customer's emotional bank account so they'll forgive the odd mistake. | If you let a customer down, rebuild trust quickly, don't let the account stay overdrawn. - You have bad breath: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/you-have-bad-breath Discover effective strategies for addressing sensitive issues like halitosis or body odour with empathy and honesty in this insightful blog post. Key takeaways: Hints and clues rarely work when telling someone about bad breath or body odour, be direct instead. | Expect denial, even people who ask for honest feedback often reject it when it actually comes. | Before delivering hard feedback, remember the person giving it has probably been dreading the moment too. | Putting off an awkward conversation, hoping the problem fixes itself, usually just makes it worse. | Apply Flip It Thinking: if feedback makes you flinch, consider what it took for the other person to say it. - How to wipe out negativity: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-wipe-out-negativity Discover effective ways to eliminate negativity from your life by replacing it with positivity through uplifting music, encouraging reads, inspirational videos, engaging podcasts, supportive friends, and positive social media experiences. Key takeaways: Negativity needs fuel, so starve it rather than trying to remove it altogether | Replace negativity with positivity instead of fighting it head on | Build a feel good playlist and choose reading that makes you better, not fearful | Spend more time with friends who lift you up and less with those who drag you down | Do all six positivity habits together to extinguish negativity, not just one - 22 Ways To Make Your 2022 a Brill One: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/22-ways-to-make-your-2022-a-brill-one Discover 22 inspiring ways to make 2022 a brilliant year, from embracing silence and reading more to building momentum and connecting with old friends. Key takeaways: Try the 17% rule: cut 17% of what you don't need and give 17% more on what matters | Use your best things now, crockery, jeans, perfume, rather than saving them for someday | Check in with an old friend today, the gap is never too long to close | Build momentum by starting with intent today, it's hard to procrastinate once you have pace | Learning to say no nicely is one of the greatest tools for self preservation - Merry Christmas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/merry-christmas Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and a peaceful holiday season, with support and encouragement for whatever you face, as we look forward to a brilliant 2022 together. - Is Comparison the Thief of Joy?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-comparison-the-thief-of-joy The blog post "Is Comparison the Thief of Joy?" explores the idea that while comparing yourself to others can diminish happiness, it can also be transformed into a positive force by inspiring personal growth and fostering gratitude for one's own life. Key takeaways: When you catch yourself feeling jealous of someone, flip it and let it inspire you instead. | Only compare the things you can actually change, and park the rest without guilt. | Remember that plenty of people would happily swap lives with you, exactly as it is now. | Comparison only steals your joy if you let it: used well, it can build gratitude instead. | Watch for negative comparisons creeping in during busy, emotional times like the festive season. - What Will Did: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-will-did Discover how Will Smith's relentless dedication to outworking others and strategic self-promotion propelled him to become one of the world's biggest movie stars, as revealed in his fascinating autobiography. Key takeaways: Study the best in your field before you start: Will Smith and his manager analysed the top 100 grossing movies first. | Ask the people at the top what it takes, then act on the answer, like Will Smith did with Arnold Schwarzenegger. | Find out how your hardest working competitor operates, then commit to doing more than they do. | Promotion and hard graft win as much as talent: outworking everyone doubled box office revenue in whole countries. | Visualisation, affirmations and vision boards mean nothing without graft behind them. - Why Windmills Work: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/windmills Discover why windmills must face the wind to harness energy and gain strength in this insightful blog post by Michael, where the importance of meeting challenges head-on is paralleled with the joys of grandparenting and creative play. Key takeaways: Windmills only generate power when they face into the wind, not when it's at their back. | You're built the same way: facing resistance builds strength and steadfastness over time. | Wind at your back feels easy in the moment, but it just carries you along, it doesn't develop you. | If the wind carries you off course, you still have to find your way back. | Ask yourself which direction you want your wind coming from, and choose to face it. - Embracing Bored: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/embracing-bored Discover the power of embracing boredom and slowing down in Michael's latest blog post, where he learns to find joy and creativity in the art of doing nothing. Key takeaways: Add the word Embrace in front of a struggle and it instantly flips how you feel about it | Try embracing not having, embracing slow, or embracing not knowing when things feel hard | Gamifying boredom, treating it as something to embrace, turns it into something enjoyable | Doing nothing for a weekend can spark genuine creativity and calm if you let yourself sit in it - It's all about you: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/its-all-about-you Discover why embracing your unique human touch in every interaction is key to making meaningful connections and leaving a lasting impression, as explored in "It's All About You" by Michael. Key takeaways: Bring your own personality into every interaction, not just your work. | People remember your human touch far more than the transaction itself. | Choose bravery over keeping your head down, even when that's the safer advice. | Ask for and use people's names, it turns a routine exchange into a connection. | Make your work and your life so distinctive that people are drawn to you. - Why You Can: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-can Discover how adopting a positive mindset and language can transform 'can't' into 'can', empowering you to achieve your goals with actionable steps. Key takeaways: Swap can't for a more positive phrase, like I'm up for it or I'll have a crack | Take any action, however tiny, rather than staying stagnant: progress in the right direction counts | Make your commitment public, you're far more likely to follow through | Watch the thin line between genuinely unable to and simply not wanting to | Sharing your goal openly brings encouragement and support from people around you - If Einstein Had Google: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-einstein-had-google Explore how Albert Einstein might balance his genius with modern technology like Google, while reflecting on the art of thinking independently before resorting to online searches. Key takeaways: Even a genius like Einstein had more failures than successes on the way to his breakthroughs. | Before you reach for Google, pause for a moment and think it through yourself first. | Make looking something up a conscious decision, not an automatic reflex. | Notice how much you trust the first answer a search gives you, then question it. - Nigel Pinner's Enormous Ears: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/nigel-pinners-enormous-ears Discover the power of captivating book titles with Michael Heppell's "Write That Book Pop Up and Challenge," where over 1,000 participants share creative ideas to transform good books into best-sellers, including intriguing titles like "Nigel Pinner's Enormous Ears." Key takeaways: A weak title can bury a brilliant book, while a great title can carry a merely good one to best-seller status. | Borrow the politicians' trick: repeat the same few words until they stick in people's minds. | Treat your email subject lines like book titles, make them intriguing enough that people actually want to open them. | A curious, playful title beats a flat, descriptive one, whether it's a book, a headline or a subject line. | Great titles aren't just for authors, they shape how people respond to everything you write and send. - What are excuses?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-are-excuses This blog post explores the nature of excuses, or "invented reasons," highlighting how they allow us to defend our behaviour and avoid responsibility, while encouraging readers to stop postponing action and start taking responsibility for their tasks. Key takeaways: An excuse is simply an invented reason we create to defend our behaviour. | Renaming an excuse as a justification or explanation does not change the outcome: the task still did not get done. | Excuses are often used to postpone taking action or to avoid responsibility altogether. | Notice what you have been putting off and ask yourself if now is the time to act instead. | Being honest about your excuses is the first step to stopping the habit of making them. - No Facebook: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/no-facebook The blog post humorously reflects on the massive impact of the 2021 Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp outage, highlighting the global disruption it caused to communication, banking, and businesses while emphasising the importance of appreciating the convenience we often take for granted. Key takeaways: A single human error can take down platforms that two billion people rely on daily | We only notice how much we depend on 'just working' technology when it stops working | Treat any outage, power cut or disruption as a prompt to appreciate the convenience you normally take for granted | Use unexpected downtime as a nudge to talk to and appreciate the people around you | Ask yourself what you have faith will always work, because one day it won't - Just One Touch: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/just-one-touch Join Michael for insights on exceptional service and teamwork from a memorable weekend in Cartmel, featuring an unforgettable dining experience at L’Enclume in the Lake District. Key takeaways: Give colleagues a code, like a light touch on the shoulder, so a busy team can move without bumping into each other | Add a second signal, like touching lower down, to mean I'm here to help when someone's struggling | Look after your own people first: it makes looking after customers far easier | 5 Star Service starts internally. Deliver it to your staff before you expect them to deliver it to customers | Simple ideas aren't always easy. Small consistent habits, done often, create exceptional service - It's Easier With The Who: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/its-easier-with-the-who Discover the vital role of the ‘who’ in achieving your goals and explore TEAM17, a community for those eager to help and be helped, by joining the reopening of this dynamic support network. Key takeaways: Finding your why makes the what and how easier, but you also need the who. | The who are the people who genuinely want to help you, not just anyone who can. | A handful of committed helpers beats thousands of LinkedIn contacts you never ask for help. | Know exactly who to ask and what to ask them, rather than collecting connections for their own sake. - What's brilliant about VHS: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-brilliant-about-vhs Relive the nostalgic charm of VHS tapes and their unique viewing experience, as highlighted in this delightful blog post, while discovering the benefits of engaging with TEAM17, a dynamic community focused on personal growth and making a positive impact. Key takeaways: Having to put in a little effort, like loading and watching a VHS tape properly, makes the reward feel bigger | Don't be too quick to throw out things with sentimental value, you may be glad you kept them | Slowing down and giving something your full attention, without skipping ahead, can make it more magical | The best groups and opportunities ask you to put something in first before you get something better out - One Of Us: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-of-us In this engaging blog post, Michael shares his inspiring encounter with Carl Holmes, a like-minded individual who impressively pre-empted their development meeting by building a project app in advance, embodying the spirit of TEAM17's 'One of Us' ethos. Key takeaways: Don't wait to be asked: prepare and deliver before the meeting even starts | Being 'one of us' means like-minded, easy to get on with and enjoyable to be around | Take the risk of doing the work upfront, even if it costs you a weekend for nothing | Going beyond what's expected can win you the job before you've even pitched | Surround yourself with people who show initiative rather than just talk about it - Doing Their Best: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/doing-their-best The Rat Inn, like many in the hospitality and retail sectors, is facing staff shortages leading to extended wait times and closures, but showing patience and understanding as customers can help ease the stress on those working hard to provide the best service possible. Key takeaways: Staff shortages across hospitality, retail and transport mean everyone is stretched, not just one business. | Before you kick off about slow service, remember the current reality: it's harder than ever for the people serving you. | Choose patience over demands: wait a little longer, be tolerant, and accept a compromise when needed. | A smile and a genuine thank you cost nothing and ease the pressure on staff doing their best. | Your best and someone else's best will look different, but it's still their best, so judge kindly. - Idea translator required: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/idea-translator-required Discover the intriguing and whimsical notes jotted by Michael during late-night inspiration and share your interpretations for a chance to win his book, "Brilliant Life." - Push or Pull: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/push-or-pull Discover how finding your true motivation can transform exercise from a chore to a joy, and why attracting your goals is more effective than pushing, in this insightful blog post by Michael, as TEAM17 prepares to welcome new members this September. Key takeaways: Find your real why and exercise stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like a choice | Pain avoidance can get you started but it is hard to sustain motivation long term | Attracting yourself towards a goal you love works better than pushing yourself away from pain | Notice what you truly want, not just the surface goal, it often reveals a stronger reason to act | Being a magnet that pulls you towards what excites you beats forcing compliance through pressure - Are You Ready For An Awesome August: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/awesome-august Discover how to transform August from a 'pause month' into an 'Awesome August' with engaging daily activities from the "How to Be Brilliant" Facebook Group and make the conscious choice to thrive before September hits. Key takeaways: Treat August as a decision, not an automatic pause month before September | Choose to make the month count rather than waiting for September to pick up the pace | Don't assume everyone is away, keep reaching out and keep working - 17 Ways to Make Decisions: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/17-ways-to-make-decisions Discover 17 proven strategies to enhance your decision-making skills, an essential trait of brilliant individuals, shared by expert Michael after 30 years of studying highly successful people. Key takeaways: Gather the data first, even when it feels boring, before you decide anything. | Trust your intuition alongside the facts, it's a master skill worth developing. | Really listen to others, then play out the scenarios before you commit. | Once you've decided, move on. Wrong decisions happen, don't dwell on them. | Sleep on big decisions and avoid deciding when you're stressed, a night changes everything. - It's Too Hot. Really?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/4141-2 Readers in the UK have experienced a mini heatwave, sparking debates about accepting uncontrollable weather changes as part of life's unpredictable beauty. Key takeaways: Accepting what's outside your control, like the weather, is genuinely liberating. | Complaining about conditions you can't change wastes energy better spent enjoying them. | There's no such thing as the wrong weather, only the wrong clothes. - Having one in the bag: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/having-one-in-the-bag Having 'one in the bag' can reduce stress and enhance productivity, whether it's preparing newsletter content in advance or simply planning ahead with everyday tasks like meal prepping and scheduling, according to Michael. Key takeaways: Keep a few things prepared in advance, from meals to newsletters, to remove everyday stress. | Book your next haircut before you leave the salon so you're never caught without an appointment. | Batch your birthday and greeting cards for the next 90 days so they're ready when you need them. | Save a little cash regularly ahead of Christmas rather than facing the cost all at once. | Having something 'in the bag' brings a real sense of achievement, not just less stress. - The difficult second album: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-difficult-second-album The challenge faced by bands in replicating the success of their debut album lies in the intense pressure to quickly produce hits that took years of refinement, highlighting the importance of embracing risk and experimentation to grow as artists. Key takeaways: A hit that looks instant often hides years of quiet graft and live refinement beforehand. | Fear of failing after your first success is what tempts you to keep playing the hits instead of growing. | Treat a new idea like a new song: test it on the room even when the crowd wants the old favourites. | One hit wonders happen because people stop experimenting once they find something that works. | A bit of trepidation is a sign you are stretching, not a reason to stop. - One of the hardest things to do: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/one-of-the-hardest-things-to-do Discover the art of impactful writing with the Write That Book Masterclass, teaching authors how to balance length and engagement without being either too verbose or too sparing. - What made me cry last night: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-made-me-cry In an emotional live broadcast to the Write That Book Pop-Up Group, Michael reflects on the inspiring journey of first-time author Richard Thomas, whose beautifully produced book, "Memories from The End of the Line," brought tears to his eyes and highlighted the power of believing in someone's passion. Key takeaways: Believe in someone's passion before they've even started, it can change everything for them. | Great finishes happen because someone started, so encourage the first step. | Backing a person early, before they're sure of themselves, is often the push they need. | Ask yourself what you could achieve if you simply started now. - I've set a scary goal: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ive-set-a-scary-goal Join the "Write That Book" challenge to achieve your writing dreams alongside 1,000 people aiming to write 1,000 books in just 1,000 days, starting with free registration for the Pop-Up group on June 1st and Challenge on June 7th. Key takeaways: A goal that doesn't make you a little scared probably isn't exciting enough either. | You don't need a finished manuscript to start, just the embryo of an idea. | A big goal that looks like a pipe dream can still be achieved years later if you keep at it. | Writing a book can be the thing that helps you reach a much bigger life goal. - Standing out with a frying pan: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/standing-out-with-a-frying-pan Discover how a creative twist with a frying pan turned a tennis professional into the centre of attention at a resort, attracting a crowd eager for his unique challenge and leaving him fully booked for private lessons. Key takeaways: A bold, playful challenge beats a table and a couple of roller posters every time | Swap your normal tool for an unexpected one to turn heads and spark conversation | If you don't stand out, you're part of the background | Differentiating in a fun, interesting way always pays back, whatever your passion | A single memorable stunt can keep you fully booked for the rest of the week - Could 2021 be the WORST year for British Hospitality?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/could-2021-be-the-worst-year-for-british-hospitality In 2021, British hospitality faces the dual challenge of capitalising on the domestic holiday boom to attract lifetime customers while resisting the temptation to inflate prices excessively. Key takeaways: A one-off price hike wins a single booking but rarely brings a guest back next year | Focus on acquiring lifetime customers, not squeezing maximum profit from one visit | Put deposits in your customers' emotional bank account before you draw on their financial one | Resist the temptation to triple prices during a demand boom, it costs you repeat business | Build 5 Star Service into every stay so holiday-makers choose you again, not just once - The Joy of Rationing: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-joy-of-rationing Explore the nostalgic joy and unexpected benefits of rationing sweets, screen time, and complaints in modern life, as inspired by wartime stories from the author's family. Key takeaways: Ration a treat, like one sweet per mile on a hike, and you'll savour it far more | Limiting screen time to one hour a day sharpens your focus and stops endless scrolling | Allow yourself only one complaint a day and you'll soon complain about far less | Small self-imposed limits on everyday abundance can bring more enjoyment, not less | Pick one thing you take for granted and try rationing it for a couple of weeks - Put Less In - Take More Out: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/put-less-in-take-more-out Discover how embracing the 'less is more' philosophy can transform your life by reducing negativity and self-focus, ultimately increasing positivity and personal growth. Key takeaways: Cut criticism and complaining, and you create more room for praise and compliments | Trade worry for confidence, and swap moaning for more reasons to smile | Focus less on yourself and more on other people, it changes how you show up | Watch less TV and read more instead, it is a simple swap with a big payoff | Question your own excuses, less belief in your own BS story means more time to see what is true - Leave the raft: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/leave-the-raft The blog post "Leave the Raft" emphasises the importance of applying learned knowledge and letting go of unhelpful experiences, inspired by Buddha’s parable of The Raft. Key takeaways: The secret isn't in the knowing, it's in the doing: apply what you learn, don't just collect it | Once you've crossed the river, leave the raft. Don't carry old learning around out of habit | Let go of bad experiences too: the hurt, pain and challenges are gone, only your memory remains | Be wary of relying on memory. It's often unreliable and can keep you stuck in the past | Notice when you're chasing the next new thing instead of using what you already know - There's No New Normal: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/theres-no-new-normal Embrace the ever-changing nature of life and let go of the elusive concept of 'normal', as unusual times are here to stay, according to this insightful blog post by Michael Heppell. - Missed It: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/missed-it Discover how taking a break from routine tasks, like missing a weekly newsletter due to life's busy moments, can lead to mindful decision-making about what truly matters to you. Key takeaways: If you slip up, admit it honestly rather than inventing an excuse to cover it. | Missing one habitual task doesn't automatically mean it stops mattering to you. | Only you can decide what's genuinely important in your own life, not anyone else. | When someone tells you what you should do, pause and ask yourself if they're right. | You're the most important person to consult before acting on someone else's advice. - Delayed Gratification: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/delayed-gratification In her inspiring blog post on delayed gratification, Claire shares her journey of planting various seeds daily for 90 days, demonstrating how dedication to long-term goals like gardening, saving, fitness, and personal growth can lead to rewarding outcomes, while encouraging readers to join TEAM17’s 17-day challenge for support and accountability. Key takeaways: Small daily actions, like planting one seed a day, compound into rewards worth waiting for | Most worthwhile goals (saving money, getting fit, writing a book) demand hard work before the benefits show up | Doing the hard thing with a group and mutual accountability makes you far more likely to see it through | Growing your own produce, however small, is delayed gratification in its purest form | Set yourself a short, defined challenge (even just 17 days) to build the habit of delaying gratification - Yoga isn't culture: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/yoga-isnt-culture The blog post "Yoga isn't culture" discusses the misconception that offering perks like yoga classes defines company culture, emphasising that true culture stems from behaviours that align with a business's core values, as exemplified by Amazon's cost-saving initiatives and the charitable contributions at Red Carnation Hotels and Vanarama. Key takeaways: Perks like yoga classes or a ping pong table aren't culture, they're just perks | Real culture is the behaviours that live out your business's 'Why', like Amazon skipping fancy desks to save customers money | Let your senior team roll up their sleeves, Vanarama's leadership personally packed and delivered 200 Christmas gift baskets | Make charity leave count, Red Carnation Hotels' staff take 88% of theirs, donating 4,400 days a year | Giving increases giving, staff who give back come back wanting to do even more for others - I thought you would be taller: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-thought-you-would-be-taller Discover the humorous tale of a keynote speaker who was met with unexpected remarks about his height, highlighting the pitfalls of expectations and the importance of delivering brilliance in any situation. Key takeaways: When someone's expectations of you fall short, meet the moment with humour and grace, then deliver anyway. | Unmet expectations, whether about people, holidays or businesses, are one of the most common causes of disappointment. | Lower your personal expectations and raise your personal delivery, that combination is where brilliance actually happens. | A great result on the day can completely outweigh an awkward first impression. | Over promising and under delivering is still one of the biggest problems in customer service. - Seth Says: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/seth-says Discover how Seth’s Blog inspires daily reflection and insight, featuring at this year’s Business Excellence Forum alongside renowned speakers. Key takeaways: Reading dozens of newsletters means little if you're not applying what you learn. | Find one source that genuinely challenges your thinking, not just informs you. | The best daily reads make you question your conventional wisdom, even about small things. | Seeing someone you admire live can hit differently than only reading their work. - I get to go to work: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/get-to-go-to-work Discover the power of positive language shifts, such as transforming "have to" into "get to," and see how it can enhance joy and motivation in everyday tasks. Key takeaways: Swap have to for get to. I get to go to work turns a chore into a privilege. | Small wording changes, like calling cleaning a freshen up, change how a task feels. | Reframe I need to finish this as I'm excited to finish this and notice the shift. | Children learn their language from you, so how you talk about chores shapes how they feel about theirs. | You can't control everything around you, but you can always choose more positive language. - The spark is the start: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-spark-is-the-start Discover how to ignite your creativity and spark new ideas by tuning into Brilliant People Live, an inspiring online chat show featuring insightful guests, books, and diverse sources of knowledge, all helping you to be brilliant! Key takeaways: Keep a stack of books nearby: pick one up, open a random page and an idea will usually appear. | Not every idea from a random page is good, but it gives you a starting point. | Ideas link to ideas, so use the first spark to lead you to the next one. | You don't need a huge library to spark ideas: a TED Talk, a podcast or an interview works just as well. | Tune into other people's best knowledge regularly, it's an easy way to keep generating fresh ideas. - We Are One: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/we-are-one Celebrate the one-year anniversary of the vibrant "How to Be Brilliant" Facebook Group, a diverse community united by the powerful message "We Are One", as we strive to support, learn, and grow together. Key takeaways: A shared message like We Are One can unite a diverse community more than any birthday. | Real community forms when people want to learn, help and support one another. | Differences in age, background or identity matter less than a shared desire to grow together. | A large, engaged audience (8,000 newsletter readers, 3,000 group members) grows from consistent, values led connection. - Jeff's Shirts: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/jeffs-shirts Join Jeff Caplan on LinkedIn and the How to Be Brilliant Facebook group for a daily burst of colour and positivity throughout February as he shares vibrant shirt photos to brighten the gloomy days. Key takeaways: Sometimes the simplest ideas work best, especially when there's nothing being sold behind them. | What makes an idea special often comes down to one word: intent. | Share something purely to bring joy, not to promote or sell yourself. | Ask what your own daily gesture, your version of a shirt a day, could be. - 5 Instant Destressors and No Mention of Meditation: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/5-instant-destressors-and-no-mention-of-mediation Discover five quick and unconventional ways to relieve stress without meditation, including counting, decision-making reduction, physical hand exercises, hydration, and creative brain dumping. Key takeaways: Count slowly to 17 instead of ten, then repeat until you actually feel calmer | Cut micro stressors by removing small decisions wherever you can | Scrunch your hands tight, then release slowly while watching one hand closely | Drink a large glass of water when stress hits, it genuinely helps | Set a 17 minute timer and brain dump everything on paper using colour - Why Routine Rocks: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-routine-rocks Discover how establishing a routine can significantly reduce stress and boost productivity by minimising decision fatigue, creating structure, and fostering good habits, as supported by research from Tel Aviv University. Key takeaways: Every decision you make adds a small stressor, and these build up over a day | A predictable routine reduces the number of decisions you need to make | Tel Aviv University research shows predictable, repetitive routines calm anxiety | Routines save time and money, build momentum and boost self confidence | Good routines create structure, break bad habits and help you prioritise ahead - Im Late: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/im-late Embrace being late and find your own 'enough' as we adapt to changing priorities, focusing on safety and personal contentment during challenging times. Key takeaways: When times get tough, it is fine to drop the big ambitions and focus on the basics, like safety and staying warm. | Define your own version of 'enough': doing your best, helping others and staying safe can be plenty. | Early enthusiasm for self improvement often fades, and that does not mean you have failed. | Letting go of pressure to achieve everything frees you to cope with what really matters right now. | Ask yourself honestly what your 'enough' looks like today, then give yourself permission to meet it. - A Year In Numbers: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-year-in-numbers Discover the highlights of this year in numbers with Michael Heppell's blog post, showcasing achievements like 5,400 minutes of LIVE broadcasts, 27 people interviewed for TEAM 17, and over 50,000 social media interactions, along with insights into his coaching sessions and publications by members of the Write That Book Masterclass. - Laurie and the Lorry: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/laurie-and-the-lorry A lorry unexpectedly crashed through our garden wall, but I remained calm knowing that Laurie Lambeth, an expert dry stone waller and a genuinely nice bloke, could restore it with his incredible craftmanship. Key takeaways: True craftsmanship, whether dry stone walling or any other skill, deserves respect, not a DIY shortcut | Saying you'd do it yourself if you had time often really means you don't have the skill | Know your own expertise and stick to it, and let other experts handle theirs | Ask yourself what you're already brilliant at, and what you still need to get better at - Fit Your Own Mask First: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/fit-your-own-mask-first Join Michael Heppell and Christine for the empowering "Fit Your Own Mask First" webinar, offering essential self-care tools to navigate challenging times, and discover more about their workshops and support resources. Key takeaways: Fit your own mask first: look after yourself properly before you try to look after anyone else | Almost everyone is struggling right now, even the ones putting on a brave face and saying they're fine | With weeks of a tough year still to go, ask yourself what you can do today to take care of yourself - A little known fact about the village people: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-little-know-fact-about-the-village-people Discover the surprising history of The Village People, where frequent member replacements highlight the importance of building a personal brand, as detailed in Michael Heppell's energetic blog post. Key takeaways: If you're only known by a role, not a name, you can be replaced, so make your name the brand | Be known for something specific that people associate directly with you | Writing a book makes you the authority: your name on the cover proves it | Choose a company or personal name people will actually say and remember, not a generic label - What Authors Need To Know About 2021: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-authors-need-to-know-about-2021 In the rapidly evolving world of publishing, where digital trends and innovative marketing strategies are reshaping the industry, authors need to stay informed to harness new opportunities, as highlighted in Michael's upcoming free webinar, "The 4 Keys EVERY New Author Should Know To Publish In 2021." Key takeaways: Publishing is shifting fast: digital is overtaking print and timelines are shrinking from months to weeks. | Book launches have moved from hotel ballrooms to Zoom, cutting the cost of getting to market. | Publishers no longer need you to be famous, stealth marketing can now outperform big campaigns. | New ideas and blended formats are emerging, so an unconventional book concept still has a real chance. | Next year's best book idea hasn't been thought of yet: it could be yours. - What will you be remembered for?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-will-you-be-remembered-for Join Michael Heppell's "Write That Book" challenge to overcome the regret of not pursuing your writing dreams and create a lasting legacy with guidance and resources to help you get started and succeed. Key takeaways: What matters most is avoiding regret, not whether your goals feel big or impactful enough. | Regret usually comes from not doing what you've always wanted, like finally writing that book. | Don't wait until you have the perfect idea before starting; clarity often comes once you begin. - Death by 1000 cuts: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/death-by-1000-cuts Discover how seemingly minor, unaddressed issues can lead to significant downfalls in businesses and personal life, as explored in this engaging blog post on the concept of "death by a thousand cuts," while also getting a sneak peek into the upcoming "Write That Book" event in November. Key takeaways: Big failures rarely come from one disaster, they build from 1,000 small unaddressed cuts | Watch for tiny slips in relationships, business, health and customer service before they add up | A few small criticisms with too few compliments can quietly wreck a relationship | Letting standards slip just slightly with one favourite team member can infect a whole team | Saying I'll do it tomorrow is how procrastination turns into never - Have you been stating the obvious: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/have-you-been-stating-the-obvious As the nights draw in and challenges mount, this blog post encourages finding positivity in the small joys of autumn and offers support through the "How to Be Brilliant" Facebook group. Key takeaways: When the dark nights (or any hard season) arrive, focus on what you can actually control. | Practise hygge and make your home as cosy as possible through autumn and winter. | Take walks and pause to admire small things, like falling leaves, rather than rushing past them. | Check in on friends to make sure they're okay, and let others check in on you. | Write a grateful list when times feel challenging, it shifts your focus to what's going well. - Take your shoes off: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3495 Incorporating the simple act of taking your shoes off when visiting a customer's home can significantly enhance customer service by building an emotional connection, as suggested in a recent 5 Star Service webinar for estate agents. Key takeaways: When you visit a customer's home, take your shoes off without being asked, every time. | Small unasked-for gestures make an instant deposit in a customer's emotional bank account. | Don't wait for permission to do the right thing, just do it and let the action speak. | Great service often comes down to one simple, consistent habit rather than a big system. | Notice the small things others do for you that make you say 'wow', then do the same for your customers. - When it all goes belly up: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-it-all-goes-belly-up Launching TEAM 17 University faced delays due to technical issues with Kajabi, but resilience and optimism have prevailed, ensuring the successful launch of this innovative programme. Key takeaways: When something goes wrong, ask yourself one question: am I doing my best? | If the answer is yes, ignore the negativity and keep going | If the answer is no, work out what you can do, then do it | Give credit and support to people who are genuinely trying their best under pressure | A setback with a supplier or system rarely lasts as long as it feels like at the time - Dealing with the second spike: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dealing-with-the-second-spike Learn how to effectively navigate and prepare for a second wave with proactive strategies and supportive networks, and discover the transformative opportunities available through Michael Heppell's TEAM 17 initiative. Key takeaways: Build the right support network around you, and don't be afraid to ask for help. | Limit news consumption to about 15 minutes once a day rather than constant checking. | Choose to be proactive: use this period to open your mind to new thinking and opportunity. | Accepting and normalising a hard situation is more useful than wishing it away. - Worrier or Warrior: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/worrier-or-warrior Discover the transformative journey from being a worrier to becoming a warrior, as explored in Michael Heppell's blog post, highlighting the mindset shift from defence to proactive action. Key takeaways: Swap "what happened?" for "what's next?" to move from reflecting to acting. | Believe you make things happen, rather than believing things just happen to you. | Ask how something will work instead of dwelling on why it won't. | Do what's necessary, not just what's easiest, when you want real progress. | Replace "I'm not ready" with "let's go" and act before you feel fully prepared. - On Repeat: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/on-repeat Explore the importance of consistency in achieving success across various aspects of life, as highlighted in Michael Heppell's latest thought-provoking blog post. Key takeaways: Consistency beats novelty: showing up the same way every day builds real results. | Posting daily on social media only works if you stay consistent, not just active. | World class customer service comes from consistent systems, not one off gestures. | Great leaders repeat the same clear vision until it becomes unshakeable. | What feels like repetition is often just you being consistent, and that is a strength. - Is Perfect Overrated: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-perfect-overrated The blog post, "Is Perfect Overrated," explores the idea that prioritising completion over perfection can be more beneficial in many situations, with insights from Paul Mort emphasizing the value of getting things done rather than striving for flawlessness. Key takeaways: Unless you're doing something genuinely high stakes, done beats perfect almost every time. | Getting something over the line matters more than polishing it endlessly. | Ask yourself what you've been putting off, then finish it, even if it isn't flawless. | Sharing an imperfect message is better than sitting on a perfect one you never send. - Nothing Done: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/nothing-done Feeling overwhelmed without achieving much, I realised the importance of effectiveness over busyness, committed to completing a minimum of two tasks daily, and utilised the impactful $100,000 Idea productivity tool from my book, "How to Save an Hour Every Day," to regain focus. Key takeaways: Being busy all day is not the same as being effective, ask yourself which one you actually are | Commit to getting a minimum of two things over the line every single day | Find an accountability buddy who will push you to finish what you start | Use the $100,000 Idea from How To Save An Hour Every Day to regain focus and productivity | You can know the perfect method and still stop doing it, humans are wonderfully inconsistent - Why you don't want feedback: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-dont-want-feedback Discover why distinguishing between feedback and opinion is crucial for personal growth, as illustrated through the experiences of a book author and online course creator. Key takeaways: Separate feedback from opinion: feedback gives you a pointer or direction, opinion is just someone's belief. | With a large enough audience, you will never get universal agreement, so don't expect it. | When a comment stings, pause before reacting. Ask whether it's genuinely useful or just one person's view. | Don't change your work because of a single negative review. Weigh it against the wider picture first. | Next time you ask for feedback, ask yourself honestly: is this feedback, or is it opinion? - We saw 100 piglets: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/we-saw-100-piglets Discover how asking engaging questions, like "What was the best thing about today?" can turn mundane conversations into lively discussions, as demonstrated by a talk-starting encounter featuring 100 piglets. Key takeaways: Swap "how was your day?" for "what was the best thing about today?" to unlock real answers | Vague questions get vague replies, ask something specific to spark a proper story | There are no boring people, only people who haven't been asked the right question | A well chosen weekend question can turn a quick chat into a conversation worth having - I can't: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-cant Explore the reasons behind our frequent use of "can't" statements and consider the value of focusing on what we "can" achieve instead. Key takeaways: Notice when you say can't and ask whether you actually mean won't. | Swapping can't for unable to often reveals the real, more honest reason. | Announcing what you can't do is rarely necessary, so ask why you're saying it. | Spend a couple of days deliberately focusing on what you can do instead. | Watch for the urge to undercut someone else's achievement with your own can't statement. - If you're not a kind person: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-youre-not-a-kind-person Discover the transformative power of kindness and embrace the challenge to continually be more compassionate in your daily life. - A Question: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-question Discover how to craft engaging email subject headings and share your favourites to win a copy of "Flip It", while learning about Michael Heppell's new book that's almost sold out. - My First New Book For 8 Years: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-first-new-book-for-8-years Discover "17 - The Little Way to Get a Lot Done," the first new book in 8 years by Michael Heppell, packed with life and work hacks, available in a limited edition of 999 signed hardbacks, and featuring an exclusive audio download bonus. Key takeaways: A pop-up community like the 17 Group can spark enough ideas and momentum to write a whole book. | Combine tools and techniques gathered over several years with fresh, live activity to create something new. | A limited, hand-numbered, signed edition adds value and urgency that an open print run cannot. | Pairing a book with a narrated audio version and bonus content gives readers more ways to use the material. | Massive action really does lead to massive results, so commit fully once you decide to create something. - The Big Think: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-big-think Discover the transformative power of deep thinking with "The Big Think," a 17-minute global event designed to encourage uninterrupted reflection and mindfulness, happening this Sunday at 17:00 via Zoom or Facebook Live. Key takeaways: Deep thinking is not meditating, it is sitting still and letting your mind work undisturbed | Find somewhere quiet, remove distractions and give yourself 17 minutes with no music or notepad, just your thoughts | You do not need an event to do this, you can start deep thinking today on your own | Join a shared moment of thinking with others via Zoom or Facebook Live if a nudge helps you commit - The Biggest Hump: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-biggest-hump Celebrate Hump-Year-Day as we reach the midpoint of 2020 and join Michael's 17 Day Pop-Up Project for inspiration and positivity to make the rest of the year exceptional! Key takeaways: Treat the year's halfway point as a fresh start, not a verdict on how it's gone. | Certainty isn't something you wait for, you create it yourself. | Don't dwell on the first half, get back on the saddle and focus on what's next. - The Dalai Lama said this ....: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-dalai-lama-said-this Unlock life-changing benefits through meditation with the Dalai Lama's guidance, and take advantage of a limited-time offer to access the White Island relaxation programme for just £14.99 using the coupon 'RELAX50' before the price increase. Key takeaways: The Dalai Lama said noticeably life-changing effects from meditation take around 50 hours, not years. | Twenty minutes a day, a few days a week, gets you there within a year. | Do twenty minutes twice a day and you could feel life-changing effects within months. | If meditation feels boring, it's the approach that needs changing, not the practice itself. | Start your 50 hours with a structured programme so you actually stay on track. - I was embarrassed: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-was-embarrassed Stepping out of my comfort zone in my mid-40s by joining a yoga class taught me the importance of embracing embarrassment to improve skills and confidence, and I challenge you to do the same. Key takeaways: Trying something you're bound to be bad at, like a beginner yoga class, builds real skill and confidence over time | Balance focusing on your unique strengths with working on the weaknesses that genuinely hold you back | If a task feels embarrassing (a hard conversation, a presentation, a big ask) that's usually a sign it matters and is worth learning to do | Pick up the phone instead of hiding behind an email when a conversation feels awkward | Each week, choose one thing you feel slightly embarrassed about and step outside your comfort zone to improve it - The Impossible Jigsaw: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-impossible-jigsaw In "The Impossible Jigsaw," the author humorously recounts the challenges of completing a fiendish, incomplete CCTV-themed jigsaw puzzle during lockdown without the box lid, ultimately highlighting the necessity of having the right resources to tackle any task. Key takeaways: Before starting any task, check you actually have all the resources it needs, not just some of them. | Ask yourself four questions: what do I need, do I have it, where will I get it, how will I implement it. | Motivational quotes about resourcefulness cannot replace resources you genuinely do not have. | Whether the resource is physical, knowledge or talent, find what you need before you begin. - Who moved my....: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/who-moved-my Discover how to navigate the three transformative phases of change with compassion and adaptability, as you transition from initial panic to embracing new ways of working, ultimately carving out a new normal. Key takeaways: Change happens in three phases: panic and preparation, new ways of working, then redefining normal. | The 'return to normal' phase needs the most care, consideration and compassion of all three. | There is no going back to normal, only forward to a new way of living and working. | Resist comparing your situation to others, everyone's circumstances and jobs have changed differently. | Look after yourself first, listen to understand, and stay open minded to new possibilities. - When £0 is still too much: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-0-is-still-too-much In this blog post, the author reflects on receiving a complaint from a member of his free 'Write That Book' pop-up group, highlighting his lessons on managing expectations and taking responsibility, while inviting readers to join a follow-up webinar for aspiring authors. Key takeaways: Even when something is free, people can still feel it fell short of their expectations | Treat every complaint as a gift, it shows you where expectations were not properly set | When you're upset, ask a better question instead of dwelling on the feeling, try 'What have I learned?' | If people expect more than you promised, check whether you gave that impression yourself, then own it | Turn a difficult moment into something useful, a lesson, a newsletter, a better way of working next time - Are you having crazy dreams too?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/are-you-having-crazy-dreams-too Discover how documenting daily experiences can help calm your chaotic dreams, alongside insights into thriving through lockdown, creative achievements, and the launch of the engaging "Write That Book" challenge in this fascinating blog post. Key takeaways: Writing down what's on your mind before bed can calm chaotic, whacky dreams. | Journalling regularly helps your brain offload stress, so it needs less energy sorting things out overnight. | Fit your own oxygen mask first: look after yourself before you try to help everyone else. | Focused effort pays off: a 3,700 word document got written, designed and published in just four hours. | A well timed challenge can spark huge momentum, posts and comments jumped from around 300 to 5,936 in two days. - Thought transference now proven: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/thought-transference-now-proven Discover the power of thought transference and learn how to share your own ideas by writing a book with the 'Write That Book' group, now welcoming new members for a unique opportunity to unleash your creativity and publish your thoughts. Key takeaways: Writing a book is how you transfer your thoughts to people you'll never meet, for years to come | A recent poll found 61% of people would like to write a book, and 47% of those want help doing it | There's no better time to start writing than right now, whatever else is going on around you | Join a free four day writing challenge before committing to anything bigger, like a Mastermind Group | If you love reading rather than writing, support the authors in your community when they publish - Stop The Routine: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/stop-the-routine Break free from the monotony of lockdown routines and embrace creativity with new activities to keep life exciting and dynamic. Key takeaways: If your routine feels stale, deliberately flip it: go fast if you've been slow, go serious if you've been chilling out | Give yourself a proper day off from your routine, not just a change to it | Turn monotony into a game: challenge friends or family to something silly and unexpected, like a dance competition | Ask the people around you for ideas to break the routine, then actually try the best one | A supportive community (in person or online) makes it easier to keep life interesting during a long stretch of sameness - There is no normal: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/there-is-no-normal Discover how to embrace change and create your own "new normal" with simple lifestyle shifts in this engaging blog post. Key takeaways: If you accept that normal is something you create, you can choose a new one right now. | Go to bed a little earlier than you normally would, and read for a little longer. | Give yourself more time to think, and think a little deeper than usual. | Look at how much food is on your plate and consider having a little less. | Whenever you tell someone you love them, make it one more time than usual. - Flip It, Kelly Hoppen and Love: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/flip-it-kelly-hoppen-and-love Discover how Michael Heppell's book "*Flip It*" is inspiring positivity during challenging times, with endorsements from Chris Evans and Kelly Hoppen, and explore practical tools and techniques through his engaging online community and resources. Key takeaways: There's a positive for every negative, finding it is your job, not a given. | Flip It thinking is simple but not easy, so practise it deliberately. | When life gets overwhelming, doing less can bring real benefits. | Trying to do everything at once often backfires, so slow down and pace yourself. | Lean on a supportive community for practical tools, techniques and positivity. - I've Had A Wobble: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ive-had-a-wobble In "I've Had A Wobble," Michael candidly shares his journey of realising the importance of self-care and how taking a step back to reconnect, recharge, and find balance helped him regain his positivity and prepare for his biggest webinar yet. Key takeaways: Fit your own oxygen mask first, even when you're the one helping everyone else. | Schedule your stops before you reach the point where you have to stop. | Switch off properly: no news, no social, just something that lets your mind rest. | Reconnect with the people who matter most to reset your mood and perspective. | Recognising your own wobble and acting on it is what gets you back to brilliant. - Hope IS A Strategy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/hope-is-a-strategy Discover how embracing hope as a strategy can boost confidence, optimism, and resilience during challenging times, as explored in Michael's How To Be Brilliant community. Key takeaways: Hold on to hope: without it, hacks, tricks, and tips mean nothing. | Hope builds confidence, optimism, courage, and faith, especially in tough times. | Fear brings out the worst in people; hope brings out the best. | Spend time, even virtually, with hopeful people to build your own hope. | Find or create a community that keeps you positive and connected during hard times. - People are amazing: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/people-are-amazing Discover how people are proving their brilliance during the COVID-19 pandemic, with uplifting stories from a thriving online community and opportunities for personal growth and learning. Key takeaways: Postponed is not cancelled: treat setbacks as delays and start looking for new dates. | A community can grow fast and become a genuine source of support in tough times. | Mix big and small challenges, learning, helping others and staying home to lift spirits. | Keep showing up for your audience: keep writing, stay open for business, and invite people to share their stories. - Protecting your honour: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/protecting-your-honour This blog post explores the history and evolution of duelling, from ancient times to modern-day verbal battles, and announces an upcoming "Personal Development Duel" between the writer and Will Polston at The Hilton Hotel Gateshead on 26th March, inviting readers to attend for free. Key takeaways: Today's duels are fought with words: rap battles, comedy roasts and Twitter spats, not guns at dawn. | The fear of being challenged to a duel actually made men more well mannered, and civility grew. | Historic duel challenges rarely led to an instant fight; sides often exchanged insulting letters for weeks or months first. | Fine duelling pistols were made and tested in matching pairs so neither duellist had an unfair advantage. | When conflict comes your way, you get to choose your weapon: words, thoughts and actions work better than swords. - What you need and what you want: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-you-need-and-what-you-want Discover the subtle yet crucial difference between needs and wants, and how understanding this distinction can enhance your happiness and decision-making in daily life. Key takeaways: The gap between needs, wants and likes is subtle but it shapes whether you feel happy or sad. | Before you say "I need", pause and ask if you actually mean want or like instead. | Swap "I want a new job" for "I need a new challenge" and you often reframe the real problem. | Slow down and question your own needs, wants and likes, then listen for the same gap in others. | Almost nothing is a true need: most of what we chase is really a want or a like. - Why we lie: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-lie Explore the complex reasons behind why we lie, from avoiding embarrassment to exercising power, and consider how honesty and deception shape our lives in this thought-provoking blog post. Key takeaways: We lie for many reasons: to avoid punishment, dodge embarrassment, win admiration or protect someone we care about | Not every lie is harmful. Little white lies that protect a child or create a surprise are worth accepting | Before you accuse someone of lying, check whether it is actually just their honest opinion | Use the mantra 'true for you but not for me' when you think someone is stating a belief rather than a fact | Save this phrase for internal self-talk and for real conflicts, so you challenge beliefs without starting a fight - 1,000 way conversation: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/1000-way-conversation Join the "How to Be Brilliant" Facebook group to engage in meaningful, multi-way conversations and personal development with like-minded individuals, complemented by weekly live broadcasts and discussions. Key takeaways: True connection comes from multiple conversations with multiple people, not one way broadcasting | Ask yourself honestly whether you are broadcasting at people or truly conversing with them | A thriving community lets members talk to each other, not only to you | Regular live sessions, held at the same time each week, keep a community active and engaged - Can you have cheap, fast and good?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/can-you-have-cheap-fast-and-good Explore the timeless dilemma of balancing cheap, fast, and good in sales, and discover how the notion of value goes beyond mere price, with insights from real-world examples like the iconic Nike swoosh. Key takeaways: The old "pick two of cheap, fast, good" pitch rarely works now, buyers expect all three. | Judge value by what an investment changes for you, not simply by comparing prices. | Nike's iconic swoosh cost just $35 to design in 1971, proof price says little about value. | Cutting your price to save a sale often just gets used against you later. | Don't settle for good. Aim to make what you offer brilliant. - Same Old Path?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/same-old-path Explore the inspiring philosophy of Arne Naess, who embraced nature and challenged conventional paths by taking a unique route to his cabin at Tvergastein, highlighting the importance of stepping outside traditional thinking. Key takeaways: Arne Naess took a different route to his cabin every time, on purpose, for years | Deliberately varying your path stops a single convenient route becoming the only route | After Naess died, the constant variation stopped and one worn trail took over | Notice when your thinking has become convenient, traditional and boring, then change it | Leave the well trodden path in your thinking, not just your physical steps - Is it going backwards?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-it-going-backwards Explore contrasting customer service experiences in the UK, highlighting both setbacks and successes, while questioning whether service standards are advancing or regressing, and urging readers to reflect on their own service contributions. Key takeaways: One brilliant employee, like a BT engineer who goes the extra mile, can transform a poor experience into a great one. | Judge service standards by consistency, not a single good or bad encounter with a big brand. | Ask yourself honestly whether your own service, to colleagues and customers, is stepping up to meet rising expectations. | Recognise and champion great service when you see it, and be honest about where it falls short. | Commit to improving service in your own sector rather than just noticing when others get it wrong. - When you're empty: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whey-youre-empty Discover how to tackle the emotional leaks in your life and achieve true rejuvenation, rather than simply refilling your depleted energy reserves. Key takeaways: Running on empty is usually about emotional leaks, not just a lack of energy | Constantly refilling without fixing the drain leaves you stuck in the same cycle | Find and plug the leaks in your life before you try to top up again | If refilling never seems to last, invest time in fixing the cause, not just the symptom | Sometimes the answer isn't more filling up, it's a new bucket altogether - The Power of Precrastination: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-power-of-precrastination Discover the benefits of precrastination by joining Michael's upcoming live webinar on 23rd January, where you'll learn proven techniques to save an hour every day and enjoy a 50% discount with the promo code 'early'. Key takeaways: Precrastinate: finish tasks well before the deadline instead of leaving them to the last minute. | If something is due by month end, aim to have it done by the 15th. | Clearing a deadline early gives you a great feeling and frees you to get more done. | Find a strong enough why first, the right techniques for saving time follow from that. - Shiny and New: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/shiny-and-new Discover five powerful strategies to maintain your enthusiasm for personal growth and keep your new skills as polished as the day you got them. Key takeaways: Reread your old books. You'll be amazed what you've forgotten and keen to reignite | Set up an accountability buddy and don't let them down, it keeps you honest | Make a public declaration of your 2020 goals to lots of people, it spurs you on | Engage a coach, it could be the best investment you ever make | Treat new knowledge like a new car or phone, keep polishing it so it stays shiny - 20 ways to make 2020 your best year ever - LIVE: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/20-ways-to-make-2020-your-best-year-ever-live Join Michael Heppell for a free live webinar on 9th January 2020 at 6pm to discover 20 transformative ways to make this year your best ever, with options to participate via Zoom or Facebook Live. - My Year In Numbers: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-year-in-numbers Reflecting on an eventful 2019, highlights include presenting to over 25,000 people across five countries, publishing 42 newsletters, and achieving significant engagement on LinkedIn, alongside personal milestones and upcoming anticipation of becoming a grandparent. Key takeaways: Review your year in numbers, not just impressions, to see what you actually achieved. | Consistency compounds: 42 newsletters and 37 training videos across a year build real momentum. | Track the wins and the setbacks together, like losing 22lbs and finding 16 of them. | Big goals rarely finish on schedule. Writing half of two books beats finishing none. | Share your year's numbers publicly. It invites connection and helps others reflect on theirs. - David Bellamy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/david-bellamy A touching tribute to the charismatic David Bellamy, whose infectious enthusiasm for nature and advocacy for the environment inspired a generation. Key takeaways: Genuine, infectious enthusiasm for a subject can spark a lifelong passion in someone else. | Bellamy replied to a letter by writing his answer on the back and marking it RECYCLED. | A small, thoughtful gesture like a recycled reply can reveal someone's true character. | Remember people for their passion, knowledge and enthusiasm, not just what they achieved. - Is this the best letter to Santa: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-this-the-best-letter-to-santa Discover the heartwarming and clever insights of my Godson Jack's charming letter to St Nicholas, showcasing the magic of giving and his thoughtful Christmas wishes. Key takeaways: You have to give to get: a generous ask is more persuasive than a selfish one | A well placed reminder about sharing works like a gentle, embedded command | Keep your real wish simple and singular, one clear ask beats a long list | Always have a backup plan, even a six year old knows how to hedge his bets - The Ego has Landed: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-ego-had-landed Discover how a surprising billboard moment in Gran Canaria inspired reflections on effective communication in advertising, highlighting the power of putting your audience at the centre of your message. Key takeaways: Put your audience at the centre of your message, not yourself, and communication becomes far more effective. | In any communication, be the guide, not the hero: the person you're speaking to is the hero. | A billboard's job is to interrupt and grab attention, not necessarily to sell. | Frame every message around what it helps your audience achieve, not around yourself. - I've run out of words: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ive-run-out-of-words Explore the significance of word usage and discover how sometimes saying less can be more impactful, with insights and challenges from a coaching session focused on mindful communication. Key takeaways: The average person speaks around 16,000 words a day, so use yours wisely | Before you speak, ask whether your words will be remembered, kind or helpful | Watch for words said on repeat or without thinking, they rarely add value | Sometimes you say more by staying quiet than by filling the silence | Spend the rest of today paying real attention to your words and when you use them - The problem with good ideas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-problem-with-good-ideas In his blog post, Michael shares the insight that having an abundance of good ideas is common, but the true skill lies in taking action and executing those ideas successfully. Key takeaways: Good ideas are cheap and everyone has plenty, talent and execution are what set you apart | One reasonable idea brilliantly executed beats five great ideas left sitting on the shelf | Taking action and turning an idea into something real is the actual skill worth developing | Stop collecting ideas and start making one happen - General Election: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/general-election In the midst of a controversial UK General Election, this blog post offers three insightful ways to transform political negativity into positivity by encouraging respect for differing opinions, understanding complex perspectives, and turning frustration into fascination. Key takeaways: Choose not to fall out with anyone, however extreme or ridiculous their opinions seem to you | Practise holding two conflicting thoughts at once so you can see the bigger picture | When you feel frustrated by the news, Flip It and get fascinated instead | Turn a negative, divisive process into something positive through your own response to it - Kindness: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/kindness Discover the power of intentional kindness and challenge yourself to become a more compassionate person without expecting anything in return. Key takeaways: Kindness costs nothing, yet staying neutral is often easier than choosing to be kind. | Being kind shows as much in what you don't do as in what you do. | True kindness expects nothing in return: no sacrifice, no ego, no reward. | Notice when your kindness only shows up because it suits you, then stretch beyond that. | Challenge yourself to be intentionally a little more kind for one week and see what changes. - My Billion Dollar Dream: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-billion-dollar-dream Discover the potential billion-dollar ideas hidden in your dreams by keeping a notepad by your bedside, just like I did when I devised a new work expense process—all while asleep! Key takeaways: Keep a notepad and pen by your bed. Your sleeping mind solves problems your waking mind misses. | If you don't write an idea down straight away, the chances are you'll forget it for good. | Coaching makes your sleeping mind more fertile, so ideas often surface once you start the process. | Sift patiently through scrappy, disconnected notes. A useful idea can be threaded together after the fact. | Not every idea needs to be a billion-dollar one. A good, useful idea is still worth acting on. - Lessons learned walking the Wall: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/lessons-learned-walking-the-wall Discover valuable life lessons in business, relationships, and more as Michael Heppell reflects on a transformative journey along Hadrian’s Wall, highlighting insights gained through weather challenges, inspiring encounters, and unexpected local beauty. Key takeaways: Distances and promises are often optimistic, so build in extra time and patience. | Talking to strangers along the way turns a long slog into a memorable journey. | It's not a race: let others take six days or two weeks, whatever suits them. | You can achieve far more than you think, even in the dark, mud and rain. | Beautiful places are often right on your doorstep, so go and look before you travel far. - I apologise: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-apologise Explore how improved customer service and genuine empathy, exemplified in Michael Heppell's experience with Blood Donors, can drastically enhance donor relations, as discussed in his blog post about choosing the right words when expressing apologies. Key takeaways: Say a genuine 'I'm sorry', not a scripted 'I apologise', when things go wrong | A real apology names what happened and shows you care, not just a policy line | Good customer service costs almost nothing: ten seconds and a bit of care make the difference | Cold, transactional responses make customers feel judged, even when they've done nothing wrong | Ask for feedback on poor service and use it, rather than repeating the same platitude - 7 signs of maturity: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/7-signs-of-maturity Explore the seven key signs of maturity, as outlined by Michael Heppell, and learn how to choose and cultivate maturity at any age. Key takeaways: Mature people forgive more often, respect difference and stay open-minded rather than critical | Find the good in others and speak well of them even when they're not there | Maturity isn't tied to age. Some 12-year-olds show more of it than adults do | Speak up when you can make a difference, and listen when you can't | Choose maturity and keep working on it. It's a habit you develop, not a trait you're given - Nervcited: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/nervcited Nervcited: Discover how to transform nerves into excitement with practical tips, and join a conversation on overcoming fear for a chance to win a confidence booster book. Key takeaways: Nervous and excited feel almost identical in the body, one makes you buzz, the other makes you sick | Reframe nerves as excitement by naming the middle ground: nervcited, then let it tip towards excited | The gap between nervous and excited is smaller than it feels, just two small steps apart | Notice your state before a big moment and consciously choose which way to tip it - I didn't know - but it had already killed: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-didnt-know-but-it-had-already-killed In this insightful blog post, Michael explores the perils of allowing negative influences, akin to invasive ivy, to infiltrate your life and suggests taking decisive action to protect your own well-being, much like preserving a cherished apple tree. Key takeaways: Negative people can creep into your life quietly, like ivy, until real damage is done. | By the time you spot a toxic influence, it may already have caused lasting harm. | Don't be afraid to cull negative people from your life, even close friends or family. | Leaving a negative influence unchecked only gives it more time to take hold and spread. - Pavlov's iPhone: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/pavlovs-iphone Discover the transformative experience of a digital detox as the author recalls their three-day tech-free challenge and shares insights on reducing screen time for a more present and distraction-free life. Key takeaways: Try a genuine tech free stretch, even 24 hours, to see how dependent you really are on your phone | The first day of a digital detox is the hardest, it gets easier by day two | Notification pings train you like Pavlov's dog, turn them off to break the reflex | Sitting in silence with no phone to check can bring real, simple contentment | Turning off all notifications is a small change that can massively cut your screen time - Why this will be your last newsletter: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-this-will-be-your-last-newsletter Discover the empowering benefits of taking a summer break in August, as you give your mind a rest and make way for creative inspiration, reflecting the philosophy that planned downtime often leads to personal growth and productivity. Key takeaways: Taking a proper planned break, like a whole month off, can be one of your best decisions. | Stepping away from work, like a farmer letting a field lie fallow, gives your mind room to recover. | Trying to switch your brain off often backfires, that's when your best ideas turn up. | Never feel bad about planned time off, it almost always leads to getting more done. - The Heat: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-heat Britain's struggle to cope with a severe heatwave is exemplified by a chaotic LNER East Coast Train journey, where passengers are urged to remain patient and grateful amidst the chaos. Key takeaways: When a journey turns chaotic, choose gratitude over moaning: you have a seat, water and you're going to get home | Stepping in calmly to defuse a heated argument beats letting it escalate | Complaining loudly on social media rarely helps, having faith that staff are doing all they can does | Trust that things will work out, it is both reassuring and healthy in the middle of a crisis - Ten-Year-Old Entrepreneurs: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ten-year-old-entrepreneurs Ten-year-old entrepreneurs showcase their eco-friendly spirit by collecting recyclables for cash rewards at the OnBlackheath Festival, demonstrating the power of youthful initiative and environmental responsibility. Key takeaways: A simple pay per item incentive, 10p a can, 20p a plastic bottle, can turn any task into a business. | One boy collected 3,000 items and pocketed over £300, showing what scale and effort can earn. | The most effective young entrepreneur recruited a crew and organised them, rather than working alone. | Framing a reward as something to earn (go and collect 35 cans for that ice cream) drives more action than just giving it. | Given the same opportunity, some kids grab a bag and get started while others wait to be pushed: initiative is a choice. - How I would save UK Retail: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-i-would-save-uk-retail Revitalising UK retail requires a focus on customer engagement through staff training, active management, and effective communication, emphasising the need for attentive service over casual staff conversation. Key takeaways: Give every member of staff 4 or 5 super scripts so they always know what to say to a customer | Get managers actively watching the floor, not the office, and coaching in the moment | Train staff every single day, in short focused bursts before, during and after a shift | Never let staff chat to each other while a customer is waiting to be served | Small signals like eye contact, a smile or a simple please make customers feel noticed - In Severe Pain: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/in-severe-pain In his latest blog post, Michael explores the unexpected lessons learned from physical pain, comparing them to emotional and mental challenges, and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and acceptance. Key takeaways: Pain is a message, your mind's way of protecting you, so don't just push through it | You can block out physical pain and still be hurting yourself without realising it | Emotional and mental pain works the same way: you can get used to it and simply adapt | Dealing with pain properly means asking the tough questions and going deep, not toughing it out | Facing it isn't about coming out stronger, it's about understanding who you really are, then accepting it - The Problem With Coaching: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-problem-with-coaching This blog post explores the idea that coaching should focus more on living in the present rather than solely planning for the future, drawing inspiration from Eckhart Tolle's concept of "The Power Of Now." Key takeaways: Good coaching should focus as much on living now as on planning years ahead | Ask yourself three simple questions: what's happening now, what's making you happy now, and what could you leave out of your mind to be more present | Worrying about the future or dwelling on the past stops you experiencing the now, so bring your attention back to the present | Building small moments of presence into your day is as valuable as setting long term goals - Calibre vs Character: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/calibre-vs-character Discover why prioritising character over calibre is essential for organisational success and learn how to enhance your own character with actionable tips from this insightful blog post by Michael Heppell. Key takeaways: Prioritise character over calibre, teams that get this wrong let talent excuse bad behaviour | A star performer's poor behaviour spreads to colleagues and sales suffer as a result | Don't let a manager's long service excuse them from developing their weakest team members | If your gut says no to a candidate, don't let your head talk you into it anyway | Stand up for what's right, live by your core values, and picture how colleagues would describe you - No one likes planning...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/no-one-likes-planning While nobody enjoys the hassle of planning, having a well-crafted plan can turn ordinary days into unforgettable experiences, as evidenced by how meticulously organised events often become cherished memories. Key takeaways: Nobody enjoys planning, but the best days almost always turn out to be planned ones. | Booking the essentials early, beach beds, restaurants, transport, means you relax while unplanned people scramble. | Do the planning when you don't need to, so life is easy when you do. | Wedding days, dream trips and birthdays top people's best day lists because they were planned for. - Get Your Act Together: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/get-your-act-together Explore the origins of the phrase "get your act together," as the blog post delves into the pressures of filmmaking and offers a personal anecdote about overcoming challenges with humour, collaboration, and support from a trusted team. Key takeaways: If you fluff a performance, stop, take ten minutes, then start again rather than pushing through | Surround yourself with someone who knows you well enough to call a break before you ask for one | Work out who your Director is: the person who can sense your frustration before you admit it | Ask yourself who you direct, and whether you know when to say cut for them too | A short pause off task is often what gets you properly back on task - What Is The Clarity Method?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-is-the-clarity-method Discover "The Clarity Method" by Tim Brownson, a comprehensive guide on understanding and articulating your core values for a clearer, more fulfilled life, now available on Amazon. Key takeaways: Get clear on your core values first: once you know them, life gets far less complicated. | Test big decisions against your values, a risky adventure may not suit someone who values security most. | Notice when your actions clash with what you value, you won't find connection in the wrong places. | It's fine to walk away from anything, an offer, an event, even a newsletter, that doesn't match your values. - The Ultimate Life Hack: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-ultimate-life-hack Discover the ultimate life hack of hard work through three powerful mini hacks: removing distractions, learning from experts, and leveraging your existing knowledge, for a more productive and fulfilling life. Key takeaways: There is no shortcut: the ultimate life hack is simply hard work. | Cut distractions first, since up to half your time can be lost to the wrong tasks. | Seek out experts and learn from them, treating any time or money spent as an investment, not a cost. | Don't just chase new knowledge, look back at what you already know: your past experience is worth more than you think. | Work smarter within hard work by removing distractions, learning from others and using what you already have. - When Customer Service Doesn't Matter: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-customer-service-doesnt-matter Discover how poor customer service can impact long-term success, even for trendy new hotels on Spanish Islands, in this insightful blog post. Key takeaways: A rigid refusal to match a fair price can cost you a guest, and their trust, for good | Every deposit you make in a customer's emotional bank account matters more when you're not the newest, trendiest option | Complacency is like rust: it sets in long before you notice it's there | Brilliant service is about consistency, not just occasional wows | If one department treats customers poorly, ask how deep that attitude runs across the whole team - What's The Truth ?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-the-truth Discover why we're often drawn to believe the negative over the positive, and learn how to focus on the abundance of successes rather than the rare setbacks in this insightful exploration. Key takeaways: We're wired to believe one negative comment over a mountain of positive ones, so notice when you're doing it | A single harsh remark, bad result or blanked email can outweigh dozens of good ones in your mind, don't let it | Ask yourself: do I believe the one person or the many, the one occasion or the many, the one result or the many | You get what you focus on, so choose to focus on your successes rather than the rare setback - How Good Service Becomes Brilliant: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-good-service-becomes-brilliant Discover how good service transforms into brilliant service by addressing the needs customers didn't realise they had, exemplified by a hotel's innovative night-light sensor that enhances guest comfort. Key takeaways: Good service becomes brilliant service when you solve a problem the customer didn't even know they had. | A hotel's simple sensor light for night-time trips to the loo shows innovation doesn't need to be complicated. | Ask yourself what problem you could fix for your customer that they haven't even noticed yet. | Small, thoughtful design touches can matter more to customers than big, obvious features. | Look for the unspoken need behind a customer's experience, not just the need they tell you about. - I Was Absolutely Useless: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-was-absolutely-useless Discover how I transformed from a lacklustre presenter to a master communicator, and join my "How to Be A Super Speaker" MasterClasses with Action Coach UK for invaluable speaking skills and insights. Key takeaways: Listening back to old recordings of yourself can reveal blind spots you never knew you had. | Racking up hours presenting isn't enough on its own. Deliberate, honest feedback improves you faster. | Watch other speakers closely, take notes and ask them for tips: borrowed lessons speed up your own growth. | Get someone you trust to review every presentation, what went well and what to improve, straight afterwards. | The real measure of a good presentation is whether your audience stays engaged and takes action afterwards. - Dealing With Overwhelm: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/dealing-with-overwhelm Overcoming overwhelming challenges at large events, like the Business Excellence Forum and Awards, can be managed by calmly tackling one task at a time, reducing stress and promoting effective problem-solving. Key takeaways: When everything feels overwhelming, focus on one thing at a time rather than the whole pile. | Overwhelm often causes procrastination and panic, which only lets the pressure grow. | Pick a single task, do it properly, finish it, then move on to the next one. | Staying calm under pressure is a choice, not a personality trait, and it comes from tackling one thing at a time. | You won't get everything done, but working through tasks one by one quickly eases that sickening overwhelmed feeling. - The Curse of Chaos: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-curse-of-chaos "The Curse of Chaos" explores the pitfalls of a creative agency's chaotic work culture, ultimately highlighting the importance of productivity over the thrill of looming deadlines and creative chaos. Key takeaways: A busy-looking workplace is not the same as a productive one, watch what people actually do, not how long they stay. | Working close to a deadline feels better because it's faster, not because the work itself improves. | Ditch the culture of long hours and looming deadlines: start on the real task straight away and go home on time. | Creative energy and chaos can feel exciting, but consistent, focused work is what actually delivers results. | A fun culture (games, pizza, late nights) can mask a business that is quietly failing. - The smart way to get a double espresso: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-smart-way-to-get-a-double-espresso Discover the smart approach to getting the perfect double espresso by rethinking your coffee order strategy for a delicious, strong, and hot solution. Key takeaways: When a fix keeps failing, question your approach before blaming the equipment | Ask for two single espressos instead of one double if the machine can't cope | Remember: you can't solve a problem with the same thinking that caused it | Decide whether you want to be right or you want a good result, you rarely get both | Stay open minded and let go of your first explanation when someone offers a simpler one - How you almost took Fiona on holiday: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-you-almost-took-fiona-on-holiday Discover the inspiring tale behind Amazon's Kindle, originally named 'Fiona', and learn how the right marketing decisions can transform innovative projects into iconic successes. Key takeaways: Amazon's Kindle was originally named Fiona before marketing experts stepped in and changed it | Know what you're best at, and let others do what they're best at, even when it stings | Technical brilliance and commercial instinct are different skills: respect both, and defer to the right one | Keep your non-expert opinions to yourself when someone else is the expert in the room - What's Worth Learning?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-worth-learning Explore the essential question of "What's Worth Learning?" as a father humorously reflects on the value of education beyond ticking boxes, advocating for a focus on real thinking and self-care over traditional academic metrics. Key takeaways: Teach real thinking and questioning, including holding two opposing ideas at once without exploding. | Make time to teach young people how to listen, and how to care for themselves and others. | Meditation, self-acceptance and stress reducing techniques deserve as much classroom time as grammar rules. | Schools chasing targets and syllabuses end up educating children for the past rather than their future. | Ask yourself what is genuinely worth learning. That question alone could be a great lesson. - Someone busier than you ...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/someone-busier-than-you Discover the motivational power behind Nike's timely message that inspired an osteopath to swap relaxation for running, proving that even on your busiest days, self-care and activity are just a mindset away. Key takeaways: A well timed nudge, even a text from a brand, can turn tiredness into action. | When you feel too busy to look after yourself, remember someone busier than you is doing it right now. | Ask yourself what you're putting off because you're busy, then take five minutes to start it. | Small prompts work best when you notice them, smile, think, then actually act. - Are my networking days dead: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/not-networking Discover how a chance encounter in a Northumberland sandwich shop highlights the value of enjoying spontaneous moments over relentless networking pursuits. Key takeaways: A chance chat with a stranger can be more rewarding than any deliberate networking push. | You do not need to swap cards or chase a meeting to make a conversation worthwhile. | It is fine to network and hustle, but pause sometimes and simply enjoy the moment. | Being fully present, without an agenda, is its own kind of win. - Discovering The Moment: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/moments Discover the beauty of everyday moments by shifting your focus to appreciating the present, and join the conversation for a chance to win a copy of "Flip It" and learn more about the exciting Business Excellence Forum. Key takeaways: Stop waiting for the next big win; discover meaningful moments in ordinary, everyday life instead. | Look for the good in people and tell your partner you love them, every single day. | Smile and look up when someone enters the room, it costs nothing and changes the moment. | Pause to appreciate the beauty of where you are right now, not some future milestone. | Discovering the moment takes only a little effort, but it is still a deliberate action you must choose to take. - 3 Great Customer Service Stories: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3-great-customer-service-stories Discover three heartwarming customer service stories featuring acts of kindness, empathy, and creativity that will inspire you to elevate your own customer interactions. Key takeaways: Great service often comes from one person taking personal ownership, not a company policy | Notice when a customer seems distant. A small gesture of kindness can mean everything | A little creativity, like a playful dispatch note, turns a routine order into a memorable moment | Read every customer interaction and ask yourself how you could use the idea in your own business - 19 Things To Do In 2019: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/19-things-to-do-in-2019 Key takeaways: Grow at least one thing to eat, even a herb pot on a windowsill tastes better home grown | Seek out live music in small venues rather than big stadiums for a more meaningful experience | Write a handwritten note or thank you card, it means far more than a text or email | Revisit somewhere from your childhood and see it again with fresh, grown up eyes | Take things less seriously: laugh at yourself, smile more, blame less, and have hope in people - Magnifying Christmas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/magnifying-christmas Experience the magic and challenges of Christmas through a magnifying glass, but remember, the true gift lies in choosing how you react. Key takeaways: Christmas magnifies everything: niggles become dramas and magic moments become unforgettable. | Ditch 'if, then' thinking. Waiting for perfect conditions before you enjoy the day sets you up to fail. | You cannot control how Christmas unfolds, but you can always control how you react to it. | Choosing your response, not the situation itself, is what makes a Christmas brilliant. | See reacting well as a gift you already own, and make a point of using it this Christmas. - Bye Bye Chris Evans and Thank You: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/bye-bye-chris-evans-and-thank-you Reflecting on a pivotal interview with Chris Evans on BBC Radio 2 that skyrocketed "Flip It" to bestseller status, this blog post highlights the unexpected journey of author Michael Heppell and his book's enduring impact as a top self-help resource and a beloved Christmas gift. Key takeaways: A single well-timed endorsement, Chris Evans praising Flip It on BBC Radio 2, can spark an instant sales spike | Years of groundwork often sit behind a lucky break: ten years developing content, five years writing daily, six months of promotion | A short, useful, simple book can travel: Flip It became a Sunday Times No.1 Bestseller in seven other countries and 20 languages | Stay ready to seize an opportunity when it calls, literally: being by the phone at the right time mattered | Keep your book (or work) simple and genuinely useful, that's what made it easy for someone influential to recommend - I have ETB: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-have-etb Discover how a misunderstanding about 'ETB' during a dental visit turned into relief and a reminder to focus on positive self-talk, all while enjoying the benefits of a new electric toothbrush now available at 70% off on Amazon. Key takeaways: Your first assumption when you hear bad news is often wrong, so pause before you panic | A little doubt is healthy: it keeps you safe and stops you accepting less than you deserve | Doubt turns unhealthy when a negative belief becomes your default, rather than a passing check | Listen to your internal dialogue and notice whether it's hunting for what's right or what's wrong | Whatever your mind goes looking for, right or wrong, it will find it, so choose the search - Not Quite Nostradamus: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/not-quite-nostradamus The blog post humorously explores the pitfalls of making confident predictions without evidence, likening everyday guesses to Nostradamus, and suggests that true foresight lies in preparedness rather than prophecy. Key takeaways: A confident guess that happens to be right doesn't mean you have foresight, it means you got lucky | If you make enough bold predictions, some will land, that's how Nostradamus stayed famous | The smartest, best read people who know their industry inside out still avoid making predictions | Don't pretend to know what the future holds, focus instead on being ready for whatever it brings | Preface a forecast with 'I don't know for sure, but what I think is' rather than stating it as fact - Do you speak my language?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/do-you-speak-my-language Ensure customer satisfaction by embracing their preferred communication methods in a multi-channel world, as highlighted in the blog post "Do you speak my language?" by Michael Heppell. Key takeaways: Let customers contact you the way they prefer, not the way that suits your business. | Forcing someone to switch channels (phone to email, tweet to a hidden PDF) frustrates and alienates them. | Be grateful when a customer bothers to get in touch at all, in a busy, distraction-filled world. | People gravitate to communication styles like their own: letter writers like letters, texters like texts, callers like calls. | In a multi-channel world, meet customers on whichever channel they choose to use. - 66% of people ....: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/66-of-people Discover the surprising statistic that 66% of people either have never seen snow, don’t plan their evening meal, or suffer from Nomophobia, and learn how Spar Convenience Stores can tap into these insights to attract customers with welcoming service and delicious, well-priced food options. Key takeaways: Most people want to be led: give them clear suggestions rather than open-ended choice | Keep your message simple, welcome people in, treat them well and repeat | People respond to plain, easy solutions, so make yours ABC simple | Good service means making customers feel welcome, offering great options and charging fairly - Why Our Retailers Must Step Up: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-our-retailers-must-step-up Retailers must embrace the principles of serving, inspiring, loving, and listening to survive and thrive in today's competitive market, or risk being overshadowed by larger entities like Mike Ashley's acquisitions. Key takeaways: Survive and thrive in retail by serving, inspiring, loving and listening to customers | Greet every customer: see them, smile, and say hello, every single time | Never ask 'is there anything I can help you with', it invites a No thanks | Make a second sale easier by being helpful and suggesting once a customer has committed to the first | Don't let technology and data replace real shop floor conversations with customers - Hentitled: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/hentitled The blog post "Hentitled" critiques individuals who incessantly complain and demand entitlement without considering others' perspectives or contributing effort, urging readers to adopt empathy and self-awareness instead of clucking about their grievances. Key takeaways: Entitled complaining often hides an unspoken "I've paid, therefore..." mindset that ignores other people's effort | Before you demand better service, pause and consider how overworked the person on the other end might be | Seeing a situation from the other person's point of view stops the clucking and starts real understanding | Ask what you could do yourself, like picking up rubbish or looking after your own health, before blaming others | Next time you catch yourself clucking, take a moment to stop, look and listen instead - Mania Vs Contentment ....: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/mania-vs-contentment The blog post contrasts the restless pursuit of solutions during mania with the immediate peace of contentment, suggesting that true satisfaction lies in appreciating the present moment and recognising gratitude. Key takeaways: Mania is always looking for the fix, but contentment doesn't need to look, it's already there. | When you feel overwhelmed, stop and take a breath before searching for a solution. | List five things you're grateful for right now to shift from mania into contentment. | Contentment doesn't rely on external forces you can't control, it's available right here. - Happy Birthday to ......: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/happy-birthday-to Celebrating 20 years of Michael Heppell Ltd., this blog post shares the founder's inspiring journey from starting a business in 1998 to achieving the ambitious goal of positively influencing one million lives. Key takeaways: Set one clear, ambitious goal and let it carry you through the hardest early years | Filter every decision through a single question: how many people will this positively influence | Not every setback means quit. Being ripped off and let down is part of the scrap of building a business | Unexpected wins count too. Book and audio sales were never in the original plan but became huge | Once you hit a big goal, set the next one. Aim to positively influence everyone you connect with - What Ambition Really Looks Like: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-ambition-really-looks-like Vanarama demonstrates true ambition and innovation by pledging to raise £150,000 for Prostate Cancer UK in just 45 days, showcasing their commitment through creative campaigns and corporate partnerships. Key takeaways: True ambition shows up in scale and pace, not just good intentions. | A bold pledge, like raising £150,000 in just 45 days, forces creative action fast. | Back a big commitment with a memorable campaign, Vanarama even renamed itself Manarama for 45 days. | Don't settle for a modest, safe target when a bigger one would inspire more people to act. | Let one inspiring example raise your own benchmark for what's possible. - Unsexy Business: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/unsexy-business Discover the inspiring world of 'Unsexy Business' through Jamie's story, a young entrepreneur excelling in traditional industries while redefining success beyond flashy start-ups. Key takeaways: The real backbone of any economy is grafters in traditional trades, not flashy start-ups. | A 17-year-old running a car valeting business shows the graft and consistency that build excellent businesses. | Turning up early, working weekends and staying committed matter more than having a glamorous idea. | You don't need a trendy industry to succeed: unglamorous sectors like debt collection can build real fortunes. | Look past the Amazon and Google stories; there's plenty to learn from ordinary, hard-working businesses. - Why is it always the middle of the night when your smoke alarm beeps?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-is-it-always-the-middle-of-the-night-when-your-smoke-alarm-beeps Discover why your smoke alarm's low battery beeps typically occur in the middle of the night due to colder temperatures impacting battery efficiency in your home. Key takeaways: A smoke alarm's low battery beeps most in the middle of the night because batteries are less efficient when cold, and homes are coldest overnight. | What feels like a mystery is often just specialist knowledge, obvious once you know it, valuable because most people don't. | Like the engineer who charged £5,001 to turn one screw, expertise is worth paying for: the knowing matters more than the doing. | Ask yourself what your specialist knowledge is. If you haven't got one yet, start building it. | If you already have expertise, take time to recognise and realise its value rather than taking it for granted. - How to say no: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-say-no Mastering the art of saying no is essential for prioritising your goals and managing your time effectively, with practical tips and strategies to help you decline requests gracefully. Key takeaways: Learning how to say no is one of the greatest skills you can master. | For immediate requests, practise a clear, kind script: thank them, explain you're unable to do it, and wish them luck. | For future invitations, ask yourself: if this were happening today, would I say yes? | Before committing to anything, ask whether saying yes moves you closer to your goals or further away. | Get clear on your goals and life's purpose first: that clarity is what makes saying no easier. - What the heck has happened to customer service?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-the-heck-has-happened-to-customer-service When renowned brands like Apple and John Lewis falter in customer service, it highlights the pressing need for businesses to simplify their processes to enhance service quality and customer satisfaction. Key takeaways: Most brands genuinely want to give great service, it's their overcomplicated processes that let them down | The more complex a process, the more can go wrong, and the more it drains a customer's goodwill | Ask what you can simplify: stripping back to your core makes great service easier to deliver | Complication leads to complaints, simplicity leads to service - Ok So It's Not Coming Home: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ok-so-its-not-coming-home In Michael's contemplative newsletter "Ok So It's Not Coming Home," he reflects on England's World Cup exit and invites readers to share advice for the team, with the chance to win a copy of his book, "Flip It." Key takeaways: Give yourself a moment of proper contemplation after a big disappointment before moving on | Share your best advice for handling a near miss, win, or loss with grace | Getting close but not close enough is still worth reflecting on, not just shrugging off - Why we will win the World Cup: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-will-win-the-world-cup Discover the exhilarating belief fueling every football fan's dream as they anticipate their team winning the World Cup, resonating with the iconic sentiment that 'it's coming home'. Key takeaways: Belief doesn't need to be logical to be powerful, it just needs to be felt. | Not everyone who believes can be right, but believing fully is still worth it. | Ask yourself what else in your life could be fuelled by that same level of passion and belief. - The Enemy of Loyalty: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-enemy-of-loyalty Inconsistency undermines customer loyalty, as illustrated by a dining experience where delightful service failed to compensate for skipped main courses, highlighting the importance of dependable customer experiences. Key takeaways: Inconsistency, not one bad moment, is what actually destroys customer loyalty | A charming recovery from a mistake still leaves customers unwilling to return | Spending heavily on refurbishment while skimping on staff training guarantees inconsistent service | Consistency is obvious and essential, but it is genuinely hard to deliver | Build dependable experiences every time. Customers have too much choice to risk a repeat letdown - My Extraordinary LinkedIn Post: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-extraordinary-linkedin-post Discover how one extraordinary LinkedIn post sparked a mixed reaction of over 8,500 views and more than 100 comments within 24 hours, demonstrating that everyone has the potential to create engaging content that resonates with someone. Key takeaways: Stop trying to create content that pleases everyone: aim to please someone instead. | You don't need a polished setup. A quick, honest video can outperform anything overproduced. | Expect a mixed reaction. Content that truly connects will also have people who dislike it. | Simple ideas like top tips, how-tos or community stories are easy ways to start creating content. | Test your content instinct in real life before overthinking it; you'll learn more from the reaction than the planning. - When to Stop: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-to-stop Discover the wisdom in knowing when to stop, as it's not failure but a strategic choice that empowers growth, balance, and real change in both personal and professional life. Key takeaways: Knowing when to stop isn't quitting, it's a strategic choice that frees you to focus elsewhere. | Stop working long hours so you have more time for your family. | Change what you can, accept what you can't, and stop complaining about the rest. | Stop worrying about things that are outside of your control. | Stop wishing for change and become a change-maker instead. - Thanks for the Business: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/thanks-for-the-business Local businesses could enhance customer loyalty and satisfaction by simply expressing gratitude, as highlighted in a blog discussing the contrasting customer service experiences at a garden centre and a cooker cleaning service. Key takeaways: A genuine thank you costs nothing but places a real deposit in someone's emotional bank account | Businesses that make life easier for a customer (or get repeat trade) should say so, not take it for granted | Spending money with a business is no guarantee you'll be thanked for it, so notice when you are | Recommend and reward the people who do say thank you, it earns them more business - I'm buzzing like a bee: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/im-buzzing-like-a-bee Discover how a quirky posture-correcting gadget is helping me develop new habits and perfect my posture, despite feeling like a buzzing bee and suspecting a practical joke. Key takeaways: A wearable posture gadget that buzzes when you slouch shows how instant feedback builds new behaviour | New habits form fastest when the correction stays front of mind, not just an occasional reminder | Catch and flip unhelpful self talk, swap Can I do that? for I can do that! | Pick someone whose behaviours you admire and model small steps towards them, one habit at a time | Ask yourself what will remind you to take the action every single day - Needing to be right: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/needing-to-be-right In his relatable blog post, Michael reflects on the frustration of needing to be right while embracing acceptance and joy as he picks up litter left by inconsiderate builders in his neighbourhood. Key takeaways: Needing to be right often means someone else has to be wrong, which just breeds conflict. | Acceptance is a hard pill to swallow, but it is far less stressful than staying right. | You are unlikely to change someone else's bad habits simply by confronting them. | Choose to do an unwanted task with joy instead of resentment, and it stops feeling like a burden. - Hanging out with a Lama: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/hanging-out-with-a-lama Discover the inspiring teachings of Tulku Lobsang, as Michael shares his enlightening experience of finding true happiness within, beyond external pursuits. Key takeaways: Searching for happiness outside yourself is useless, true happiness lies within. | Chasing more stuff, more stimulation or more likes takes you further from real contentment. | The more you look out for happiness, the less you look in, where it actually lives. | Genuine energy and presence in a room come across instantly, before a word is spoken. | A short, simple statement can resonate more than hours of teaching if it hits the right note. - What's in a smile: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/whats-in-a-smile Discover the timeless power of a genuine smile, which connects with our entire nervous system and profoundly impacts our well-being and interactions, as explored in Michael's insightful blog post. Key takeaways: A sincere smile shows in the eyes, so find genuine reasons to smile rather than faking it | It actually takes just 12 muscles to smile and 11 to frown, not the 17 and 43 often quoted | You have several different smiles for different moments, so notice which one you're using with colleagues and customers | Practise in a mirror: feel the smile inside first, then let it show on the outside | A smile connects to your whole nervous system and changes how your body feels, not just how you look - Finding Empathy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/finding-empathy In a poignant blog post, Michael highlights the compassionate response of Virgin Trains East Coast on social media to a tragic incident, urging readers to embrace empathy and the importance of communication during difficult times. Key takeaways: Swap cold, procedural announcements for a human voice when sharing difficult news. | A short follow up message showing genuine feeling can transform how people receive bad news. | Naming the person who wrote a message (like '^BG') adds accountability and warmth to a brand's response. | Pointing people to real support, such as the Samaritans, matters more than the announcement itself. | Showing empathy publicly, even briefly, is remembered long after the crisis has passed. - 5 New Words and Phrases I May Have Made Up: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/5-new-words-and-phrases-i-may-have-made-up Explore five inventive words and phrases coined by the author, from "hypercyclical" to "formulater," and discover how language evolves through creativity. Key takeaways: Coin your own words for patterns you notice, it makes them easier to spot and change | Call it "hypercyclical" when you catch yourself doing the same old thing day in, day out | Watch for a "Promotional Wreck": a publicity idea that looks clever but backfires | Spot a "Formulater", someone who always has the same old excuse ready for procrastinating | Question a "Phone View": an opinion formed through apps rather than real discussion - Why We Offer a 100% Total Satisfaction Guarantee: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-we-offer-a-100-total-satisfaction-guarantee Discover why our 100% Total Satisfaction Guarantee not only reassures customers but also keeps our services sharp, as we commit to delivering exceptional speaking, training, and coaching experiences, inspired by industry leaders like Premier Inn and Thin Optics. Key takeaways: A bold guarantee reassures new customers that they can't lose money by trying your service | Promising a full refund keeps you sharp because you never want to have to pay it out | A genuine guarantee is a brand promise, not a gimmick, and it's worth being proud of | In 20 years only two refunds were ever claimed, proof the guarantee rarely costs you | Decide what you can promise customers, colleagues, friends and family that you'll always deliver - His Answer Was Shocking: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/his-answer-was-shocking In this insightful blog post, Michael recounts his experience at The International Conference on Thinking, highlighting a profound moment with Dr David Perkins who exemplified genuine contemplation, urging readers to truly consider their thoughts before speaking. Key takeaways: If you start a sentence with 'I think', pause and check you actually have | Real thinking often looks like silence: close your eyes and give a question proper time | The best answers come from people willing to pause in public before they speak | Don't confuse a quick reply with a considered one, they are not the same thing | Next time you say 'I think', ask yourself honestly if you really did - Why You Won't Stick With It: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-wont-stick-with-it Discover why giving up after reaching 37% of your attempts isn't quitting, but rather a mathematical principle known as 'Optimal Stopping Theory', in this enlightening blog post by Michael. Key takeaways: Stopping something after a while isn't quitting, it can be a sound decision, not a failure | Optimal Stopping Theory suggests you'll make your best choice after trying about 37% of your options | With 100 attempts, deciding after roughly 37 is maths at work, not giving up | The same 37% pattern applies whether you're choosing clothes, dating, or picking a favourite restaurant | Don't beat yourself up for stopping early, you may simply have found your answer sooner than expected - Everyone Is Useless: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/everyone-is-useless Discover the liberating truth that everyone is "useless" at something and embrace your strengths, as overemphasizing weaknesses stifles true growth and brilliance. Key takeaways: Accept that you're useless at something, everyone is, and stop beating yourself up about it | Don't chase constant improvement at things you're naturally weak at, it stifles growth elsewhere | Notice how school and work culture push you to fix weaknesses instead of building on strengths | Put your energy into the areas where you were born to excel, that's where real brilliance comes from - 3 Ways To Get Out Of The Blues: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3-ways-to-get-out-of-the-blues Discover three practical techniques to lift your mood, including physical exercises, a fake smile challenge, and creating an "emergency grateful list," ensuring you can effortlessly combat the blues whenever they strike. Key takeaways: Pull your fists high above your head, yank your arms down and say whoa: an instant state changer. | Hold a ridiculous, over the top smile for 60 seconds to shift how you feel. | Write 5 things you are grateful for in your phone now, before you need them. | Practise these tools when you don't need them so they're easy to use when you do. | Reading a grateful list you prepared earlier is far easier than writing one while you're in the blues. - Blue Monday Bull: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/blue-monday-bull The blog post dismisses the concept of "Blue Monday" as nonsensical, advocating instead for positivity and connection, suggesting the idea of "Brew Monday" to encourage social interactions over a cup of tea, and offers strategies for overcoming personal blue days, showcasing insights from Michael's book "Flip It." Key takeaways: Blue Monday is a made up idea, not a scientific fact, so don't let it dictate your mood | Try Brew Monday instead: put the kettle on and have a proper chat with someone | Everyone has blue days, and that's normal, even the most positive people you know | When you're in a blue mood, ask yourself how long you actually want to stay there | Talking to people about how you feel is one of the simplest ways to lift a low day - 18 Ways To Make 2018 Your Best Year Ever: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/18-ways-to-make-2018-your-best-year-ever Discover 18 transformative strategies captured in an engaging short film to make 2018 your most successful year yet, presented by Michael. - Nice To Be Nice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/nice-to-be-nice Mr Paul Mostyn has been spreading positivity by sitting outside his home with a sign encouraging acts of kindness, creating a ripple effect of goodwill among passers-by. Key takeaways: A simple sign asking people to be nice can spark real kindness in your street. | Small, consistent acts of positivity get noticed, and get copied by others. | You don't need a grand gesture to spread niceness, a smile and a wave will do. - Why Most Ideas Are Worthless: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-most-ideas-are-worthless Discover why most ideas are worthless without execution and how Honcho's innovative approach to insurance could transform the market, in this enlightening blog post by Michael. Key takeaways: A brilliant idea is worth nothing until you actually execute it. | Register the domain, write the plan, but if you never build it, someone else eventually will. | The businesses that succeed are the ones that push through the complicated, boring bits behind a simple idea. | Copying a great idea is easy in theory, but almost nobody actually does it. | Act on your idea now so you never have to say if only. - My Most Important Daily Ritual: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-most-important-daily-ritual The most important daily ritual shared by successful individuals, including the author, involves maintaining a "Grateful List" to end each day with a positive perspective. Key takeaways: Most highly successful people practise some kind of daily routine, whatever form it takes | End each day with a Grateful List: five things you're thankful for, written down | A simple gratitude ritual gives you a lens to put the whole day into perspective | The habit doesn't need to be complicated, exercise, planning or a simple daily note all count | Do your ritual consistently: repeated daily, it becomes far more powerful than a one-off effort - I Had One Hell Of A Day: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-had-one-hell-of-a-day Join me on a transformative journey of silent introspection as I embark on a challenging 'Day Without Words,' raising £2,000 for Changing Lives and discovering the profound beauty of communication and solitude. Key takeaways: Pair a personal challenge with a charity target, it gives you extra leverage to see it through. | Push past the first few uncomfortable minutes of silence or stillness, that's usually where the calm begins. | Removing familiar stimuli, even music, can reveal how much you rely on them without noticing. | Simple things become amazing once you look beyond the first moments and remove distractions. | Notice how much you take everyday things, like words and conversation, for granted. - You're Only Committed When You Commit: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/youre-only-committed-when-you-commit In a digital age full of distractions, Michael Heppell's challenge to spend a 'Day Without Words' on 7th November offers a unique way to support the charity Changing Lives, while urging others to commit to their promises by backing his 5:1 fundraising initiative. Key takeaways: Booking a date and telling people about your goal creates the leverage that stops you postponing it. | Saying yes is easy, but following it through takes real commitment, not just good intentions. | Fear is often False Evidence Appearing Real, so a challenge feels worse in your head than in reality. | A 5:1 matched giving challenge turns every £1 you donate into £5 of value for the charity. - How To Brainstorm: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-brainstorm Discover essential tips for successful brainstorming by following universal rules and uncovering often overlooked strategies in this insightful blog post. Key takeaways: Most brainstorms fail not from ignoring the obvious rules but from breaking the unsaid ones | Leave your ego at the door so ideas matter more than who suggested them | Ask the stupid question, then ask the next one, the best ideas often follow | Forget the budget while ideas are flowing, limitations can wait until later | Encourage every contribution and explore 'what if' to keep a brainstorm alive - They Were Fully Booked: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/they-were-fully-booked Overcome by FOMO, I went to great lengths to secure a table at a fully booked restaurant for a family meal, only to realise my priorities might have been misplaced. Key takeaways: Being told something is fully booked can make you want it more, even if it wasn't right for you in the first place | Ask yourself honestly: has a want become a need just because someone else has it or wants it too | Winning something through sheer determination doesn't guarantee it's actually what you wanted | Notice your own FOMO instincts before you act on them, not after | Fighting hardest for what's scarce isn't the same as choosing what will genuinely make you happy - Fundamentally Lazy: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/fundamentally-lazy Discover the art of balancing work and leisure, as illustrated by Michael's friend who thrives by working minimally in Greece, highlighting the importance of understanding personal motivation and lifestyle choices. Key takeaways: There is no single right amount of work: some people thrive on minimal hours, others on grafting hard. | Know what genuinely motivates you before deciding how much you work and how much you rest. | A short, focused burst of effort can earn enough to fund a long stretch of downtime, if that suits your lifestyle. | Be honest about your own nature rather than chasing what you think you should want. - Be what is missing: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/be-what-is-missing Discover a simple yet brilliant leadership idea: embody the role that's missing in any situation to effectively fill gaps and enhance team dynamics. Key takeaways: As a leader, spot who is missing from the room, then become that person | No chair for the meeting? Step up. Already got one? Be the facilitator instead | If no one is taking notes, be humble, grab a pen and do it yourself | When people nod but clearly don't understand, ask the daft question everyone else is avoiding | In a timid group, volunteer to make the presentation; in a team of starters, be the finisher - What Just Chillin Could Be Costing: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-just-chillin-could-be-costing Discover the benefits of Quality Recovery Time over mere chilling, and learn how to refresh your body, mind, and soul with mindful activities. Key takeaways: Chillin' and Quality Recovery Time (QRT) aren't the same thing, so choose deliberately. | QRT means refreshing your body, mind and soul, not just switching your brain off in front of a box set. | Late nights, takeaways and box sets have their place, but too much leaves you needing a rest from your rest. | Sort your downtime activities into two lists: true QRT (a walk, yoga, meditation, a gratitude list) versus mere chillin'. | On your next free day, choose one QRT activity on purpose instead of defaulting to chillin'. - Wow What A Response: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/wow-what-a-response Readers challenged me to step out of my comfort zone with creative suggestions, inspiring me to commit to spending a day without words and experiencing a helicopter flight, proving that pushing personal boundaries leads to massive results. Key takeaways: Ask other people to challenge you: outside suggestions push you further than self set goals | Choose challenges that stretch you mentally, not just physically, for the biggest growth | Set a public commitment with a deadline, it makes backing out much harder | Massive action leads to massive results, so commit to acting within a fixed timeframe | Tell 10 people about your goal, you are far more likely to follow through - Why I'm Terrified: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-im-terrified Discover how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to significant personal growth and join Michael Heppell's daring challenge by committing to a stretch goal and sharing it with 10 others for accountability. Key takeaways: Real growth happens outside your comfort zone, but discomfort is why most people avoid it | Pick just one thing in the next 7 days that will genuinely stretch you | Tell 10 people what you're committed to doing, you're far more likely to follow through | Sharing a goal publicly builds accountability that keeping it private never will - Two Thirds: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/two-thirds Re-evaluate your path with the Wheel of Life to maximise the final third of 2017, as shared in Michael Heppell's insightful August reflection. Key takeaways: Reaching two thirds through the year is a natural prompt to re-evaluate your Wheel of Life. | Schedule dedicated time with your partner to review your goals together, not just on your own. | You can't change for the better if you don't know what actually needs to change. | Already completed a Wheel of Life before. Revisit it now, priorities shift over the year. | Real time off matters. Walking the talk sometimes means stepping back before pushing on. - The World's Rudest Restaurant: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-worlds-rudest-restaurant Discover the unconventional charm and unapologetic attitude of Dick’s Last Resort, where irreverence meets hilarity for an unforgettable dining experience. Key takeaways: Knowing exactly what you and your organisation stand for is the foundation of brilliant service | Live your values consistently, rather than just claiming them, and customers will notice the difference | An unapologetic, consistent brand identity builds more loyalty than a bland promise of good service | Many businesses claim great service but fall short because they never define what they actually stand for | Decide what you stand for first, then work out how you and your team will live it every day - Intuition vs FOMO: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/intuition-vs-fomo Explore how to overcome FOMO and trust your intuition by asking insightful questions to maintain balance and make purposeful decisions. Key takeaways: Truly following your intuition means learning to say no to opportunities, temptations and requests. | FOMO is the arch enemy of intuition, so build a few simple tips to keep your balance. | Before accepting an invitation, ask yourself: if this event was tonight, would I want to go? | If your honest answer is no, politely decline rather than agreeing out of fear of missing out. | FOMO fades once you know your purpose, and powerful questions reinforce that purpose. - Why you should sit on the right: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-should-sit-on-the-right For the most breathtaking views on the scenic East Coast rail journey from Newcastle to Edinburgh, ensure you sit on the right side of the train. Key takeaways: On the Newcastle to Edinburgh East Coast line, sit on the right for the best views. | Around 40% of passengers sit on the wrong side and miss the view entirely. | Missed everyday opportunities, an unread book, an unmade call, work the same way. | If you're in the wrong seat, stand up, move and enjoy the view instead of settling for less. | Durham Cathedral is also visible from the right hand side of the train. - Happy International Day Of Happiness: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/happy-international-day-of-happiness Celebrate International Day of Happiness by supporting Sara Cox's 24-hour 80s Disco Dance Marathon for Comic Relief, and discover the joy of spreading happiness through giving. Key takeaways: Drop the word try from the Action for Happiness pledge and commit to creating joy today. | Giving to others is one of the simplest ways to spread happiness and feel happier yourself. | A small gesture, like a supportive tweet, can genuinely lift someone taking on a big challenge. | Treat a fresh day, or the start of a new week, as your cue to create more happiness around you. - How To Get The Best Seats In The House - Lesson 3 from Ronnie Scotts: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-get-the-best-seats-in-the-house-lesson-3-from-ronnie-scotts Learn how to secure the best seats at Ronnie Scott’s by simply asking the Maître D' for your preferred table, ensuring a top-tier experience that many overlook. Key takeaways: At Ronnie Scott's you don't book a specific seat, the Maitre D' shows you to a table on arrival. | To get a better table, simply ask. Be pleasant on your way in, then request a specific seat. | Knowing your favourite table number helps, especially if you've been there before. | Most people never ask for what they want. Don't be most people. | Asking costs nothing, so be gracious if refused and grateful when your request is granted. - 3 Lessons From Ronnie Scotts - Lesson 2 - Choice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3-lessons-from-ronnie-scotts-lesson-2-choice Discover why offering alternatives can enhance customer experience, as illustrated by the missed opportunity at Ronnie Scott's when patrons were turned away without being directed to their half-full second venue. Key takeaways: Always follow bad news with a solution or alternative, never leave it hanging. | A flat no, with nothing else offered, sends customers straight to your competitors. | Check whether you have another option to offer before turning someone away. | Small, easy fixes (like pointing to the venue next door) can save a sale you'd otherwise lose. - 3 Lessons From Ronnie Scotts - Lesson 1 - Talent: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/3-lessons-from-ronnie-scotts-lesson-1-talent Discover the harmony of teamwork over solo brilliance from a night at Ronnie Scott's, as even the most talented individuals shine brightest when they play in unison. Key takeaways: Individual talent can work against a team if it isn't playing to the same tune as everyone else. | Hiring a brilliant new person achieves nothing if they don't fit how the existing team already plays. | A team that plays the same piece together beats a room full of soloists showing off. | When a team truly gels, customers notice and join in rather than just watching. | Talent is only great when it's part of a team, not a solo act. - FFFFriday Feeling: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ffffriday-feeling This blog post proposes a playful renaming of the days of the week to combat the Sunday night blues, celebrating the joy of Fridays and aiming for a week filled with positivity and enthusiasm. Key takeaways: The Sunday night blues often follow a great Friday, so name that feeling to fight it | Rename your days with positive words, Fantastic Friday, Magnificent Monday, Wonderful Wednesday, to change how you feel about them | A simple language shift can carry the joy of Friday through the whole week | Enthusiasm for a day is a habit you can choose and repeat, not just something Friday gets - A customer service quick win: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-customer-service-quick-win Enhance your customer service by prioritising speed and responsiveness, as demonstrated by doorhandleparts.co.uk's impressive late-night solution delivery for a simple £1.19 sale. Key takeaways: Speed is one of the quickest wins in customer service: respond sooner, move faster, deliver quicker. | A fast, personal reply, even to a tiny £1.19 sale, makes a lasting impression on customers. | Waiting even 24 hours for a reply can feel like an age to a customer, so don't let it drag. | Call customers back sharper and answer enquiries the same day wherever you can. - What I do when I can't be bothered: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-i-do-when-i-cant-be-bothered Discover how author Michael Heppell tackles writer's block with music, dance, and delayed gratification to boost productivity and conquer procrastination. Key takeaways: When you can't be bothered to write, play a track from your get-off-your-arse playlist and dance it out first | Use delayed gratification: write 500 words before you allow yourself that first coffee and toast | Most authors hand in manuscripts on the final deadline day, so don't beat yourself up for leaving it late | A three-step routine (move, then write, then reward yourself) beats waiting for motivation to strike - Make Your Message Memorable: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/make-your-message-memorable Discover the power of storytelling to make your messages memorable and retellable, with insights from leadership expert Ben Morton and his new book "Mission Leadership - Lifting the Mask". Key takeaways: A story only earns its keep if it's retellable, someone else can pass it on almost word for word | Keep your message simple: the best jokes, company visions and speeches never need pages to land | Great speakers move past facts and figures and focus on what those numbers mean to the room | If a story is worth telling, make it easy for your audience to become your storytellers too - Blue M&Ms: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/blue-mms During a recent presentation at the London Business Forum, the thoughtful surprise of receiving a bag of all-blue M&Ms humorously highlighted the shared fun values between the speaker and the event organisers, reinforcing their connection. Key takeaways: A thoughtful, unexpected gift shows someone has really read and understood you. | Small creative gestures, done well, strengthen connection far more than generic ones. | Think about who you could surprise with a creative gift, then actually give it. | Shared humour and fun values build rapport as much as professionalism does. - 17 Places to Eat, Drink and Stay in 2017: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/17-places Discover 17 top places for dining, drinking, and staying in 2017, based on personal favourites, from the renowned RAT Inn in Northumberland to the vibrant Union Square Café in New York, offering a diverse selection of culinary and travel experiences. Key takeaways: The Rat Inn in Northumberland is a top 50 UK gastro pub, try the rib of beef or the kimchi Scotch egg | Formentera beats its noisier neighbour Ibiza for beaches, food and quiet, stay at Can Aisha and dine at Marea | Visit Cuba now, before commercialisation changes it, and have a daiquiri at Hemingway's old haunt La Floridita | Book early for Barrafina's tapas in Soho, the queue can run to nearly two hours but it's worth it | Hotel 41 London, right by Buckingham Palace, offers some of the best customer service of any hotel - New Year Old You: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/new-year-old-you Kickstart your 2017 by facing the truth about the 'old you' with Michael Heppell's Wheel of Life exercise, designed to help you focus your energy for a transformative new year. Key takeaways: There's no 'new you' until you face up honestly to what's wrong with the old you. | Complete a Wheel of Life exercise with brutal honesty, it's a genuine wake up call. | Give yourself just 10 minutes to review your life and plan where to focus next. | The Wheel of Life won't tell you what to do, but shows where to focus for the next 90 days. | Watch the film, print your wheel and be honest with yourself to kickstart real change. - How To Survive And Thrive This Christmas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-survive-and-thrive-this-christmas Discover essential tips to survive and thrive this Christmas season with Michael Heppell's guide, featuring advice on staying calm, forgiving quickly, and embracing festive fun. Key takeaways: Breathe slowly, forgive fast and smile when you're set to scream: small resets get you through Christmas stress. | Say thank you quickly rather than letting gratitude slip by unnoticed. | Sleep whenever you can, naps genuinely count towards surviving the festive rush. | Have an escape plan ready for when family gatherings get too much. | Know when to stop: it's usually about an hour before you think you should. - Why you shouldn’t slow down this Christmas: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-shouldnt-slow-down-this-christmas Keep your momentum this Christmas by seizing opportunities, starting positive habits, and prioritising personal growth instead of waiting for the New Year. Key takeaways: Don't wait for January: the last two weeks of the year are still prime time to act | Make that difficult call you've been putting off, right now, not in the new year | Start your journal today so the habit is already formed before it usually fades in February | Use the run-up to Christmas to have a clear out and free up space for the new year | Carve out a few minutes of 'me time' daily to sit, breathe and be thankful - Complaints – a chance to shine: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/complaints-a-chance-to-shine Learn how to transform complaints into opportunities for improvement by fostering an environment where customer feedback is valued and employees are equipped with the confidence, humility, and desire to resolve issues effectively. Key takeaways: Watch for silent customers: the ones who never complain simply take their money elsewhere | A complaint rarely feels like a gift to the person receiving it, so train your team to handle that discomfort | Teach everyone who deals with complaints the mix of confidence, humility and a genuine desire to fix things | Give customers a space where they feel truly listened to and their feedback taken on board | Speaking up when something isn't right gives a business the chance to learn and improve - Why You Should Be Having More Meetings: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-should-be-having-more-meetings Discover why having more short, focused meetings can lead to better interactions and improved results in the workplace. Key takeaways: Meetings expand to fill the time you schedule, so book 45 minutes instead of an hour and you'll still get everything done | Aim for short, focused meetings of around 20 minutes: share, listen, make decisions, then get out | If the meat of the meeting is done early, wrap it up rather than running to the clock | Time is your most valuable asset, so spend it well in every meeting you call | More shorter meetings lead to better interactions and improved results - 18,000 days: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/18000-days Celebrate 18,000 days of life with a commitment to positivity and making a difference, as explored in this inspiring blog post by Michael. Key takeaways: Treat every day as another chance to make a positive difference, however small. | A smile, a compliment or a thank you can take just one second, so there is no excuse not to give it. | Set your intent to leave a positive impact daily, even on the days you miss. | Plan for tens of thousands more days ahead, not just the one in front of you. - What WOW looks like: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-wow-looks-like Discover the magic of exceptional customer service and genuine care at Utopia The Country Bar in Birmingham, where even after hours, the chef's kindness created a memorable 'wow' experience for diners. Key takeaways: A wow moment doesn't need to be spectacular, it just needs to show real care | When you can't meet a request, offer an alternative instead of a flat no | How you greet people sets the tone for the whole experience that follows | The smallest gesture, like a chef offering to cook after hours, creates the strongest memories | Genuine care beats polished process every time when it comes to service - My Massive Communication Fail: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/my-massive-communication-fail In his blog post, Michael shares a humorous anecdote about a communication mishap with a new friend, highlighting the importance of fully listening before responding to questions. Key takeaways: Listen to the whole question before you start forming your answer. | The brain often fires a response the moment it has enough information, not all of it. | A half heard question gets a random, off target answer. | Slow down in conversation so you answer what was actually asked, not what you assumed. | Notice how often people, including you, answer before the question is finished. - The difference between most and Mark: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-difference-between-most-and-mark Discover how Mark Hearn turned his fatherhood book idea into a published reality by taking proactive steps, unlike most aspiring authors who struggle to bring their stories to life. Key takeaways: Most people say they have a book inside them, but very few ever get it out | Knowing what to do and actually doing it are two very different things | Start writing now: begin a blog, post several times a week and build your outline | Pitch publishers with a strong idea, listen to their feedback and adapt your book if needed | If publishers say no but you believe in your book, self-publish it anyway - Back to School Blues: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/back-to-school-blues Embrace the "Back to School Blues" by easing into post-summer productivity with manageable goals, stimulating reads, and stepping out of your comfort zone to make the last few months of 2016 the most productive. Key takeaways: Ease back into work gently first, brain warming beats diving straight in and burning out | Set a six month goal to hit by year end, over 100 days is plenty for massive action | Read or listen to one personal development book in the next week to stimulate your thinking | Do one thing that makes you extremely uncomfortable within the next 48 hours | Recognise the difference between brain warming and procrastination, one prepares you to act, the other avoids it - Adam Stinks Of Tabs: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/adam-stinks-of-tabs In a humorous recount of a dinner meeting disrupted by the lingering smell of cigarettes, the blog emphasises the importance of addressing workplace standards through effective communication, introduced in the "Hearts and Minds" Customer Service and People Development Programme. Key takeaways: When standards slip, someone has to say something, staying silent doesn't protect anyone. | Awkward feedback is still your job if you care about the customer's experience. | It's rarely what you say that matters most, it's your confidence, intent and tone. | Build a culture where colleagues feel able to help each other improve, not just their bosses. | Small personal habits, like smoking, can shape how a client experiences your whole business. - Our Tips Go To Charity: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/our-tips-go-to-charity Discover why effective communication and articulating your purpose can enhance charitable giving, as highlighted by an experience at the Love Supreme Festival. Key takeaways: Knowing the what isn't enough, you need to articulate the why behind what you do | If you can name the cause you're supporting, people will back you again and again | Turn a flat job title into a specific outcome, like homes provided rather than housing work | Never use the word 'only' to describe your job, it shrinks how others see your value | Choose your words carefully, because your choice of words defines you - When you fall out of love: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/when-you-fall-out-of-love Explore the art of rekindling passion in your career by remembering your 'why', connecting with industry leaders, and knowing when it might be time to embrace new opportunities. Key takeaways: Good things fade when people lose heart, not because the work itself changed. | Reconnect with your 'why': think about your customer and how you make their life better. | Spend time with the best in your industry, their energy can reignite your own. | If you're at work for a third of your life and you don't love it, don't do it. | Ask yourself honestly why you've lost your spark, then decide what you'll do to get it back. - If you’re waiting for if: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/if-youre-waiting-for-if Discover how June, a dedicated school chef in Northumberland, inspires brilliance through her exceptional care and commitment, challenging the limitations of "if" in our pursuit of excellence. Key takeaways: Brilliance is a choice about how much you care, not the size of your job or budget. | Watch for the word if: it's one of the biggest barriers to becoming brilliant. | Excuses like more time, bigger budget or being the boss are just if in disguise. | Waiting for if is like promising to start your diet tomorrow, it never actually arrives. | Stop waiting for the right conditions. Be brilliant now, with what you already have. - I've seen your future: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/ive-seen-your-future Mystic Michael predicts that 2016 will require change and proactive strategies, urging businesses to embrace transformation for improved outcomes, as detailed in his updated blog at MichaelHeppell.com. Key takeaways: Hope is not a strategy: crossing your fingers and hoping for better numbers will not change them. | If you want the rest of your year to improve, start doing something different today. | Accept that change, even small changes, will feel painful before it brings any benefit. | Sometimes you have to turn off the old way and fire up the new, even before you feel ready. - What Paul Daniels Taught Me About Confidence: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-paul-daniels-taught-me-about-confidence-4 In this blog post, the author reflects on how a brief but impactful encounter with Paul Daniels at the Blackpool Magic Convention in 1994 gave them a significant boost in confidence and inspired their short-lived career as "Magic Michael," highlighting the importance of taking a few minutes to uplift others. Key takeaways: A few minutes of genuine encouragement from someone you admire can spark real, lasting confidence. | People at the top of their field rarely need to be kind to beginners, so notice it when they choose to be. | Praise someone's effort specifically and sincerely rather than offering vague, generic compliments. | Take five minutes today to make someone else feel special: the impact can outlast the moment by decades. | Skills picked up from a hobby you love, even a short lived one, can build confidence you carry into everything else. - Have Apple Dropped The Ball?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/have-apple-dropped-the-ball Apple's legendary customer service reputation is called into question after a disappointing experience at their Covent Garden store, raising concerns about potential declines in service quality. Key takeaways: Even the best brands can drop the ball, so never assume your reputation makes you immune to poor service. | Answer an obvious customer question with warmth, not a dismissive one-liner. It costs nothing extra. | Turn any obvious question into a chance to show the whole range and help the customer further. | You're only as good as your last customer transaction, no matter how strong your history is. | One dismissive response can undo years of a legendary customer service reputation. - Is this the worlds greatest busker?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-this-the-worlds-greatest-busker Discover the creativity and uniqueness of the world's greatest buskers, from a flame-throwing euphonium player in Trafalgar Square to a Darth Vader impersonator singing *Gangsta's Paradise* in Newcastle, proving that standing out is key in the bustling street performance scene. Key takeaways: Standing out beats playing it safe, whether you're busking or building a business. | Ordinary skill, however well executed, gets ignored: a strummed pop song or a standard juggling act is old news. | A bold, unexpected twist, like flames or a costume, is what makes people stop and pay. | Genuine originality gets rewarded: both standout buskers were the ones making money. | Ask yourself what makes you stop and watch, then build that quality into your own performance. - He Ate His Own Brain: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/he-ate-his-own-brain Discover the intriguing life of the sea squirt, a creature that consumes its own brain once it finds a permanent home, and explore how this behaviour metaphorically prompts humans to keep their minds active and continually seek personal growth beyond comfort zones. Key takeaways: Once you settle into comfort, it's tempting to stop growing, just like the sea squirt eats its own brain | Getting comfortable and staying put is how brilliant brains slow down and stagnate | Actively seek new stimulus rather than settling for the first place you find success | Humans are designed to keep changing and adapting, not to stay fixed once comfortable - Why I won’t be using willpower in 2016: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-i-wont-be-using-will-power-in-2016 Discover how embracing 'Won't Power' instead of willpower can transform your 2016 by focusing on what you choose not to do for a more positive and intentional year. Key takeaways: Willpower is hard to summon exactly when you need it most, so lean on Won't Power instead | Define your year as much by what you won't do as by what you will do | Write a list of 5 things you won't do this year to build your Won't Power muscle | Small flips, like not eating once you're full or not holding a grudge, make goals easier to keep | A simple change of framing can make an action, goal, or habit far easier to stick to - ‘Michael, this is your translator.’: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/michael-this-is-your-translator Discover how the exceptional simultaneous translator Maria Santa's thorough preparation and vibrant engagement elevated my international presentation experience. Key takeaways: A brilliant performance is usually just the visible tip of hours of preparation underneath | Before any big event, do the homework: watch, read and immerse yourself in the subject | Genuine enthusiasm for the work, not just competence, is what audiences notice and remember | Ask yourself what your prep is and what work you still need to put in | Preparation applies everywhere: a sale, a meeting or a meal all depend on the groundwork done beforehand - 30 feel good fun ideas guaranteed to make you smile: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/931 Discover 30 feel-good activities to lift your spirits and make this the best Christmas ever with our ultimate guide to spreading joy and positivity throughout the festive season. Key takeaways: Say I love you to at least one person every day, even if that person is you. | Slow down and breathe, especially in the run up to and over Christmas itself. | Swap news consumption and Black Friday shopping for gratitude lists and small kindnesses. | Small daily gestures, a compliment, a hug, a smile at a stranger, add up to real joy. | Don't wait for January to make a change you know you want to make now. - Look out America. How British companies are becoming the new masters of 5 Star Service: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/look-out-america-how-british-companies-are-becoming-the-new-masters-of-5-star-service British companies like Red Carnation Hotels, Boodles, and Brilliant Bikes are setting new standards for exceptional customer service, rivalling their American counterparts with personalised experiences and unwavering dedication to client satisfaction. Key takeaways: Research every guest's preferences in advance, even first timers, so small touches feel personal | Say yes to unusual requests where you can, then work out the logistics afterwards | Deliver service personally when it matters, it turns customers into lifelong friends | Invest time, money and energy in training staff to engage customers at a higher level | Keep every promise exactly as made, reliability builds trust faster than grand gestures - Why I Put Stuff Off: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-i-put-stuff-off In the blog post "Why I Put Stuff Off," the writer discusses common procrastination tendencies, sharing their simple yet powerful strategy of repeating "DO IT NOW" to overcome delays and encouraging readers to take immediate action on tasks, no matter how small. Key takeaways: Say DO IT NOW out loud the moment you catch yourself stalling, then act on anything, large or small. | Tackling a report or proposal feels less daunting once you reframe it as just writing the first 100 words. | Booking the hotel first makes the rest of a trip fall into place, so start with the one decision that unlocks everything else. | Phone people instead of emailing when you need to set something up, it moves things along faster. | Procrastination is sold to you by things that profit from your delay, recognise that before you lose another evening to it. - The Problem With Your Customer Feedback: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/the-problem-with-your-customer-feedback The blog post "The Problem With Your Customer Feedback" argues that meaningful conversations with customers are more valuable than traditional surveys, which often fail to capture genuine feedback due to limited participation from truly satisfied or dissatisfied customers. Key takeaways: One good face to face conversation with a customer is worth more than 100 tick box surveys | Surveys mostly get filled in by the delighted or the devastated, not the average customer in between | Many businesses avoid real conversations because they don't want to hear the problems or take responsibility | Data can be made to say almost anything, so question who is actually providing it | Don't scrap your surveys, just make sure you never lose touch with the real people behind them - I used to be the best...: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/i-used-to-be-the-best Discover why continuous growth and embracing new challenges are the keys to renewed success in "I Used to Be the Best," urging us to focus on the future rather than resting on past laurels. Key takeaways: Trading on past successes, an old award, a faded certificate, is like leaving your Christmas decorations up in June | Decide whether you want to be known as used to be the best or still on the way up | The very best never stop learning and keep moving out of their comfort zone | Focus on the future rather than resting on former glory to earn renewed success and recognition - Why Most Restaurants Hate TripAdvisor: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-most-restaurants-hate-tripadvisor Discover why many restaurants express frustration with TripAdvisor's perceived unfair rating system and how embracing both positive and negative reviews can empower owners to enhance their business, as illustrated in Michael's encounter with a Marbella restaurant owner. Key takeaways: If you're giving great service, ask every customer for a review, good or bad. | Being open to bad reviews, not just good ones, is what gives you the confidence to ask. | Competitors who actively ask for ratings will outrank you if you stay quiet. | A fear of asking, not the review system itself, is usually the real problem. - A Smile On Their Face And A Smile In Their Heart: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-smile-on-their-face-and-a-smile-in-their-heart Discover why genuine warmth, exemplified by a smile on your face and in your heart, is the secret to exceptional customer service, as shared by the founder of China's largest golf resort in Michael's insightful blog post, "A Smile On Their Face And A Smile In Their Heart." Key takeaways: Hire for warmth first, you can teach customer service techniques but not a caring heart. | Without genuine warmth, well trained staff become robots who say the right things but feel dead behind the eyes. | Customers remember how bad news was delivered, not just what was said, if they can tell you cared. | Caring about customers first leads naturally to more money, fewer complaints and a better feeling for everyone. - A most unusual profit centre: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-most-unusual-profit-centre Discover the hidden profit centres in your business and understand the importance of building trust and emotional connections with your customers to enhance their purchasing decisions, as explored in the new edition of "5 Star Service" by Michael. Key takeaways: Look beyond the obvious profit centres like restaurant desserts or retail insurance, hidden ones are more valuable | Every add-on sale is really the result of a decision made much earlier in the relationship | Poor service on the main event kills the appetite for the extras, so get the basics right first | Customers only buy add-ons like warranties when they trust they will be looked after if they claim | Keep making deposits into your customers' emotional bank accounts before you ever ask for the sale - Co-operation vs Annihilation: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/co-operation-vs-annihilation Explore the contrasting dynamics of competitive annihilation versus playful co-operation through the lens of Novak Djokovic's intense tennis matches compared to the harmonious spirit of beach tennis, and discover how fostering collaboration in the workplace can yield more meaningful success. Key takeaways: Notice the difference between playing to win and playing to keep the game going | Set up the person opposite you for success instead of trying to beat them | Colleagues who try to destroy rather than support each other hold businesses back, whatever the sector or size | Try a simple team exercise, like bat and ball games in the office, to build a habit of co-operation | Co-operation nurtures far more people than competition ever will - What will you with your online review?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/what-will-you-with-your-online-review Embrace online reviews as a crucial tool for boosting your business, as they not only have the potential to increase your customer base by 40% but also highlight the importance of addressing negative feedback promptly to maintain a positive reputation. Key takeaways: It is rarely a negative review that damages you, it is how you deal with it | Online reviews can generate up to a 40% increase in business per year (TrustPilot) | 62% of people say they are more likely to buy after reading a positive review | 60% of consumers have written a review in the last year, 83% of them positive | Deal with negative reviews swiftly, ignored ones do far more damage than the review itself - How to work a tradeshow: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/how-to-work-a-tradeshow Learn valuable tips on effectively working a tradeshow, from offering genuinely free items and engaging with visitors to understanding the importance of asking for the sale, based on insights from the London Taste Festival. Key takeaways: If you offer something for free, make it genuinely free, don't ask visitors for their life story in return | One brilliant, engaged team member can outsell a lavish stand with a tiny budget and real energy | A huge budget doesn't guarantee crowds, personality and banter draw people in far more reliably | Great samples and friendly chat count for nothing if you never actually ask for the sale | Always close: invite people to buy, don't wait for them to ask if you're selling - 7 Bonkers and Brilliant Interview Questions: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/7-bonkers-and-brilliant-interview-questions Discover seven unconventional interview questions that challenge your creativity and problem-solving skills, as shared in a quirky blog post featuring contributions from companies like Dropbox and Google. Key takeaways: Big name employers such as Dropbox, Google, Apple, AirBnB and Kraft Foods have all asked left field interview questions. | Real examples include estimating cows in Canada, describing yellow to someone blind, and rating the interviewer out of ten. | These offbeat questions challenge your creativity and problem solving, not just your knowledge of the role. | There is rarely an obvious right answer, so use them to show how you think under pressure. - Poor Andrew: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/poor-andrew Empowering employees with clear decision-making frameworks could enhance customer service experiences, as illustrated by Andrew's story on the Trans Pennine Express; for more insights, check out '5 Star Service', the UK's best-selling customer service book by Michael. Key takeaways: Real empowerment means telling staff exactly how much time and money they can spend, not just saying they're trusted. | Without a clear decision-making framework, staff who think they're empowered still won't act like it. | A small, well-explained gesture (like offering a low-cost extra) builds far more goodwill than the cash value suggests. | When staff hesitate to help, the problem is usually missing guidelines, not poor attitude. | Explaining a limitation honestly and offering an alternative beats a flat, unhelpful no. - Why you should always sing Happy Birthday: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-you-should-always-sing-happy-birthday Joining in with a chorus of "Happy Birthday" at a restaurant not only spreads joy but can lead to unexpected rewards, as demonstrated by the surprise gift of a fine wine for participating in the celebration. Key takeaways: You don't know 'til you go: ask for the table, join in the song, take the chance. | Joining in, even with strangers, is noticed and appreciated far more than you'd expect. | It's always easier to sit back, but stepping up is where good things happen. | Small acts of enthusiasm can lead to unexpected generosity from others. | Be part of the celebration rather than a bystander to it. - Why Urgent Can Wait: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/901 Discover why prioritising importance over urgency can transform your productivity, as Michael Heppell explains in his latest blog post on effective time management. Key takeaways: Each evening, write down the five most important things to do tomorrow, then do them. | 'To do' lists rarely work because they mix urgent tasks with genuinely important ones. | Know the difference between urgent and important, and let importance win when they clash. | If a task doesn't make your top five, be prepared to leave it undone that day. | Build a daily habit of planning tomorrow's priorities before today ends. - Milk and No Sugar Please Sir Richard: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/milk-and-no-sugar-please-sir-richard Discover the challenges facing Virgin East Coast as they strive for outstanding customer service by revolutionising their approach to meet rising customer expectations in Michael's latest blog post, 'Milk and No Sugar Please Sir Richard'. Key takeaways: Lead by example on service standards, focus on what to do well rather than just what to avoid | Most people who need to improve their service already believe they're good at it, so self-assessment alone won't fix it | Raising customer satisfaction isn't enough if you're aiming low, aim to create loyal, devoted, enthused customers instead | Rising customer expectations mean standing still on service actually means falling behind | Real improvement needs a genuine revolution in service, serious investment in training, zero tolerance of poor performance, and real recognition for those who put customers first - A lesson for every boss: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/a-lesson-for-every-boss The blog post, "A Lesson for Every Boss," highlights the importance of providing certainty over camaraderie in management, illustrating how effective leadership, rather than friendship, ensures a successful and stable workplace environment. Key takeaways: Employees don't want to be your friend, they want certainty from you as their boss | Being liked isn't the same as being a good manager, and chasing it can backfire | Fun perks and bonus schemes won't fix poor management or stop good people leaving | Give your team clarity and stability first, camaraderie is a bonus, not a substitute - Is this the best worst marketing idea ever?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-this-the-best-worst-marketing-idea-ever A local milkman's quirky marketing strategy of using out-of-date milk cartons as leaflet holders sparks confusion but serves as a reminder of the importance of understanding customer perceptions to convey the right brand message. Key takeaways: Ask your customers what your marketing actually communicates, not what you intend it to say. | The message you send and the message received can be poles apart, so check for the gap. | A well meaning gesture, like an out of date sample, can send entirely the wrong signal about your brand. | Listening to the voice of your customer is worth more than any marketing or advertising campaign. | Small businesses win on the personal touches big competitors cannot match, so make sure those touches land well. - Valentines Advice: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/888 Discover valuable Valentine's Day advice from Christine and Michael, offering humorous and practical tips to enhance your relationship, with insights tailored for both men and women. Key takeaways: Choose to be married rather than right, arguing to win rarely helps a relationship. | Really listen, claiming you didn't hear is no excuse for not paying attention. | Treat 'I'll be five minutes' as a rough guide, not a promise, and plan accordingly. | If you want a specific gift, say exactly what it is rather than dropping hints. | Praise generously and often, a kind word about how someone looks means more than you think. - It’s not the snow that stops you: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/its-not-the-snow-that-stops-you Fear, not snow, holds us back from seizing opportunities, so challenge yourself to overcome imagined consequences for personal growth and confidence. Key takeaways: What frightens you is rarely the thing itself, it's the imagined consequence that follows | Challenge a colleague's behaviour and you'll usually earn more respect, not less | Trying something new tends to create fun, not the embarrassment you fear | Picking up the phone builds real bonds, so don't hide behind email | Audiences are on your side, so do one thing that scares you today - Is This Literally The Best Newsletter Ever?: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/is-this-literally-the-best-newsletter-ever Discover the importance of language precision and the potential pitfalls of over-promising in customer communications, as illustrated through a humorous take on the misuse of the word 'literally' from a posh London hotel room. Key takeaways: Words like 'literally' promise something exact, so only use them when you mean it | Customers remember an over-promise long after you've forgotten making it | Choose language with care: a small exaggeration can quietly damage trust | Treat every word you give a customer as a bond, not just a figure of speech - It’s not about the Ryder Cup: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/its-not-about-the-ryder-cup Discover how The Gleneagles Hotel prioritises exceptional day-to-day service over large events like the Ryder Cup, ensuring unforgettable customer experiences that keep visitors returning year after year. Key takeaways: Don't let a big, exciting event distract you from your everyday, core service. | Focus on the day-to-day: it's less sexy than a landmark event, but it builds lasting loyalty. | When something goes wrong, own it fully. No blaming, no excuses, just offer a solution. | Ask genuine follow-up questions, not just the standard ones, and know when to stop chatting. | Sharing your knowledge with real passion teaches people far more than simply knowing it yourself. - From France to Blighty in 1st and 5th: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/from-france-to-blighty-in-1st-and-5th Follow Professor Stephen Heppell's metaphorical journey from France to Blighty as inspiration to strategically shift gears in life for achieving your goals, all while maintaining energy and control. Key takeaways: You have more than two gears to reach your goals, so use all of them, not just start and cruise | Use 1st gear to get going with energy, passion and oomph | Use 2nd gear when you need to stay in control, steer quickly and change direction easily | Don't linger in 3rd gear, staying too long there makes your engine (and you) scream | When your rev counter feels like it's in the red or you're ready to stall, change gear - Why 2015 Won’t Be Your Best Year Ever: https://www.michaelheppell.com/blog/post/why-2015-wont-be-your-best-year-ever Discover how to make 2015 your best year yet by breaking destructive habits, prioritising self-investment, and focusing on personal growth with this essential guide. Key takeaways: Tackle a destructive habit and do five things from your too hard list. | Spend time with people who are better than you, and cut back on time wasters like social media. | Take positive action instead of just positive thinking, it moves you forward faster. | Invest in yourself first: it pays a bigger return than any stock market, ISA, pension or property. | Stop procrastinating. Decide, then do it now, not eventually. ## Elsewhere - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelheppell/ - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/michaelheppell - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michael.heppell/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michaelheppell